they have been married not even a year and he wants a divorce so we can get married, he has already payed, filed and sent the papers but she cant be found and she wont sign!he is in the marines and he leaves for iraq in july! can someone please help qick?
2007-03-31 18:05:02 · 7 answers · asked by safewaychick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously he doesn't WANT to divorce his wife. There is a time limit on divorce papers. If she hasn't "answered" (responded) to them within a certain amount of time he would be granted a default judgement of divorce. Her signature is not needed. If he is telling you it is then he didn't file any papers and they certainly were not sent (FYI, if HE sent the papers then he voided the filing because it is against the law for HIM to send the papers, himself.)...He has no intentions of divorcing his wife.
2007-03-31 18:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is help out there .u don't need a signature,there is this clause that say's something about"dissulison of something "ask a divorce lawer".I went to a laywer & I got my divorce & I didn't need nothing from that sorry excuse of a man.&get this my divorce was final before I paid the laywer,paper's in hand.But now I think it also depend on who want's the divorce?I wanted it,I left him,threw his *** out,I paid for it.and he had deserted me,abandoned me &also 6 children @that time,but if u want that divorce,u do not need anything from other party,just pay to file paper's.good luck.&mine was only $300.00 total ,with monthly payments,included.
2007-04-01 01:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by lisa c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , it's called contested divorce, but it will cost, you in time , and money!
2007-04-01 01:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...you must be proud. Women like you make me sick. He doesn't want YOU, he only wants your GOODIES. Get some self respect and find another man.
2007-04-01 02:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he can, but he will have to take her to court. She can't force him to be married to her.
2007-04-01 01:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not make such life's decisions in haste.
For now enjoy your time together. And keep sending him uplifting communication while he's away. All good things take time!
2007-04-01 01:10:36 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no quick fix. it appears that she is wanting the insurance in case he does not make it back............
2007-04-01 01:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by nfgatcer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋