my sister BF of 4 yrs has just decided that he needed time to reuvaluate himself, he didnt tell her to leave she just packed her suff and went, he know longer communicates with her on the phone he will only text message,i think he is having a nervous break down and dont know it, he told my sister that he still loves her and that he is still in love with her, and he dont have ne 1, but my sister checked his voicemail well when she did she heard some chick on there, but it wasnt nothing i feel so bad cuz he will not speak to her how do you wake up one day and stop talking to the same person u have for the last 4 yrs the lady u was gonna marry and now you are just a stranger he will not verbally speak to her
2007-03-31 17:09:10 · 8 answers · asked by CORONA 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe she is better off to just let him slowly swing in the wind...........
2007-03-31 17:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does a husband of 18 years or 25 years turn their backs on their entire family.It happens everyday.It has been going on for years but not as much as today.The % of affairs and divorces are shameful to say the least.When women were force to go to work is when most of the problems started.Men and women working together day in and day out,seeing each other at their best looking good talking nice complimenting each other going out to lunch then happy hour and before you no it a fool blown affair has started.Mean while the wife or girlfriend is at home thinking everything is find until she or he is told I don't love you anymore and it's over.Leaving everything he once held dear to his heart .
2007-03-31 18:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating or was just never committed in the first place. He should have his space but knowing your sister can move on anytime.
2007-03-31 17:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rmalko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to say but it sound like he cheating that why he need
his so called space. but your sister should just let him have
what he want, when he ready to talk to her he will but i would
not jsut wait around for him to come around, you dont put
your life on hold for anyone. that would be a big mistake. they
say if it meant to be it will.
2007-03-31 17:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be lots of things, is he doing drugs? don't they change personalities?
mabey he got nervous if she said the 'marraige' word.
tell her to give it time, mabey he'll call, if not she can go on, then it wasn't meant to be, Jesus will open up a whole new chapter in her life, if she'll turn to Him.
2007-03-31 17:19:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SEEMS AS IF HES SLOWLY MOVIN ON W/OUT YOUR SIS.RITE NOW HES JUST DOING IT IN A MANNER THATS HE THINKS WILL BE EASIER ON HER N AT DA SAME TIME HES HOPING DAT SHE WOULD TAKE DAT HINTS DAT SHE WAS GIVING N JUST GO HER OWN WAY.
2007-03-31 17:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by heavenlylovin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! This dude is getting some STRANGE on the side for sure. Andy why shouldn't he?
Just because the two of them are going out doesn't mean she OWNS him.
I give dude a big thumbs up! And the lady a thumbs down for being selfish.
Get over it!
2007-03-31 17:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
He sounds like a butthead!
2007-03-31 17:13:14 · answer #8 · answered by RaeRae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋