my best friend was dating this guy (lets call him josh) and they dated for about 6 months then he broke up with her. during the confussion of whether he liked her anymore or not, him and i, we got super close. after the break up, we were talking nonstop and he considered me his only best friend, and at the time he meant it. but when we started talking more.he started to be more romantic towards me. nd then i fell for him. i didnt want him to know that i liked him at first because i thought that it would ruin the relationship we already had. but then i thought that if he really is my best friend, it wouldnt matter. well...he found out i liked him, and started going around to everyone in school saying that i annoy him and that i ruin his day. and that got me pissed, so i backed off and let him have space. and then about a month later, he came up to me and said that im obsessed with him,&that i need to check into a mental hospital. i cried, and he just laughed and walked away.wt do i do?
2007-03-31 17:18:23 · 10 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now you'll have neither, the girl that was your friend or her ex. I doubt she 'll want to be your friend, after you moving in on her action at a time that things were low.. in her relationship. The guy sounds like a loser forget him he's a lost cause.
2007-04-08 05:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"I don't know what his problem is but I'll bet it's hard to pronounce." But seriously, do you really need a guy like that?? He sounds like he's got a few problems, not the least of which is that he's full of himself. I know this won't help right now but my advice is to avoid guys who are under the age of 25 because they are mostly incredibly immature. I found that out the hard way. On the third try I got smart and dated a guy a little older than me (I was 24 at the time!!). Huge difference! We've been happily married for almost 13 years now.
2007-04-08 15:44:26 · answer #2 · answered by Strawberry Fields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to to do is laugh it off... He's a jerk!!!!! You dont deserve this from ANYONE! Tell him that if he thinks that you annoy him and need to check into a mental hospital then he is really not the guy that you thought he was. Remind him that you were once his best friend and let him know that he was the one who started being romantic first! he's just a stupid boy, move on you dont need that,..
2007-04-08 14:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Aden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him. Something you missed in that story. Not sure what it is. Ether that are you got some interesting popularity dynamics going on and he didn't want people to think he like'd you in a romantic way. Which should show you that this charater isn't worth your time. Next time be careful about fooling yourself... chances are he lik'd you good, but love isn't a simple on and off thing. It has degrees. Of course were only getting your part of the story and it doesn't make sense for him to turn his back on you that fast unless it is a popularity thing.
2007-04-02 07:44:31 · answer #4 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's not worth your affection, attention, or waste of 5 points on yahoo answers. He's a jerk, unfortunately the world is full of people like him. If you still feel bad then drown yourself in chocolate ice cream and listen toto the song "Say Goodbye" by Chris Brown. That makes me feel better.
2007-04-08 17:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy (Josh ) is a jerk so stay away from him he is probably nothing but trouble and try to not think about what happened an concentrate on staying away from him or just ignore him he is not worth your time.
2007-04-08 15:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you wasting time with this jerk?
You can do better.
Forget him.
2007-04-08 17:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember who he dated 1st???ur best friend????
2007-04-08 15:36:26 · answer #8 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just ignore him. i mean ,the heck with him!!
2007-04-08 12:40:11 · answer #9 · answered by w00twednesday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel so sorry for you...
2007-04-08 16:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by Manik 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋