my boyfriend is very wonderful to me and he treats me right. he makes me feel loved, cared for, special and protected. i juss found out last night that he's involved in some type of gang crap with his friends. im very worried because something might happen to him. he prmised me that he will get outta it and quit because i told him that i don't wanna deal with someone who's in that type of stuff. he told me that im more important and dat he'll quit for me but im not sure if i should trust him. i watch the movies and when a guy is in a gang then his gurl gets involved in it someway and i don't want that to happen to me I NEED HELP!
2007-03-31 01:27:59 · 4 answers · asked by da_brat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you have a trust issue, do you believe him or not? if so, then youre good to go. If not, then the relationship is doomed. even if he quits you wont believe he did.
2007-03-31 01:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by David B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get the hell away from him and not have any contact with him. Sorry, but that is a social club that you can't just drop membership on. Maybe he'll say he made a mistake by getting involved with a group like that, but if that's the case, then he isn't very smart. If you feel that you could handle having a boyfriend who is involved in an umber of illegal activities, and will eventually graduate to shootings, go on with your relationship. You may enjoy driving hours and hours to visit him in prison. Otherwise, be smart enough to know that real life is not like in the movies, and stay away from people like that. Be smart, you already know what you should do.
2007-03-31 08:37:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, I think you have to go with your female intutition, I believe that no matter how good he treats you, you must decide, is this the type of person I want to be involved with? whether he leaves the gang or not. He must have some problem to even get involved in that sort of thing in the first place, sounds like "peer pressure" to me, and if he is that easily lead, I dont think he is the one for you. You have let him know that you dont want to be involved with any sort of people that are involved in that sort of environment, so you have obviously thought about that long and hard, you must stand your ground, and be very firm about it. I know it will be hard for you, but at this young age you really have to think about your future. I believe you are sensible enough to work this one out, and at this stage, he has a choice, give him a time limit to get out, like a week, and if you get any feelings he is still involved, then finish the relationship; with him. There is enough crime, violence in this world without someone as sensible as you getting yourself involved because you 'care' about this fellow. Good Luck
2007-03-31 08:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away as fast as you can and don't look back or you will be in big trouble. Do you want to be the victim of a drive by shooting. Get out now.
2007-03-31 08:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋