....that you have this rule of yours to wait until marriage? It is very important to me.
When do you tell a guy?
I think evrybody has a right to know if there is something they wont get in a relationship, right?
And how many of you guys would stay with such a girl?
2007-03-31 05:03:35 · 12 answers · asked by Lanalee W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell them right from the start
2007-03-31 05:07:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like a week or so because its always a good time to tell a guy how you feel.If you want to wait until marriage he should be able to deal with that.An nine times out of ten only that right guy would stay with such a girl
2007-03-31 12:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by missnewshawty_08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
99% of a relationship is - contrary to some opinions - communication. Open line between the two. Honest exchange of ideas and feelings. So, establish the ground rules right at the beginning. If he loves you, he will wait. If he merely lusts after you - good riddance. I, for one, would appreciate that sort of relationship and I am a guy!
2007-03-31 12:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by pajicek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself was worried about telling my boyfriend that I'm waiting for marriage as well. How long have you been with him? Either way it doesn't matter much. You should be open and honest with him about everything. If he wants to leave just because you have good morals and respect your body, than obviously it wasn't meant to be. You deserve better then. Good luck and its SO good to hear that there are still some women out there with brains and waiting for marriage. Also, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, were both catholic and believe in waiting for marriage :)
2007-03-31 12:15:40 · answer #4 · answered by KatNap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think you should tell him quite near the beginning of your relationship. as soon as you feel comfortable enough with him to discuss topics like that, then you should tell him your views on the subject. Remember, if he truly cares about you, then he will respect your decision. If he doesnt stay with you, then, although it will be hard, you have to remember that he didnt love you enough to wait for you, so he probably isnt the perfect person for you.
my boyfriend and i have both decided not to have sex until marriage as we are both christians. this has not affected our relationship at all. in some ways, it has enhanced our love, as we dont need sex to share affection for each other.
Good luck, darling
xx
2007-03-31 12:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by ilikeyoursundress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a while like a week then tell him if he uses some lame excuse and dumps you, you know he just wanted to hit that in the first place.
2007-03-31 12:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right up front on date number one.
About half of the guys would stay with the girl.
2007-03-31 12:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy, But I would tell him as soon as he got physical in any way. This includes hugging, kissing etc.
This way he knows the rule & limits
2007-03-31 12:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Peter S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to show the guy who is boss
dont let him boss you around
men are not in charge of the relationships
2007-03-31 12:07:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jade L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would because it reminds that she has respect for herself and I love that in a girl because my girlfriend told me already she is waiting. I said nothing because I date her for personal qualities not her physical qualities.
2007-03-31 12:08:40 · answer #10 · answered by avenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋