Family & Relationships - 31 March 2007

I met this man and fell for him and then found out he as a notorious womanizer in the past but now b/c he is older and worried about STD's he has a new strategy. He started dating me and then confessed that he also dates another women regularly. Therefore, I guess his new thing is to have two full time women. After getting attached I found out about her and was hurt but then he convinced me to keep seeing him. Last week I had a tantrum and insisted he dump her or I was gone. He said he would make a decision and get back to me. Everything was fine for a few days and now he is suddently not calling me (It has been three days). Do you think this means he dumped me for the other woman because I told him off and said I would tolerate him seeing us both? He is also divorced and had a bad marriage.

2007-03-31 14:43:58 · 17 answers · asked by lover_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it okay to reach out and give him a peck after a "yes"? Will that be weird? We're friends and he's a shy guy.

2007-03-31 14:43:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 14:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want a female perspective on this...

Recently my girlfriend has started hitting me in the balls at every available opportunity, she's only doing it in jest most of the time and it don't really hurt that much, but sometime she seems to misjudge it slightly...

It all started a few months back when we were play fighting and I accidentally hurt her a bit (not exactly life threatening though), then when I was asking if she was all right, she punched me really hard in the balls while I was cuddling her. Needless to so say, it wasn't too long before I hit the deck in agony, but she seemed to be pretty sympathetic and apologised...

Anyway, I don't know if a switch has been flicked in her head, but now she's getting rather slap happy with my berries. I don't really mind that much when it's in a playful way, but I'm always 1cm from disaster!

Is this normal behaviour from you girls? or am I just one of the unfortunate ones!?!

2007-03-31 14:38:59 · 40 answers · asked by Robin L 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 14:38:12 · 3 answers · asked by k20z1gotvtec? 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 14:37:25 · 30 answers · asked by buttnut 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy i know started doing drugs after christmas, and hanging out with a totally diferent clique. We were friends all before X-mas and i didn't think of him being the person to do any of that. He was totally laid-back, and he just moved here so he was easy to talk to. I started to get a crush on him, and then later he started to do drugs, and hang out with all the pot heads. I don't know what to do, i'm reallly worried about him. We haven't talked in over a month, he just stopped talking to me, and i don't know why. His whole personality changed, and i just wished it didn't. I mean, this guy was perfect; are personalities we're like identical. But the weird part is that he can't even look me in the face anymore, he just looks down like when we pass each other in the hall way. I even bumped into him once, and he didn't say anything. I'm so confused!!

Any help would be really great. I really don't want to just forget about him, but is that what i should really do?

2007-03-31 14:34:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I tried to ask him to get more in detail and why I deserve better and he told me "it's not you, it's just me. you deserve better." Things were working just fine with me and all of a sudden I get a phone call like this. We have been together for 9 months. I kept asking him what did he mean only to be hung up on. I didn't try calling him back. Does anyone knows what one means by this? I know it means I don't deserve him, but I think I do.

2007-03-31 14:29:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know how to confront to someone about them stilling something from me. What do I say?

2007-03-31 14:28:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and you were travelling with two other guys who were single and they may need condoms, but may not be able to attain them in the place you were staying at, would you still bring condoms for the guys? Does that even make sense?

What I'm really asking is: do guys carry condoms around in case their buddys might need one? Kind of how you would bring a lighter with you for your buddys who smoke?

2007-03-31 14:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by Caramella 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok my bff is is furious at me because i accedently added a hannh montanna video to her account on you tube. I thought the account I was adding it to was mine. And now she made me go back and delete it. And I did. And now shes saying its not deleted. I try and tell her I did, buts shes not listing to me. Nor having any of it. Weve been BFFS forever. Help? what do i do?

2007-03-31 14:21:26 · 11 answers · asked by I <3 My Hamster Smokey! 6 in Friends

It makes no sense that BEING MYSELF can be so difficult for me, even if it is around a guy I like. I just hide in my shell not saying much of anything and give short answers and just feel so shy. Around my friends I'm normally funny and sarcastic, and I talk a lot more... but around the guy I like (or I guess in general people I don't know well) I clam up. Why can't I be myself? What can I do to make sure I am myself, because I want the guy I like to like me for WHO I AM. I don't want to feel fear when I think of talking to him. I want to feel happy and excited that I get to talk to him.

2007-03-31 14:14:16 · 8 answers · asked by Alice 1 in Singles & Dating

he couldnt go to the dance friday, but hopefully i can hang out with him at the skatepark near my house? and we can take a walk around..? i really want to kiss him there, but we are hardly alone. Any advice for making the first move?

2007-03-31 14:11:03 · 12 answers · asked by Margery Stewart Baxter 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-31 14:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by Michele K 1 in Singles & Dating

I ve heard that having sex is sin if she is not my wife. is that true? if i have a sex with anyone will i make a sin?

2007-03-31 14:05:31 · 1 answers · asked by siyafoster 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband can be the sweetest person in the world. But lately I can't do anything right. He takes things that I say the wrong way and turns it around. He fusses about everything I do
then if I say anything or try to explain why I did something the way I did he says I do not listen.

I am trying to make him happy but I do not know what to do.
I work 50hrs a week, I cook dinner, I try to get things done at home. I can't always finish. It hurts when he gets mad and says that I am getting like his ex-wife. I am about to go to the doctor for antidepressants, but if do I cannot work my job will not allow it. I just want our relationship to work. I Love Him.
Any suggestions.

2007-03-31 14:04:01 · 33 answers · asked by lizzybit64 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My hushband of 24 yrs. now loves outside the home 60 miles away, and has for a yr. I still have 2 teen sons at home. I travel to see him on weekends, we always have a wonderful time together. during the week we might go out dinner, then he goes his way, I go mine. back to our home. This week end I chose to stay home. I just don't know why he dosnt want live with me. I am starting to fill like i am living in a marrige of conv. Is it silly of me to think, he is staying alone missing me the way i am missing him? I still love this man, but also fill like we are missing a lot of time together. I dont want to grow old in this situation and am starting to fill uncomfortable around him. Help Please.

2007-03-31 14:00:54 · 8 answers · asked by lilyinthevalley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-31 13:59:43 · 9 answers · asked by Mackie C 1 in Singles & Dating

can you just be friends with an ex-boyfriend?

2007-03-31 13:58:38 · 7 answers · asked by antonettef28 2 in Friends

I have no problem meeting women, that is all about confidence. However, after we meet I have a hard time finding fun things to do to keep them excited. I'm kinda boring but open to any good ideas. Please help!!!!

2007-03-31 13:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Imposter H 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a good job and plenty of things but I steel feel like i have a void, and i am a single guy who lives alone and no pets.

2007-03-31 13:51:56 · 8 answers · asked by mustangghia75 2 in Singles & Dating

Lets see, I guess like talking to them, yet no physical contact. Talking online, phone, etc, but REMEMBER NO PHYSICAL CONTACT. To me it's not cheating because you can talk to anyone and flirts and go home and sleep with your spouse. Is it me or anyone else out there dissagree or agree with me?

2007-03-31 13:46:47 · 26 answers · asked by heavenlyours2000 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am divorced, tall (6'2"), bald, wear glasses, skinny (no muscles here, no siree), but with a teeny weeny bit of lovehandles, i'm missing 3 teeth, still live with my momma and can't hold a decent job, BUT i am sweet, caring, loving, i will not cheat on you, i'm the most loyal man on the face of earth, i'm open-minded AND have nimble fingers...i play the electric bass.


PS i also love ganja!

2007-03-31 13:41:26 · 14 answers · asked by hicknproud 1 in Marriage & Divorce

went out on a double date with this guy whom I went to high school with... we went on a date before the this past summer..so we decided to go out again b/c we had fun the first time... we went to dinner and to the movies...we cuddled during the movie and all that cute d stuff...but when he dropped me off, w were in the car & he wanted to tongue-kiss me but i don't tongue-kiss on the first date... after a few days I called him and we talked... i tried calling him again but this time he didn't answer or return my call...I dont want him to be the type of guy who thinks I owe him b/c he spent money on me...I genuinely like him alot...I like kissing him... but tongue-kissing not yet...we have time for all of that..but he probably doesn't see things that way.. So i deleted his # and haven't called him since

2007-03-31 13:37:26 · 20 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Singles & Dating

okay......prom is coming up and i hooked up my best friend with this awesome guy but i was suppose to go with her but now the plans has been changed because i want her to be happy and all and i told her that now i dont have anybody to go with me but she said i could go with her and the guy but i dont really want to tag along so i told a guy that i liked what happened and he said that he'll go with me...later on i found out that he liked me too.....so we talked for awhile but now he doesnt evern call me or talk to me anymore but we would say hi to each other whenever we see each other, he also told me when i talked to him on the phone that he doesnt want people to see me and him together so i was like okay whatever.....so i asked him if he was still going to prom with me and he said no and i asked why then he said it was complicated...SO NOW CAN YOU GUYS HELP ME....IS IT ME?.....WHATS SO COMPLICATED...AND WHY DOES HE CARE SO MUCH IF HIS BEST FRIEND SEES HIM HANG OUT WITH ME......

2007-03-31 13:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it makes me feel weird and also a lot of them slap my a**. 2day i went to the store and a lot of them did that to me. also they were all hot...... but i already have a BF.What should i do??

2007-03-31 13:33:19 · 31 answers · asked by sarah r 1 in Singles & Dating

i found out last night!! wat should i do???

2007-03-31 13:28:58 · 26 answers · asked by Blonde Gal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Does it really mean that I do not love my spouse if I cheat?

2007-03-31 13:27:41 · 27 answers · asked by 4real 2 in Marriage & Divorce

iam 24 years old my b/f is 33 years old i have knew him for almost 7 years without dating now we are dating almost three months is it wrong to date someone older than you? so many people make it a big deal i love him so much.

2007-03-31 13:23:57 · 15 answers · asked by Its a Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

How would you get revenge on someone who had made a serious allegation to the police about you, but you were innocent?

When even if the case is dropped it could still result in you losing your career and if it is not dropped you could end up in jail.

I am not the type of person to seek revenge but my young brother has been set up by his "ex-girlfriend" who just so happened to be his first and if he has any sense his last girlfriend......it just makes me feel sick and angry that someone could be so cruel!!!!

2007-03-31 13:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by I know this! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships