2007-03-31 01:33:08 · 16 answers · asked by Joem Casusi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get someone to watch over her and make sure she doesn't do anything foolish. Most likely, she is just throwing this around as a threat and doesn't mean it. Either way, just get somebody else to keep an eye over her.
2007-03-31 01:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you can already do a lot that I can't! If you can read well, it sounds like your smart to me! I know a lot of people who can't read well and do fine in college! True, college isnt right for some people but that doesnt mean your stupid! Some of the smartest people I know didnt even graduate high school. Having a good heart I think is one of the best things you can have. Keep looking for a job. One will pop up eventually. I understand what it is like to lose an important person in your life as I had a miscarriage a few months ago. Your friend is most likely now in a better place and happy so think of it that way. It's ok to miss them. I miss my child everyday. But we'll see them again sometime. I'm sorry for your grandpa. My papa had cancer too and eventually passed away when he had lived a full long life but he went with quiet diginity and strength and that's all we can ask for. I think you sound like a wonderful person, but if you get very depressed, I would suggest talking to a doctor. Talking always helps even though it can be very painful. Medication also helped me through a difficult time in my life. But if you ever want to talk, feel free to leave me a message! Blessed be.
2016-03-17 05:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That woman is selfish to do or say such a thing. Clear your head by calling 911 they will assist her. Don't entertain such behavior woman calling out for attention. Make it clear you don't love her nor do you want any type of relationship. Document everything by written notes video or audio if possible.
2007-03-31 01:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Aphreakywuman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's really highly doubtful. But if you think it's true that she would harm herself, get her some psychiatric help.
2007-03-31 01:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who is potentially suicidal needs mental health care-it's not really a question of who loves who.
2007-03-31 01:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she needs help. There are so many fish in the sea, she doesn't need to be like that. Try and tell her friends are the best way for now and seek counseling.
2007-03-31 01:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by bdgizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you would feel guilty if she actually did commit suicide you have stayed in this relationship and you do not love her, it is my suggestion that you go to her family voice your concerns about her suicidal thoughts and tell them you can no longer live a lie. Encourage her parents/siblings to get her a mental health evaluation.
2007-03-31 01:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid that a great many people say this, but very few actually carry it out. Which doesn't mean to say that she isn't hurting a lot and you should do your best to be kind - but if you're sure that you don't love her, then the kind thing to do in the long term (for both of you) is to stay firm. Neither of you would be happy in a relationship that was forced, and each of you could - and almost certainly will - fall in love with someone who loves you back in the fullness of time.
If you can, try writing her a letter explaining how you feel, and why it won't work out for you; see if you can do it without making her feel bad about herself or forever unworthy of anyone's love; and then firmly stay out of the way. Unless you yourself have played games with her in the past you don't have anything to reproach yourself for and you're not responsible for her long-term happiness; just try to be as kind to her as you'd want someone to be if the positions were reversed, but without holding out false hopes.
It's tough, but that has to be the way it is. And in the (very unlikely) event that she were to attempt suicide, it's certain that there would have been many other things in her life besides yourself that caused it and you just happened to be the lightning conductor.
I hope it works out well for both of you.
2007-03-31 01:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by mrsgavanrossem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotional blackmail should not be a basis for a relationship.
2007-03-31 01:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by kelstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut contact with this person. Its only emotional blackmail.
2007-03-31 01:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋