If your hubby was out 'till all hours, some girl called his cell phone giggling so loud you could hear it? And you think he bought a SUV and is hiding it from you? Plus he bought new clothes to go hang out with the boys when normaly they go out looking like bums??
2007-03-31 05:40:18 · 21 answers · asked by Barbara 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Until I had clear and consise evidence I wouldn't do anything. IF he is cheating you need to have more to go on. Also if he purchased an SUV the bank would have more than likely sent loan information home (besides that's kind of a difficult thing to hide). As far as the clothes...so what?
2007-03-31 05:45:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Check the bank account and see what activity there has been. You can also get your credit report. Any purchase like a vehicle will be on it.
When hubby doesn't come home at a decent hour then lock all the doors and leave his suitcase of new clothes on the porch.
2007-03-31 13:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would put an end to that staying out late. The two of you are married and there is nothing out there for him after midnight! It sounds like the two of you need to communicate and reach an understanding of the expectations of the relationship. And as far as someone calling his cell phone, that is the utmost disrespect and he needs to stop that as well.
Marriage is not easy and it takes daily work on both sides. I hope you get your point across.
2007-03-31 14:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Moni B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's over, Honey. Sorry. Get yourself together and move on. There are too many nice fish in the sea to put up with cheaters like that. Sometimes a little revenge helps too. That's all I am going to say about that.
2007-03-31 17:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by Yomi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey I have been in your shoes... I was pregnant at the time too.. we were married 13 years he was gone all the time drank more and more... his buddies always meant more than I did.. our kids suffered alot until i decided to say.. Go away we dont need you.. you dont need us.. you are a lead weight around my neck and i want my life back... he doesnt care enough to even hide his bad behavior... you are a strong woman.. let it be know ... my ex tried to beg his way back I did it once nothing changed just the date.. he is gone now and I love the peace i have in not worrying... i wish you luck.. it will be hard...
2007-03-31 12:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by red74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that. Keep looking for bad things to find and you shall find them. Before all the turmoil and nasty things are yet to follow just leave him now. You sound young so life is waiting for you. Imagine how fun it used to be to go out with your gfs at the club? You can break your heart now by yourself or have it shredded to pieces when you find him with another woman.
2007-03-31 12:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by LACEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's time to get an attorney or counseling. It's very obvious that he is cheating. And the SUV is half yours, becase he bought it in the marriage.
2007-03-31 19:34:45 · answer #7 · answered by taj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. First I want to know how in the heck you hide an SUV purchase? I mean...even being fiancially stable...that is huge. It has to be insured...Wow...weird.
A hubby out all hours...ain't happening here, sister. Send him out the door...SOON!
LIZ
2007-03-31 12:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by Eric & Liz E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him and take him to the cleaners :p
Honestly, I would hire a PI just so I had on record what a chump he is and I could show him as I served him divorce papers.
2007-03-31 12:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH hun, I am sorry to say this, and I think you know what we are all thinking, I am thinking you should find a lawyer, and go for divorce. (just think, if he does have an SUV, you are entitled to it in the divorce.) Good luck
2007-03-31 12:48:12 · answer #10 · answered by lilbigsis2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋