Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

My b-f-f Mariam was talking to this really bratty girl on her street.and that bratty girl was talkiing bout her me AND her before, behing our backs.Mariam confronted her and she said that she didnt say anything. but the issue is, that we hear her talking bout us everyday in tthe bathroom or at the cafeteria with her other gossippy friends. this all started when me and my b-f-f- Marriam tryed out 4 the talent show and made it, BUT they didnt so they keep gossiping. i know we shoulg ignore it but its getting worse and there whispers are getting louder, they mske us seem like crimminals, when we confront them they just pretend like nothing ever happened...what do we do,,,help!?

2007-03-31 05:41:10 · 9 answers · asked by charlies angel 2 in Friends

If your hubby was out 'till all hours, some girl called his cell phone giggling so loud you could hear it? And you think he bought a SUV and is hiding it from you? Plus he bought new clothes to go hang out with the boys when normaly they go out looking like bums??

2007-03-31 05:40:18 · 21 answers · asked by Barbara 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband keeps peeping into my opposite neighbour's window and she too does the same in return. This has been going on since nearly 5 years. I have two kids aged 10 and 7, a boy and a girl. He never loved me the way a husband ought to love his wife. When I warn him about peeping, he gets annoyed and stops talking to me. But last night when he was doing the same thing, I warned him to listen to what I say, else I will talk about it to others, if he does not listen. To which he just denied, saying its just my misunderstanding and unnecessary doubts. My other neighbours also know about it and talk to me about this behaviour of his, I mean peeping into my neighbour's. I am cent percent sure about his being interested in her, she is even elder to him and a big flirt. My husband also tries to unnecessarily create fights between us, so that I get angry and get out of his way for him to make things easier. When I told him last night about his plan, he flatly refused and tried to convince me

2007-03-31 05:39:49 · 45 answers · asked by keentoknow 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 05:39:28 · 4 answers · asked by JGidd 2 in Family

2007-03-31 05:33:59 · 4 answers · asked by pinkbug95 1 in Friends

We were just friends, now we became intimate friends.. he and I talk to one another daily, call frequently, share interesting subjects and funny ones. He used to be that intimate since 3 months where he suddenly broke with his gf and I blamed myself (dunno why!) and asked him that I go away but he insisted that I should be with him and tears came into his eyes (first time to see this). He tells me "i like you much", "I am so special to him", "you made me the happiest man on earth".
And today a mail from him saying "I got precious feelings to you." He knows that am so much hurt b4 from my bad experience. He bought me gifts, told me much about his family from grandparents till youngest members, about friends.

Question is: Why do though I like him much, I feel scared and too much shy?
Another question: Is he drifting towards much higher feelings to me or it is just sharing interest between 2 intimate friends?

Many thanks.

2007-03-31 05:33:27 · 1 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

ok a boy at school always looks at me at lunch, and the library and sometimes resess dose he like me... he dosnt really talk to be but he gave me a high five when i was walking down the hallway. he has a girlfriend but he never talks to her and she is really mean :( all i want to know is if he likes me.....................

2007-03-31 05:27:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 05:24:54 · 20 answers · asked by Kathy C 1 in Weddings

can you provide examples

2007-03-31 05:22:32 · 28 answers · asked by upfromnutin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you would be chosen as (best answer) if your answer matches mines.

2007-03-31 05:19:29 · 14 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Weddings

anyone ever cheated and got away with it? i mean no1 ever found out even years later?

2007-03-31 05:13:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does a guy really want for his birthday besides SEX ;(

2007-03-31 05:11:31 · 3 answers · asked by Jerzigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife knows I smoke, but she still makes me not smoke around her? By making me I mean that she gets very mad and wont talk to me or maybe even chase me down if I try to run and smoke.lol. Should I respect her wishes or just do what I really want to do. Sometimes I just have to have one, lie after sex, eating, and while we're drink.

2007-03-31 05:10:17 · 18 answers · asked by Kevo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

....that you have this rule of yours to wait until marriage? It is very important to me.
When do you tell a guy?
I think evrybody has a right to know if there is something they wont get in a relationship, right?
And how many of you guys would stay with such a girl?

2007-03-31 05:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone else not get on with there inlaws? I think the main problem being they are country folk and I'm a city guy, We have absolutly nothing in common, There into farming, I'm into computers / Technology, I drink coffee, they drink tea, you get the idea.

At weddings or family events its a disaster, I'm usually left floating around by myself, sure I make the effort but we have nothing in common.

My wife gets on with my Mum and Dad fine but then my mums also a country gal.

We come from different world, as teens me and my dad would of been having sneaky smokes, getting drunk etc, the wifes family would have been out in the fields shooting etc.

Theres also the small problem that I live in Northern Ireland and am a protestant, they are catholic.

2007-03-31 05:02:40 · 4 answers · asked by danny d 1 in Family

2007-03-31 05:00:01 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend she has been married for 6 years, she has been rekindled with an old flame, and she said that she is really falling for the old flame again. Her marriage has been on the rocks for the last 2 years and she thinks that its her way of realizing she needs to move on. I dont know what to tell her. She told me this and asked me what do I think but I told her I need some time to get my mind on it. What should I say to her???

2007-03-31 04:59:36 · 20 answers · asked by Ms. Q 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I do it??????
What do you think of this???
Hey there I was wondering what you all think of my idea? well I have a Rhinestone Fashion website and I have added a Fashion chat room in it, like to talk about fashion and makeup and stuff like that and to meet new friends with good fashion ideas. Anyways what do you think??? my site is http:///www.bbglam.com I really appreciate it!!!

2007-03-31 04:59:16 · 1 answers · asked by usa_007 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and a few of my female friends are organizing a charity fundraiser where guys can make bids for dates with the girls being auctioned off.It's for a good cause but my husband doesn't want me to do it.What's the big deal?It's one dinner,3 hours tops.

2007-03-31 04:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by High Society Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

last night i was at this game it was a basketball game for a memorial. and i was sittin with my friends. and my crush was sittin a couple seats down. and he kept turnin around lookin at me, and so where some of his friends(but im not shure they where his friends haha he wasnt talkin to them)but they kept lookin at me to. i wasnt talkin really loud. but i was talkin to my friends and stuff. and i told my friend i liked bobby and i know he couldnt here! lol it was really loud in there. but i was checkin out this one family..his sons wher around my age and i thought they was cute. so i kept lookin at them. and when i would, it would look like i was lookin at one of his friends. so when he would turn aroun to look at me it would look like i was lookin at him. but iwasnt haha. and he would just stare at me. so what do these sign mean!?!

2007-03-31 04:57:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If all these women know about each other, doesn't that clear me of cheating or anthing of wrong doings?

2007-03-31 04:53:00 · 11 answers · asked by almostthere$ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going through a nasty divorce after 6 yrs of marriage.I cant afford a lawyer right now so my parents are paying and they picked the lawyer who does not really explain much.My relationship with hubby is not good he cheated on me, i cheated on him in retaliation we stayed together for money.He cheated on me at least 3 times even got the ex.wife pregnant. I had long standing on an off affair with an ex.bf that i am 100% sure he is father of my 3 yr old son because i was seperated from my hubby when son was concieved. My hubby knowing son was not his put his name on b-certificate anyway but currently wants his name off.My daughter 5 yrs old will also be getting a paternity test to see if she is my hubbys or not i have no idea.My lawyer said to have the paternity test done (no choice)this weekend at a private clinic instead of going through courts which would be cheaper?

2007-03-31 04:49:15 · 10 answers · asked by Bella C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's ex wife had an affair years ago with the neighbor which ended up in a divorce. Since the divorce my husband has paid faithfully on his childsupport. Not only does he pay his childsupport but he also pays for all the medical bills and 1/2 of the school supplies and clothes. He's doing so much more than most would in this situation. He picks his kids up every single day off since I've known him. He by far is not a dead beat father. He truly cares for his children. This ex wife of his is on her 3rd marriage now. She married a very wealthy man that has trained her to develop very expensive taste. Because she is in debt due to her huge purchases she now wants to take my husband back for more child support. Keep in mind she lives in a $350,000 home with inground pool and expensive furnishings. We live in a $82,000 home with the bare essentials. She is taking complete advantage of him to pay off debts that have nothing to do with her kids. What do you make of this?

2007-03-31 04:45:36 · 3 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this dress thats white but is mostly purple flowers and green leaves.
do you think it would be ok to wear because i plan on buying a white sweater and white shoes w/ it.
remember it has lots of purple.

my mom says its fine. im not sure
the wedding on august 11 so i have plenty of time to get another dress if i had to.

like 3/4 of the dress is purple and green. is that ok????

2007-03-31 04:42:14 · 19 answers · asked by godschild 5 in Weddings

2007-03-31 04:41:28 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i really don't like to take credit for things or feel like i deserve anything because i just feel i'm putting myself on a high status or something. so i never really gave myself much of anything. when someone gives me a compliment. inside i'm glad they said it but then i say that's not true because i don't wanna sound into myself or something. i am never confident enough. it's like a constant reminder spinning around in my mind. i want to feel good about myself but i just can';t let myself do it! any advice? thanks~!

2007-03-31 04:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by Kathleen 4 in Friends

2007-03-31 04:39:17 · 5 answers · asked by brinabrin 1 in Singles & Dating

Getting married. Blind leading the blind, have no idea even where to start.

2007-03-31 04:25:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I met this guy that i thought was the best friend i could ever have,,,,, i liked him i was with him sexually for about 4 months..we shared everything,likes, dislikes,wine,food, our most intimate thoughts ,,but him being a proffesional(32 yr old man) and all ,one day just acted like a 16 year old little boy...having a girl email me about if him and i were an Item ,,,,,,i was put on the spot..i didnt know what to say,so i froze up and was so upset for days .....why do men do stuff like that to girls like me....????????????

2007-03-31 04:23:29 · 11 answers · asked by Reyna08 2 in Singles & Dating

Me, my mum, aunty, uncle and disabled uncle have been planning a trip to Paris for a few months now.

My aunty is about to book it and now she has decided to ask her friend to come with us, but she says she will have to share a hotel room with me and my mum.

It's my first time to Paris and if i'm paying the money out, i want to stay in comfort and i like my privacy. I've only met this friend of my aunty's a few times and it's not like i know her that well.

We would all have to get dressed in the poky little bathroom area. My aunty suggested each of us go into their room while the rest of us get dressed, but that won't work out, cos what if they're getting ready at the same time? We can't go into their room then. There are 2 double beds in each room. Why should we have her in our room if they won't have her in theirs? So my mum is in a huff cos i wouldn't agree to it all and said oh i'll tell her it's off then. Now my aunty is gonna think i'm being fussy. Should i back down?

2007-03-31 04:21:31 · 20 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Family