I just found out from a "past" friend that this girl I really like just played me super bad. For the past two hours I have been the most angry at anyone other than my parents in my entire life. My feelings were toyed with and then discarded like I don't matter. Its funny because the girl never even told me how she felt... I had to wait and hear it from my so called friend, who went and talked to her even though I had asked him not to. He even went ahead and told her everything I had told him in confidence. Wow Im getting more mad as I write this lol. Anyways, so Ive been on the phone for the last two hours fuming to another friend. I log online when I get home and notice that she sent me an email... saying nothing about how she felt... nothing about needing to talk, just random stupid things. But then she sounded sad because she couldnt go into town tomorrow and she was pretty down, and I felt sad for her I wanted to go hug her. All I think about is her, and I need to stop. But how?
2007-03-31 18:10:06 · 7 answers · asked by teh_masta_of_all 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those still wondering how she played me, a week ago I had asked her out and she told me she only wanted to be friends. Yesterday she made out with me, and I mean like MADE out with me lol. Here I was thinking mabe her feelings changed or something. She pretty much lead me on the rest of the night. Held my hand stayed and walked with me leaned on me, etc... the night ended well and I thought well mabe she changed her mind but I would have gotten over it if she said she stillw anted to be friends and it was just a one time thing... I mean she could have just said ya I was horney and I would have been like "ok"!. But then I heard from this "past" friend that she told him (I havent heard from her since he talked to her a few hours ago) she was confused and that she wanted to see if there was a spark. Remember only a week ago she wanted to be just friends and I had said ok. Now once we made out she told him there was no spark, yet she still lead me on. She still hasnt talked to me...
2007-03-31 18:30:28 · update #1
Other than what I said the last time I answered this question, sleep helps. Also, try doing something fun, or reading a book, or something. Listen to some upbeat music. Something, anything, not related to her. Good luck!
2007-03-31 18:14:00 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what I've done in the past when people have done really hurtful things to me and it worked: I just took out a few sheets of paper and started writing letters to the person/people I was furious with. I said whatever I wanted to until I had nothing left, then put the letters away for a few days to a week. If you still are feeling the same way by the end of this time, tell the people who offended you how you feel, but make sure you can keep your emotions in check when you do. Yelling at them usually ruins any relationship left. I hope you feel better soon. Good luck!
2007-03-31 18:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by swimmer2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god that is so horrible! I'm so sorry, hon! It's going to take some time to get over her. Just a bit of advice, DON'T go out with her again. Even if she comes out and says how she 'really feels.' Remember what she just did to you. The best way to stop thinking about her, is to distract yourself. Read a good book, watch a favorite movie, hang out with some good friends, There are some jerky people out there, you have to remember that. There are also some amazing people out there too that can help you get over things like this (and NO, I am NOT talking about a therapist!).
2007-03-31 18:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you sound sweet...how did she play you? Also, sometimes we cant believe what other people say...go straight to the source...if she is still emailing you, she must like you...i couldnt imagine she would be that calculated unless she is using your feelings against you...just be careful with your feelings and try not get get too mad...
2007-03-31 18:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothings wrong, your just angry. put on some loud music and fume for a while. punch a pillow, or scream into one, try going for a drive someplace far away. it's alright to be angry. you'll get over it and it'll work out.
2007-03-31 18:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she played you so bad why is it so hard to forget about her? when you start feeling bad for her or miss her just think about how she played you
2007-03-31 18:16:42 · answer #6 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with you at all.
2007-03-31 18:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by .:aRi:. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋