Strike up a small conversation with her when she's with her friends. This will help you learn little things that will come in handy in the future, like what she thinks is funny and topics to bring up later.
Watch her body language. All girls are different so be aware of the signs.
If she's shy, the tone of her voice might be a little higher and she might start to play with her hair (smoothing it down, twirling, flipping) or adjusting her clothes. She'll smile and laugh, perhaps nervously, at your comments and jokes.
If she's confident, she'll match the tone of her voice with yours and she'll smile and laugh at your jokes. She'll act the same way with you as she does around her friends, only friendlier and a little less bubbly.
If she's flirty, she may be difficult to read. Flirtatious girls may flirt with just guy friends and it can be misconstrued as a crush. Because most girls do not want to be obvious, the flirtatious ones might flirt with you a little bit less or they might flirt with you even more. They might tap your shoulder while talking to you, gently push you or burst out laughing when you tell a joke.
Realize that some girls are self-conscious of what they do. This makes them unwilling to be obvious, so don't heavily rely on checking to see if they are staring at you.
Smile at her, (natural smile, don't freak her out) if she smiles politely, or frowns and looks away , say goodbye to her. She puts on a big smile ("Hi! Are you interested in me?! WHOOT!")she likes you. But if she freaks out, or starts sweating or if she starts to look nervous, ("What the? Does he know I like him? Oh no. Oh God, no. Why did I tell my friend!?!") she REALLY likes you.
She seems to be dreaming or very far away when you talk to her
Tips
Honesty and secrecy are big parts of girl friendships so don't rely on her friends to tell you if she likes you or not.
Compliment her. Girls love when guys compliment them. Remember, don't shower them with compliments, although they may like it, they may see you as having ulterior motives.
Friendliness pays off. If she's having trouble with something, help her. If she's not doing so well in a class, offer to help her study.
Defend her interests. If she's playing a sport and one of your friends makes a crack about it, stick up for the sport (she'll see it as you sticking up for her).
Remember what you learn about her because you can use these bits of information for topics in the future. For example, if she tells you that she has a dog, you can ask her about the dog next time you meet. She will be impressed that you remembered.
She might use your friends as a way to get closer to you. Girls are naturally instinctive and pick up on the smallest things. If she likes you, she'll know who your friends are and might start hanging around them more. This could mean that she likes one of your friends, but if you join them and she talks a little louder, acts a little friendlier, and her body language becomes more excited, this might be a good thing.
If she looks over at you a lot this might be a really good sign that she likes you or sometimes it could be that shes trying to see if you are looking at her but if you see that shes looking at you keep looking at her and this is a plus
Avoid, however, agreeing with every thing they say as if you are their 'yes-man.' This makes them think less of you. You should be able to challenge them (in a friendly way). For some more intellectual girls, a friendly debate over trivial matters is a big turn-on. Girls look for partners, not suckups.
Warnings
Vindictive as they come, girls might try the "jealous approach" and start flirting with your friends to make you notice them more. Be wary of these girls. If you really like her, pay more attention to her and try to get her alone - she might get the hint that you like her and stop trying so hard.
Girls detest when guys are obnoxious, rude, and show-offy. Although they might show-off a bit (giggling, laughing, hair flipping, etc.), they hate conceited guys. Don't be arrogant.
Don't hassle girls. They only have so much patience with "Do-You-Like-Me hassling" and can only take so much. Give them space and then slowly move in.
2007-03-31 21:08:51
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answered by msjerge 7
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1. she'll watch you out of the corner of her eye
2. she'll sit by you and make physical contact with you alot more than usual
3. she'll talk to you randomly about random things
4. she might tell you she's cold or something *which is a hint that she wants 2 get closer*
5.she teases you
and i would just start a conversation with her and then i thin you should just flat our tell her. think about it; the worst thing that coul happen is that she could say no, she doesnt feel the same. then you just move on or i guess u could keep trying to win her over.
2007-03-31 21:07:36
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answered by rOcKstAr18 1
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To be honest-- it depends on the girl. You should say what she DOES do, and see what the response is. All girls react differently. Even the most extroverted might not be able to hold eye contact, or feel daunted at smiling at you! :) Totally depends!
2007-03-31 21:10:44
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answered by Karen 2
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If she laughs at your jokes, that arent even funny.
If she cant stop staring at you.
If she looks up at the sound of your name.
If she talks about you to her friends. (ALL THE TIME)
If she looks at you with the face. (The one where its not a smile and not a frown, but kind of confused with glistening eyes.)
She likes you!
2007-03-31 21:05:50
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answered by Missy C 1
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