a child she says that she is unsure about our relationship and about having a child. It is now 12:00 am and we tried to concieve this afternoon at 4:00. I love this girl very much but we have argued alot lately because of the fact that i was unsure about the child deal what is going on. is this a problem that can be solved. Do you think she is frustrated about the fact that I was unsure what can I do? Help Please Thanks
2007-03-31 17:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two think you're ready for a child, and are willing to bring a life into this world together...why aren't you getting married first?
Bringing a kid into the world isn't just for kicks...if you're that serious about each other, marriage should be the step that comes before a new life. If you can't commit to each other, how can you commit to giving a baby a stable life? That's a massive, massive step right there.
2007-03-31 17:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to fix your relationship, get relationship counseling and get married before you try to bring a child into this world. It sounds like neither one of you is prepared for the responsibility of raising a child together.
2007-04-01 00:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both are insane for wanting to randomly have a child. A child is a lifelong committment, not just a fad, even though a lot of peole seem to be "doing it" (having babies). Are you ready for a lifelong committment of child-rearing, joint custody, child support, etc.??
2007-04-01 00:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋