Me and a few of my female friends are organizing a charity fundraiser where guys can make bids for dates with the girls being auctioned off.It's for a good cause but my husband doesn't want me to do it.What's the big deal?It's one dinner,3 hours tops.
2007-03-31 04:58:38 · 12 answers · asked by High Society Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd give her away for free.
2007-03-31 05:00:45 · answer #1 · answered by Always Right 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd back down on this one. I'd do it by having him make a donation to the charity, however.
I think that is a compromise that will work. He may be jealous or just uncomfortable with the idea of letting someone else monopolize your time for 3 hours. However, there isn't going to be any way to dissuade him from not liking it. Even if he capitulates, he'll resent it. So give him an out with honor and let it lie.
2007-03-31 05:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by MrDave2176 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a good way to test the strength of your relationship but I must say I'm against it. The word, 'auction' does the damage. It might be a good cause but I feel I am cheapening my relationship to support it. Just a personal opinion.
2007-03-31 05:06:24 · answer #3 · answered by John M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What husband needs to deliver his spouse off on a three hour dinner with yet another guy? C'mon!!! Mine ought to freak too. once you're going to do an public sale...it will be unmarried human beings.
2016-12-03 02:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would allow it on the following conditions.
1 - She was the one wanting to do it.
2 - The date didn't involve touching, kissing, anything innapropiate
3 - It was for a good cause
4 - I met the person who won the date
PS I think I would probably outbid the highest bidder anyway.
2007-03-31 05:06:56 · answer #5 · answered by Peter S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. 1.charity auctions are for a good cause 2.I trust her and
3.I'd really want to know how much she is worth.....lol.
2007-03-31 05:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it, even though you may say "if he trusts me then he wouldn't mind" I think you have to think that he might be asking himself "If she knew i was uncomfortable why would she think of doing it anyways". There are plenty of ways to help a good cause and I think that you could show your man you really cared about what he thinks by listening to him here.
That's just my two cents... =D
2007-03-31 05:05:11 · answer #7 · answered by FloridaGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if someone bids 1 grand to date you...that could show they got money for you...maybe more than your bf or husband...which is bad cuz its tempting...the think here is that your husband doesn't trust the men that are buying women dates...its not that he doesn't trust you. would you trust a man that pays money for a date?! thats lame...
2007-03-31 05:07:16 · answer #8 · answered by Ψ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are real protective off the girlfriend/wife. u have to understand. and if i were u i wouldnt. but im not so do what u really wanna do and see how it turns out.
good luck
2007-03-31 05:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no, obviously these guys who are bidding are desperet freaks
2007-03-31 05:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tookie Williams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋