Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

my friend one day showed me her wrist and she said she was cutting and thought it was funny i told the consuler and in the bathroom there was a note on the wall that said depression hurts cutting dosent unless u want it to so i told the consler and she called my friends mom now my friend wont talk to me she told me on im that she would have to gain my trust back HELP she lso thea is wasnt her that wrote the stuff in the bathroom but it was her hand writing what do i do?????i need help badly anthing would help anyone i knew someone that was cutting them self and finally hung and killed them self i caint answer my self so i need help badly i dont want her to hurt or kill her self she said i knew her better than that and stay out of her bisness we were always like sisters before she started cuting her self can anyone help!!!!

2007-03-31 02:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by mybrattybrat3 2 in Friends

If it was just me, I would have decided very quickly, but now every decision I take affects my daughter who is 1 and half months old..Something does not work for me and him.I think we don’t trust each other anymore.There was this bleach in the trust when he shouted at me and mishandled and beat me for the first time. But, I tried covering it up and still was hoping that everything would go right.I always share my feelings with him and let him know that we need to enjoy the life we have together and put aside any differences.. but it makes not effect on him..Probably, he began to think that I am a ‘Shani’/’’Bad luck’ or some sort of scapegoat where he can show anger always on..I am still ok to become the scapegoat, provided that he responds to my sorrow and can express his affection on me. He does not feel anything even when I am in sorrow and has been very indifferent to me.He dragged me out of the door yesterday and locked all the doors He absolutely does not believe in the necessity

2007-03-31 02:13:09 · 31 answers · asked by helpme 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I worked three double shifts and you know what he does since it was payday? He went out and got drunk! He left our two kids at his moms and picked them up at 2:00 in the morning! I was so angry! He claimed his boss took him out for drinks for working so hard I do not beleive him! I also have been working hard and you know what I have been doing since I got home at 7:30 A.M. ? You guessed it drinking that is what he gets for doing what he did! How do I get rid of this anger? I mean keeping are kids up till 2:00 A.M. so he can drink come on. WE are both off today so I will drink and he will watch the kids!

2007-03-31 02:10:09 · 25 answers · asked by I love screwdrivers! 5 in Family

2007-03-31 02:08:41 · 8 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 02:08:09 · 16 answers · asked by Joem Casusi 1 in Friends

if someone calls your boyfriend with withheld number and doesnt talk but you can only hear music and then he gives you the phone to say hello,what does it mean?is it innocent??

2007-03-31 02:06:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there something wrong with me? I have had my dog for 6 years and I love her very much, she is like my baby. But my girlfriend gets to jealous over her and says stupid stuff. I'm not jealous of her cat. I don't care how much money she wastes on cat toys for him Should I get rid of my baby to make my girlfriend happy?

2007-03-31 02:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Rocky 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 35- he is 55- we were best friends then had a relationship. He had a big crush on me at first- as in "you made me feel again"- but I was fresh out of a relationship and was very slow to react- he hung in there and I did eventually come around and fell in love- then he suddenly bolted- he accepted a date with someone else- THEN broke up with me- instead of breaking up first- then accepting a date. Now I am being played- as in he's making me seem like I am wrong (I did call him a mean name- so I do have guilt) But I just put it all together- he wasn't honest - ugh- he once cheated on his wife- many many years ago-once a cheater always a cheater? How do I move on? You'd think at 35 I'd know but it just stinks when it happens again- I am not perfect but now neither is he- I am begging him for friendship- need words of encouragement- cause I know better- we will never go back to what we had- oh - what does it get harder?

2007-03-31 02:04:09 · 29 answers · asked by banana 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what would you do?

2007-03-31 02:03:08 · 32 answers · asked by big burts bollox 2 in Singles & Dating

what do women do that annoys you...?

2007-03-31 02:02:56 · 22 answers · asked by v. 1 in Singles & Dating

i shave downthere.
i think my boyfriend likes it.
what do you guys think
like i presonally like it better when i shave
hair there is gross

2007-03-31 02:00:36 · 20 answers · asked by foreverbabe819 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 01:57:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and were kinda still new.... we'll be together fo a month in a few days... and were used on being together evryday because of class.. but due to summer vacation in our country, we havent seen each other for just few days... we havent textd or barely talk thru sms... now he thinks im loosing interest on him... and the only reason i was not texting him is i wanna give him something for our first month so im saving my money... we has a fight just now... he said that if i continue being cold to him he would do the same thing... what should i do? do you think he's just a player?

2007-03-31 01:54:53 · 3 answers · asked by chineeko 1 in Singles & Dating

If you ask did you talk to her that girl while we was going together he would simplily say no and you know he did.

2007-03-31 01:52:19 · 6 answers · asked by taz s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 01:50:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My last relationship was with a guy coming out of a really bad divorce, so he had major trust issues. That was about 8 months ago, I have just started to get to know another guy who is also coming out of a bad divorce. I don't want to have unrealistic expections from them because I know they are still healing. Just curious on how I should handle them

2007-03-31 01:45:41 · 19 answers · asked by Cocoa 4 in Singles & Dating

i want him to miss me terribly.how do i achieve this.i know he cheated on me and so i want him to suffer

2007-03-31 01:43:09 · 16 answers · asked by munik a 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it your experience that when you offer to do something for a friend of the opposite sex, you might forget if you only see him/her as a platonic friend,
whereas if you have an interest to develop the relationship further into more than friends, you are more than likely to remember to carry out what you offered?

I mean, for things as simple as, remembering to ask someone else for an answer to a question.

2007-03-31 01:41:46 · 18 answers · asked by Lilliana 5 in Singles & Dating

im getting used by alot of people,they think im stupid but i know exactly what there doing ,i try to help people all the time so when im in need why cant they at least offer to help me

2007-03-31 01:40:46 · 6 answers · asked by fspade05 2 in Friends

2007-03-31 01:36:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 01:33:08 · 16 answers · asked by Joem Casusi 1 in Friends

when we were young we dated for three years and were in love. we broke up over a small immature (we both agree on this) incident. we have remained in contact with each other over the years-keeping each other up to date on the others life happenings. we've both married and divorced and had children with our spouses. this friendship has lasted for 25 years this way. he's now dating someone of five months and i've been seeing someone casually for three months. i'm certain my current relationship is going no where, but don't know about his. i would love to get to know him again intimately. help!

2007-03-31 01:30:14 · 3 answers · asked by d 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is very wonderful to me and he treats me right. he makes me feel loved, cared for, special and protected. i juss found out last night that he's involved in some type of gang crap with his friends. im very worried because something might happen to him. he prmised me that he will get outta it and quit because i told him that i don't wanna deal with someone who's in that type of stuff. he told me that im more important and dat he'll quit for me but im not sure if i should trust him. i watch the movies and when a guy is in a gang then his gurl gets involved in it someway and i don't want that to happen to me I NEED HELP!

2007-03-31 01:27:59 · 4 answers · asked by da_brat 1 in Friends

I have known this man for 5 years now. I met him at his son's Halloween Party at school. Since then when we are in crowded places or uncrowded places I find him looking at me alot. When we meet at a store together he makes an effort to come up to me and compliment me on my fine teaching abilities. When his son was in a school program, the parents were to go to the auditorium to wait until the program began, however, this man stayed in the room with his son. I caught him looking at me - when I looked his way he looked away. He then complimented me on my new haircut. He followed the class and I into the auditorium when the program began. When going in my car one way and he going another way on his motorcycle - he saw me and turned around to follow me. I turned to go home but he did not follow me then. He came to my classroom one morning this year just to say "Hi" - we hugged each other. I have to say I am attracted to him also. Is he shy and wanting to know how I feel too?

2007-03-31 01:23:38 · 11 answers · asked by tahiti 1 in Friends

2007-03-31 01:19:27 · 12 answers · asked by Charles 1 in Family

2007-03-31 01:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my fiance for nearly 2 years, But at the moment he seems to think that i have been stopping him from talking to his mates and playing games. The thing is most days this week he has been playing games from after tea till we go to bed. Last night he was playing games for 4 hours till gone midnight and today he decided to go online line and play games with his mates and he says when he plays games it for more than 2 or 3 hours, i am due to go to work in 2 hours time. But i have waited 3 weeks to see my fiance for a weekend, we do live together but we are always working and when the other is off. Its not fair surely he could play it while i am at work tonight but instead he is playing it now and dont want disturbing. Is there anything i could do, as i spoke to him about how late/ long he plays them at night and spends playing games. We whent to bed well gone midnight and by the time we got to bed it was gone 1 am. I know i could go to bed without him but i will get woken

2007-03-31 00:57:58 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 21 and have been with Michael for about 2 years. He’s the sweetest, most romantic and thoughtful guy I've ever known. He’s got a steady job but a salary that doesn't allow for many luxuries such as diamond rings etc.I met JJ 18 months ago at a club and I was instantly attracted to his confidence and wealth. I’ve been with JJ for 18 months but aside from the many expensive presents he gives me on a regular basis, I haven't got much of a reason to stick around most days because he treats me like a sex object more than a person most of the time as if my looks is all I have to offer a guy. Recently Michael proposed to me and even though the ring, which he had been saving up for for 6 months to buy was far below what I've gotten accustomed to the proposal was beautiful. He’s a great guy and wowed to do everything in his power to make me happy if I agreed to be his wife but I don't know if I'm ready to give up the luxuries that come with being JJ's girl. What would you do?

2007-03-31 00:13:01 · 20 answers · asked by Brooke 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 00:08:28 · 7 answers · asked by Gideon 1 in Friends

2007-03-31 00:04:04 · 18 answers · asked by tmb2kuk 1 in Marriage & Divorce