2007-03-31 14:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask, you are not in love, it is a crush
2007-03-31 14:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at age 12..its sometimes hard to know whether or not you're really in love. I fell in love for the first time at age 15, and Im sure you hate hearing that you're too young to be inlove.
Ask yourself a few questions. Instead of wondering whether you have funny feelings around him, try pondering if you have the desire to always be around him, if you are always wondering what hes doing, where he is, whats hes thinking. Ask yourself if you can deal with everything he stands for and is, and if you know all of that as well. Ask yourself these things and a million things more before you even begin to think you're in love.
Love isn't always great, you know? Its complicated and a little scary...but I have to admit that at times, its the most wonderful feeling you can ever experience.
So, think long and hard about how much you care about this guy. Because if you don't know, you probably aren't inlove.
Hope I helped. IM me if you need anymore help. TGBTA is my AIM handle. Good Luck Kiddo.
2007-03-31 21:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was only 15 when I fell in love with my fiance, 4 yrs on and we are engaged!!!!!!! I was confused at first and I thought it's probably just a crush that will fade away over time, but actually my feelings were getting stronger and stronger! Even my family and friends started noticing changes in me. I never bothered much with my appearance before, but because I wanted him to notice me I lost weight, got a new hair -do, make up etc. I used to think about him day and night and I even dreamt about him when I was asleep! I lost interest in stuff and even if I was talking to someone about a completely different subject, all I could think about was him. I never told anyone coz I thought they would think I'm being silly but every day my heart felt like it was gonna burst!! He was my 1st true love and I'm so glad to say that he is now my future husband!!!
2007-03-31 22:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by ¸.•*´`*•.¸ ℓανєη∂єr ¸.•*´`*•.¸ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im positive ur not in love...ur only 12. and i know sometimes age doesnt matter. but love develops slowly through a relationship w/ur significant other. read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 it will tell u about love. but, yeah wait a little longer, u might very likely change ur opinion
2007-03-31 21:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by kiyomidog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your in love when you can raise a family together, pay taxes, bills, groceries, talk about politics, support each other's career decisions and live communally under one roof for the rest of your lives. So no I don't think that you love this guy.
2007-03-31 21:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Eisbär 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've was told that i was too young to be in love at 14 but never listened, and now five years later we still feel as we did then.
2007-03-31 21:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by hewzy15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to question it......then I dont think ur in love...love isn't a matter of age....all those people that tell u are too young...dont listen...you can fall in love at any age...however because you have to question it.....I dont think u are....the first time I was in love....I JUST knew....I loved him very much....I was happy with him and could see a future with him...I think for the time being what are dealing with is a major crush....not love......
2007-03-31 22:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by crazyrichgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you have a lot of growing up to do. It just depends on how this boy makes you feel. Don't rush though. It could just be a crush.
2007-03-31 21:46:49 · answer #8 · answered by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
love i think u are too young to know what love is... but grow to know the guy more and there could be a good relationship :)
2007-03-31 21:48:18 · answer #9 · answered by Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st ask yourself if you have gone through puberty yet....and then wait for like 10 yrs then bake a cake (as you can see im a little over weight)and then u may know what love is!!!!!!
seriously your 12 hun........ummmmm awww puppy love...how cute :)
2007-03-31 22:03:00 · answer #10 · answered by ☮Dano922☮ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ur heart can tell u. but remember sweety, u r too young to be into relationships. i suggest u to wait a few more years, because relationships are way too complicated. wait a few more years, focus on ur studies, have fun with ur friends. and enjoy ur young life.
2007-03-31 21:49:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋