I want a female perspective on this...
Recently my girlfriend has started hitting me in the balls at every available opportunity, she's only doing it in jest most of the time and it don't really hurt that much, but sometime she seems to misjudge it slightly...
It all started a few months back when we were play fighting and I accidentally hurt her a bit (not exactly life threatening though), then when I was asking if she was all right, she punched me really hard in the balls while I was cuddling her. Needless to so say, it wasn't too long before I hit the deck in agony, but she seemed to be pretty sympathetic and apologised...
Anyway, I don't know if a switch has been flicked in her head, but now she's getting rather slap happy with my berries. I don't really mind that much when it's in a playful way, but I'm always 1cm from disaster!
Is this normal behaviour from you girls? or am I just one of the unfortunate ones!?!
2007-03-31 14:38:59 · 40 answers · asked by Robin L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her it is getting old. Enough already.
And I liked your "nutty" pun. Cute.
Give her a new nickname: Squirrel
2007-03-31 14:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Yinzer from Sixburgh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my word... Either you must have hit her really, really hard... or she is taking a little too far. I think there is nothing wrong with 'playing rough' with each other, but if you feel constantly concerned that you're going to be in agonizing pain, that's a problem; Relationships are about trust, so if you are flinchy at any movement that she makes, that's not healthy. Let her know to lay off a bit or maybe have her punch you elsewhere from now in order to protect the family jewels...
2007-03-31 14:48:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one of the unfortunate ones!! I don't know any women that would ever do that!! There is such a thing as women abusing men!! I'm sorry, but I do not agree with either!!The best thing to do is get out of any situation that you are not comfortable in, especailly if you are gettiing hurt!! Life goes on, unfortunately or not!! It is not normal behavior at all!! Every woman I know hates violence!! Don't put yourself in that situation!! Get out and keep your self respect!! There are too many women out there that would die to have a decent man!! Love yourself first, the rest will come!!
2007-03-31 14:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Lori F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen I have never known a girl to play these kinds of games, it's not funny she must really have some problems if she gets off from you being in pain... i think you need to tell her to stop because its hurting you and you don't like those kinds of games, and if she doesn't stop then leave her... one time shes gonna send you to the hospital and it wont be pretty... so you either put a stop to it now or get ready to feel some pain...
FYI: that whole play fighting thing always leads to trouble so for future relationships i don't recommend those games cause someone always ends up getting hurt, trust me it has happened to me...
2007-03-31 14:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to voice your concerns. I think she is taking this a little too far and you need to get control of the situation. I am sure she will be understanding if you let her know how you feel.
I don't think she is nutty. I am sure she is doing it all in play, but it sounds like it is getting out of hand.
It is all fun and games until someone loses a nut :)
2007-03-31 14:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Athena13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Warning she has not forgiven u for that first play fight. Your balls are important and she is immature and u too. Stop, slow down and start doing something else with yourself. She has issue with u. To young to mess u up man.
2007-03-31 14:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes... I wouldn't say your girlfriend is nutty persay... but something isnt right. You need to talk to her and tell her to chill. I've never once hit any of the guys I dated in the balls. (well I did by mistake but we were wrestling). Explain to her that it seriously isn't funny. Good luck.
2007-03-31 14:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by Aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personal space is u think that shes coming into ur personal space by doing then talk to make it stop but it could just be a way to turn you on if you haven't already had sex and she wants 2 speed it up a little
2007-03-31 14:45:03 · answer #8 · answered by helendear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea.. thats not normal becuz i have a lot of male friends and i never hit them in their soft spots unless they really hurt but that only happened once. But i guess ur one of the unfortunate ones?!?!
2007-03-31 14:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell her that u don't feel comfortable with her hitting u there. Personally, I do that all the time when I flirt with guys, but I know when to stop. But I don't think she is crazy.
2007-03-31 14:47:34 · answer #10 · answered by nina 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋