my friend one day showed me her wrist and she said she was cutting and thought it was funny i told the consuler and in the bathroom there was a note on the wall that said depression hurts cutting dosent unless u want it to so i told the consler and she called my friends mom now my friend wont talk to me she told me on im that she would have to gain my trust back HELP she lso thea is wasnt her that wrote the stuff in the bathroom but it was her hand writing what do i do?????i need help badly anthing would help anyone i knew someone that was cutting them self and finally hung and killed them self i caint answer my self so i need help badly i dont want her to hurt or kill her self she said i knew her better than that and stay out of her bisness we were always like sisters before she started cuting her self can anyone help!!!!
2007-03-31 02:16:59 · 9 answers · asked by mybrattybrat3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is what you do...
Tell her that your sorry for butting in her life. Then tell her that your worried and concerned about the cutting, and that you were only trying to help the situation. If your friend gets angry at you saying'' Wat situation?'' and ''Stay out of my life''. Then ask her what you can do to gain her trust back. If she forgives you after the conversation,then calmly tell her that she needs to go to a councler of teacher about the cutting. She will eventually learn to deal with her depression in a healthy way. Instead of cutting her self.
Good Luck! :)
2007-03-31 02:46:26 · answer #1 · answered by campergirl95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a year or so. They'll put her on depression medication and get her counseling. Then she'll wake up one day and realize she was wrong to expect you to keep it a secret. Plus, by showing you her wrist, she knew you'd tell on her. It was a cry for help. Just find a new friend in the mean time and get some counseling yourself to help you deal with it.
2007-03-31 09:22:40 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
You're gonna have to reword that a bit.
I have...had, rather, a friend that cut.
And now I have no way of asking why and talking to her about it.
I think you're gonna have to continue to show your friend your loyalty and stick with her whether she likes it or not. She'll eventually come around and realize that she really does need you.
And if not, because there's always that unfortunate possibility, you can't beat yourself up for not trying to keep the friendship, now can you? Good luck. :) <3
2007-03-31 09:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by concrete_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. I went thru a similar situation, she will come around when she gets the help she needs. She resents you now, but she will thank you for doing what you did in time... Just always be there for her no matter what may come ahead. It will be a rough road for your friend, but she needs you more than ever right now.
2007-03-31 10:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by Disneynutcase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you are upset, but you did the right thing. Your friend is seriously in trouble, and the counselor and her mom needs to know. Your friend may be angry at you, but remember she isn't thinking clearly now. Continue to reach out to her, tell her you care about her, and tell her you will always be HER friend even if she doesn't want to be yours right now. Please don't second guess yourself--what you did was brave and right. You did great!
2007-03-31 09:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what she says right now, you did the right thing. Your friend needs some serious, professional help. Talk to her parents before its too late.
2007-03-31 09:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who occasionally cuts himself. But you definitely did the right thing. It takes courage to do so and you should be proud of yourself!
2007-03-31 14:21:38 · answer #7 · answered by boiboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing by telling tyhe councelor. your friend need help., every single suicide or attempted suicide is a cry for help. so you did good.
2007-03-31 09:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by shank 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
v.v
I had to deal with this issue.
You did a smart thing, but I don't know.
Most friends feel betrayed if their friends tell someone about an issue of theirs.
It was ok, I guess.
But when someone tells their friend that they're cutting, maybe it's best to talk to them about it, and if it's really really REALLY messing with them, then maybe you should tell someone. eep.... dunno...
2007-03-31 09:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋