I have no problem meeting women, that is all about confidence. However, after we meet I have a hard time finding fun things to do to keep them excited. I'm kinda boring but open to any good ideas. Please help!!!!
2007-03-31 13:54:16 · 11 answers · asked by Imposter H 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not the only one with that problem, many guys and girls have this same issue after meeting someone.
First of all you need to get to know the girl, if your a home bod (meaning you like to go out much and prefer to stay at home) within the first conversation witht he girl you meet that should come up, so you find out right away what her idea of exciment is, and what she likes to do. But
There are plenty girls out there like you. IF you not finding any here might be some reasons why:
Don't try so hard - If you find yourself constantly trying to figure out what to do your trying too hard, pick up the phone and ask her what she feels like doing. If you know you don't want to go out DO NOT ask her what she wants to do tell her you just want to stay home, and ask if she wants to to relax at home with you maybe get a pizza, maybe dessert, maybe a movie. And if there is NO movie that you want to see, play cards, take a bath together, go for a walk.
It doesn't take much to make a woman happy, or excited it is ALL about meeting the right girl who meshes with your personality.
How to find her - BE YOURSELF- Dating always is a challenge at times, just remember BE yourself because in doing so you won't be involved with BS and you increase your chances of finding a girl/s that have more in commom with you because your not pretending to be something your not.
Ohhh one more thing - don't move too fast. Woman HATE when right after meeting a guy he is constantly asking to do things and go places, when they have just met you - it makes you seem desperate, you end up freaking her out bcause it is too much in too little time, find some things in common with her first before going out on date.
Hope this helps.
Good Luck
D
2007-03-31 14:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Dianna R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far, EVERYONE here has given you good advice. One thing I'd like to add. If you become interested and excited about things in life, then your enthusiasm will be infectious. Translation is that women will find you more exciting. Find things (start with one) to become interested in and learn everything you can about it until you are ready to move on to something new to try. What have you always been curious about? Learning a new language? Sports? Stamp collecting? Photograpy? Cooking? Stargazing? You get the idea.
The most exciting guys I have dated had interests and have shared their interests with me. I've learned about all kinds of new things. Because of one of them, I now ride my own motorcycle.
2007-03-31 14:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by TMSG (aka MissM) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication find out when u meet someone what do that like to do, what are your interest as well. Go car racing, swimming, beach, picnics, games, movies, dinner cruise, etc.
2007-03-31 13:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 02:57:45 · answer #4 · answered by carrabotta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be funny! If you are witty and charming, you can keep anybody around! Trust me, a girl loves a man who can make her laugh. By funny, I do not mean act stupid. Make some clever, witty comments and they should be eating out of your hand.
2007-03-31 13:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by tangerine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must not be much of a showman. If you make arts/crafts, make one for her. If you like to hit amusement parks, take her. If you just chill at home and watch movies, ask her for her favorite. You got much options. Keep it rolling, my man!
2007-03-31 14:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be charming wiht her,nice like the persons answer before me be ur self =)
2007-03-31 13:57:31 · answer #7 · answered by Kiana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS treat them with respect, and make them LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH.
"If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything"
-- Marilyn Monroe
2007-03-31 13:58:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just b urself.
2007-03-31 13:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mighitman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be your self
2007-03-31 13:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by Cat Stevens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋