i want him to miss me terribly.how do i achieve this.i know he cheated on me and so i want him to suffer
2007-03-31 01:43:09 · 16 answers · asked by munik a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't want him back, why do you care if he suffers or not? He didn't care about you because he cheated on you, so he's not sorry he did it, and he doesn't care that you're not together anymore. I am sorry you were hurt, but you can't hurt him back, it won't happen. He'll get his later from someone doing the same to him, but you have to just let this go, and look for someone else to date.
2007-03-31 01:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Funnily enough, the best way to make him sorry he broke up with you is also the best thing you can do for yourself: Enjoy your life.
Think of all the things you didn't do while you were together because he wasn't into them, and go do them. Have a ball.
Take care of yourself - and I mean PAMPER yourself. Not talking budget blowout, or alcohol binges by the way. Pamper your skin. Shape your eyebrows. Have a manicure or give yourself one. Luxurious baths, aromatherapy, massage, whatever floats your boat.
Exercise is great for dealing with the blues, and gets you looking and feeling fantastic.
Pay attention to maintaining and making the most of your looks. (Warning: Now is NOT the time to get all your hair chopped off though. In the aftermath of a breakup, keep the changes you make to yourself ones that are either gradual, or that can be easily reversed if you don't like them!)
Go out with your friends, and have a blast. If you happen to run into him, and he sees you looking fabulous and having the time of your life without giving him a second thought... it'll drive him NUTS.
But whatever you do, don't get sucked into revenge scenarios. They frequently backfire, and you'll end up looking like a bunny-boiler. Far far better to keep your dignity and your self-respect, and to just enjoy every minute of your new life without a cheating scumbag weighing you down.
Do not, repeat NOT, contact him. This is crucial beyond belief. Do not stalk him, do not ring his friends. Dump him from your radar altogether, and don't give him the honour of one more minute of your mental energy.
Not only will all of this set you free to enjoy your beautiful life without him, but guess what... there is no surer way to get him thinking about you, missing you, and generally wishing he had another chance.
Have a blast!
2007-03-31 02:01:53 · answer #2 · answered by Shannen D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't open that can of worms! If he came back pleading with you, you might give in and get back together. You'd forever be 'waiting for the other shoe to fall' as they say. Trust is the no. 1 thing in any relationship and he blew it! Please, for your sake, put him away like a boring book you already read. You are better than being some guy's doormat. You don't need a disease from him. Someday you will find someone that is completely devoted to you and will be faithful. Don't waste your time bad-mouthing him. Be proud of yourself that you didn't keep giving him chances. Believe me, he is suffering...he knows he had it good and he messed up big time! Good luck!
2007-03-31 01:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doll this is going to take time so for right now you are going to have to simply make up fantasies in your head about how you will break his heart in the future,etc. Karma will get him, it always does and you will hear one day about how unhappy he is and by then you will no longer care, but you will still feel a twinge of satisfaction. Whatever you do do not try to get back with him. Once a cheater, generally always a cheater.
2007-03-31 01:49:47 · answer #4 · answered by selkhet62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are so normal for feeling this way. what you should do is try to start investing time into making yourself happy. treat yourself to great dinners at nice restaurants. dress to impress everytime you have the energy. of course sometimes you have to throw clothes on and go, but anytime you have a chance maybe once a week make sure to look really good. investing in yourself will make you truly happier even though he cheated on you.trust me i know. being happier will make you glow and when you least expevt it you will run into them, or maybe they will call and instead of seeing/hearing a sad victim of thier bulls&*t they will see a really happy person. this is the best revenge, and maybe you'll meet new people as you get out and enjoy the great person you are and your life. you are valuable regardless of who you are in a relationship.good luck!
2007-03-31 01:58:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him, don't call him and pretend that he doesn't exsist. If he see you desperate to make him jealous or feel bad for cheating on you then he's going to think that you are DESPERATE to get back with him. Trust me, if you pretend like you don't even know him he's going to wonder why and then he's going to be behind you again.
if he cheated on you, don't worry what comes around goes around and I know for sure somebody is going to do the same to him or even worst, I'm not wishing him bad but this is the way life is, what you do to someone, somebody else do it to you.
2007-03-31 01:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Yes_It's_Me! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find this tricky, some people might say to go out with other guys to make him jealous but you really shouldn't have a relationship with someone you don't love. Ignore him completely and talk about how much you always hated him loudly infront of him with your friends. Good luck! ;-)
2007-03-31 01:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by TinksDestiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A new look ..You gotta be real hot
A new boyfriend who's tooooo cute..
Go everywhere Live your life So cheerful
and your ex will die of regret..when he sees you like that
2007-03-31 01:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by ^^ANGEL^^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right that's a competent way.. pass on and ignore approximately him. Dont waste time on stupid stuff like that. what form of ultimate buddy do you have that should date your ex?? In my e book, thats in simple terms incorrect.
2016-11-25 01:45:46 · answer #9 · answered by hamernik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing a lovely, well balanced and not at all vindictive lady such as yourself is punishment enough for him.
2007-03-31 01:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by ironmainiac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋