I tried to ask him to get more in detail and why I deserve better and he told me "it's not you, it's just me. you deserve better." Things were working just fine with me and all of a sudden I get a phone call like this. We have been together for 9 months. I kept asking him what did he mean only to be hung up on. I didn't try calling him back. Does anyone knows what one means by this? I know it means I don't deserve him, but I think I do.
2007-03-31 14:29:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its BS. My ex fed me the same crap. Hating him won't help you at all so just move on.
2007-03-31 14:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is so right. You do deserve better than a jerk who would give you the line, "it's not you, it's me." It means he found someone else or had someone else all along. He didn't have the courage to tell you the truth. Thank God that he didn't string you along any longer. Now you can look for someone who will appreciate, respect, and love you.
2007-03-31 21:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by friendlyadvice 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you now thats BS he told you that so he dosen't have to tell youn the real reason you should make himtell tou the truth you deserve an explanation. but you know what then again if he'snot man enough to be honest with you then you probadly do deserve better
2007-03-31 21:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by CLASSY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honie it doesnt matter if he has been a great guy up until now if he gave you the you deserve better than me speech beleive him there is something he is hiding and from experience you dont want to know what it is
2007-03-31 21:35:22 · answer #4 · answered by cora7391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's BS, he already has something else going on. It's the easiest way to break it off without explaining himself. But he is right, you do deserve better. Don't waste your time worrying about him, he is replaceable.
2007-03-31 22:06:46 · answer #5 · answered by Perry B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd just received "the script"
I don't know why you got dumped, maybe you never will, but I'm sure it has nothing to do with how attractive you are. Maybe he's met someone new, and is feeding you that line because he feels bad. Who knows?
Go get drunk with your girlfriends.
2007-03-31 21:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't show you the decency of giving you a real explanation don't waste your time or your tears on him. He is right you do deserve better....better than him!
2007-03-31 21:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Tiga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TOTAL BS. but, in truth, he is over you, into sombody else, or at least into the idea of somebody else, he wants you to leave him alone... dont sweat it, what goes around, comes around...
2007-03-31 21:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he found someone else and is too much of a coward to come clean with you.
2007-03-31 21:34:50 · answer #9 · answered by Elt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He found someone he perceives to be better and wanted to spare your feelings. Sorry.
2007-03-31 21:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by Vegan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋