Hi I'm 19 turning twenty in June. I already care For my 1mounth old neice called Dimond and my 6 year old twin brother and sister called Peter and Ruby.(Ruby is the mother of Diomond)
I had to look after them after owe mother and farther died and we don't have any living reletives!!!!
My problem was that I found out I am pregnant and I didn't know wan't to do but I do now I am keeping the baby, MY BABY!!!!!!!!!Max said that he would marry me if I chose to keep the baby and if I don't he will still marry me!!!Oh I will be I could mother since I'm keeping the baby. Also I'm will love the baby with all my heart(well what ever is left)!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi I'm 19 turning twenty in june. I already care For my 1mounth old neice called Dimond and my 6 year old twin brother and sister called Peter and Ruby. I chose to look after them after owe mother and farther died and we don't have any living reletives.
So my question how is should I marry Max or not?Since when I told him he asked.
2007-03-31 22:39:12 · 13 answers · asked by Paula 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
you need to marry someone quick, before he finds out how dumb you really are!
2007-03-31 22:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by kelly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question is a bit confusing.
Should you marry Max? Well that depends on a lot of things. Do you love him?
Do you want to be his life partner?
Do you have lots in common and are planning a future together?
Do you have similar value systems?
Will he be a good father to your children?
There are so many questions you can ask.
One thing you should NOT do, is marry Max just because you are pregnant. That is a bad reason to get married. You should marry when you both make an independent decision that you love and cherish one another and want to spend the rest of your lives together.
I suggest perhaps you find a good marraige counsellor or just a general counsellor to help talk you through the important decisions you need to think about before getting married.
Best of luck
2007-03-31 23:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by pennoes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need help girl! Do you trust this guy Max enough to have his child and marry him and for him to accept your responsibility with your siblings?????
This is a hard situation your in. Could you go to a organization for some proper help and advice?
I Suppose the stability you would get from being married would be good, but will you be happy??
Too many questions, do a pro's and con's list, maybe this will help.
Good luck to you and your family, best wishes on what ever you choose to do.
2007-03-31 23:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Bignips 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel that you can't go further without any help & that you desperately need a life partner, financial support, security, then I believe that you should go ahead although this is not the right age for marriage but as it is you have a lot of responsibilities over yourself. The burden is too much, a good ife partner might just carry you through. If you trust Max then go ahead. Marry Him.
2007-03-31 22:54:09 · answer #4 · answered by Akaash 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your six-year old sister, Ruby, has a 1-month old baby named Dimond (or is it Diomond)??? Get a life and stop asking stupid questions.
2007-03-31 23:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by skydivemommy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ruby is 6 and she is the mother of Dimond you say? You can barely put a sentence together.
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2007-04-01 00:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well if you want the baby you should keep it. If he cAN'T UNDERSTAND that then he probbably is not the right person for you. Even if you do really love him. Most mother's get very attached to there child so I would not marry him if I was you. Ovussly if he wanted to It with you & didn't want the baby he would not be the right guy ( personally)
2007-04-01 03:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by ecogg 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
can't no one answer this question for you but you. just a coupler of things that you can look at before you do. how long have you know this guy. do he know what on your hands. is he doing anything to help you out with your family situation. are you getting any money for your sibling since your parents past away if so is he there for the money. and you just have to look at the over all picture with him. and when hes with your sister and brother how do he treat them. theres alot you need to think about before you say i do
2007-03-31 23:37:59 · answer #8 · answered by shan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes get married.
2007-04-01 00:03:05 · answer #9 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont marry him, just go straight to Jerry Springer.
2007-04-01 06:09:56 · answer #10 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hay some people have nothing to do but to be mean it's obvious that your excited about the will you marry me question and i think it's great but i will also go with what shan said that's good advice go with that
2007-04-01 00:58:19 · answer #11 · answered by Rock 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋