Does it really mean that I do not love my spouse if I cheat?
2007-03-31 13:27:41 · 27 answers · asked by 4real 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. But it does mean that you don't have self control and you are risking hurting them very badly.
2007-03-31 13:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by mr_blackfish1999 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if your spouse cheated on you? Would that mean that your spouse really doesn't love you?
2007-03-31 14:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to cheat? Is it because you don't love your spouse enough? Or is there something missing from your relationship with your spouse that you have been unable to discuss with your spouse?
2007-03-31 13:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you should be shot...there is absolutely no excuse in the world for cheating, especially on a spouse! You don't love your spouse, you only love yourself and what you did is selfish and wrong.....
2007-03-31 14:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Spaceyangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means there is something you are missing from your relationship with your spouse. You should talk to your spouse and try to figure it out rather than cheat and break his or her heart.
2007-03-31 13:42:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that your love is definitely lacking because love always respects people...and quite frankly cheating on someone else is completely disrespectful and selfish. That said, your commitment to this person must not be what it ought to be. You can change though. Be honest, repent and get your heart and mind right. You may not save the relationship but you will humble yourself and be free from the guilt of what you did. There's a lot to be said for coming clean and getting things out in the open. It's painful but it begins the healing.
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2007-03-31 13:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question. Don't do it. It's not worth it. What ever you are trying to get from this other person, tell your spouse what you want. Communication could keep you from cheating.
2007-03-31 13:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by kayjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure as hell does.Unless of course you forgot your wedding vows idiot.What do you think it means I just need more sex.For better or worse do death do us part.You are a fool and I hope your wife finds out and kicks you to the curb.If you truly loved your wife you would not want to be with anybody but her.Couples I know that haven't had sex in over 4 years because of an illness still did not cheat on there spouses.So you figure it out.If you are asking us if you love your wife there is big problem don;t ya think.
2007-03-31 13:34:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What if you didn't? What if you just continue on with your spouse and tried to make things better or if you divorced him without the cheating?
2007-03-31 13:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm you may love them but you lack respect for that person .The lust of banging someone else may seem the way to go but think about how you would feel if you found out your partner cheated on you ( now hold that feeling ) everytime you think about it !!! Never cheat if you want that .......get a divorce first at least have that respect for your spouse !!!
2007-03-31 13:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by yoursandmine05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did to cheat.Does not mean you love your spouse-You know if theres love there. Good luck.
2007-03-31 13:40:40 · answer #11 · answered by mybudnoobs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋