Family & Relationships - 29 March 2007

i am getting married in two months and my fiance's ex is doing everything she knows how to stop it she as went as far as putting sugar in my tank to make me mad a him so i would call the wedding off. i have to court to court for that do you think i need to get a protective order for her too. this girl is really crazy and i am not sure what she will or won't do before or after we get married..... Help!!!!

2007-03-29 04:35:12 · 16 answers · asked by mzmack 2 in Weddings

My friend has had an online courtship with a fillippino woman for three and a half years, she keeps saying she is coming to live with him in England but never comes, he has sent money for her air fair and her two daughters and still she does not come. He has sent her thousands of pounds and is still sending her £130 - 00 per week english sterling, she says she will be coming on the 9th or 16th of April now if she can get a flight, she says that she has had her air tickets for over a year now and that they are still valid as she can change the travel dates on her air tickets, i think she is lying and i am afraid that my friend is getting ill because he is sixty three years old and works eighteen hours a day, seven days a week to send her the money every week, it is supposed to be for a house that they are buying together, i doubt it. He has only one photograph of her and has not ever met her in person, she must be living the life of a Queen, can somebody please help or is it a scam?.

2007-03-29 04:34:19 · 12 answers · asked by Bubblegum 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so My ex boyfriend has not given up since the day I dumped him 3mos ago. He still wants me back.

Last night, I had a dinner party over my best friend’s house and he was there.

When I took a piece of delicious pie and was going to have a bite, He quickly stopped me and said (very loud) “NO! You can’t eat this! You’re allergic to shrimp, You know..?”

Everybody was like ...”What’s going on…?”

I said to him “I’m okay…. Just a bite”

He (was a little drunk) said “NO! It is NOT okay. You can’t eat this. I know you too well!”

Silence

He then said “You’re just so stubborn! You always think you can, but you can’t! like you think you can forever hide your feelings for me? No! You can’t. Like you think you’ve moved on? NO way… You haven’t!”

(What a Nonsense)

Then I threw the pie at his face and left.

Everyone was like “OOpss…”

A friend of mine said “You’ve hurt him... It was just rude!”

Awww…

Was it?

2007-03-29 04:27:34 · 21 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to become an art teacher but, do i have to go to an art school? If i do which ones are best? Can't I just to a University that offers that program? Which is better? Also painting is one of my passions, if I love it should i make it as a career even though it wont make alot of money or should i study something else that I would more successful at?

2007-03-29 04:25:32 · 81 answers · asked by XQZ-moi 2 in Singles & Dating

I have dated different types of guys, the arrogants, thugs, hustlers, men that had a hard life growing up but now making something out themselves it all. Everytime I bring a guy around for my family to meet they say, he's not your type, you too stuck up, you ain't down, you're too much for him, he's not your speed and so on so on. Then who is my type? I'm a really pretty nice girl .

2007-03-29 04:23:22 · 5 answers · asked by Lady T 1 in Singles & Dating

was disappointed in him and he seemed to be a better guy.
Anyway, after reading his email and then apologizing to him, I know the ball is in his court now. this waiting sucks.
Well, he has this navy show this weekend that I would like to go to as I had told him a little while ago that I would. Should I just show up and hope to see him there and that he is happy to see me? Or ask him through text if he would like for me to go to it. I don't want to seem desperate. We've only been dating a few weeks but the attraction was there. I'm so new to the dating arena (in my 30's).

2007-03-29 04:20:36 · 5 answers · asked by J girl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 04:17:50 · 6 answers · asked by yomama23 3 in Family

OK, so since I left my fiance when I was 23 (almost 4 years now), I've found nothing but liars, cheaters, jerks and disrespectful men. Are there ANY good men left out there? Seriously. Guys and Girls respond please.

2007-03-29 04:13:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am looking for suggestions of what we can do together as these will be his last weeks/months alive. He plans to leave England for Tunisia as that is the country he wants to die in :o(
I will be there with him. I will be wanting to make him as happy as possible, but I am stuck for things to do together before he dies. I will be celebrating a type of Christmas and doing other things but I would like suggestions of what would be nice things to do for him.

2007-03-29 04:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by tunisianboy46 5 in Friends

Hi my bf us to get our own place together after just 6 weeks together, is this a good idea? I work during the day and he works nights so we wouldnt really see each other until weekends so we wouldnt be really in your face. I just dont understand why he wants this so quick. I left my fiance for him, he is an ex who I have always remained in contact with. He is going way too fast. We were in the pub last week and he asked me to marry him. Why he is determined to move so fast I am afraid we are not going to work out but if I dont move in with him I'm afraid of losing him also he said he is head over heels in love with me but I honestly think its just lust and he will change his mind I dont know what to do, if we move in together it might not be bad but I think it might be a bit too quick

2007-03-29 04:09:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

while wearing a rented tux?

2007-03-29 04:05:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is a question that has always botheres me "Will we be able to have sex in heaven?"

2007-03-29 04:04:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I`ll be seeing my ex for the first time in almost 3 months tomorrow.He`s not coming up to see me but our son,but i still feel nervous.We were together for 6 years and he was my first love but he broke my heart twice when he walked out on me and our son.We got back together for 5 lousy months and then he left again just after new year and i found out by accident that he is seeing someone from his work,who he had always said he thought was ugly but anyway i don`t know how i`m supposed to act and don`t want to feel strange and awkward with him.

I still hate him a bit but know he needs to be in our son`s life.My son has learning difficulties so i`m also dreading how he`s going to react when his daddy leaves again and feel totally stressed out.My ex says he`s nervous too!

Do i mention his girlfriend or ask where he`s living and stuff or is this tabboo?I am a naturally nosy person though!I hope i`ll be ok when he leaves too and hope it`s not just been a case of out of sight out of mind

2007-03-29 04:00:06 · 21 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Singles & Dating

I know (For a fact) my ex-boyfriend's cheating on his current girlfriend - NOT WITH ME. He cheated on me, and I left him. I have, until this point, minded my own business, but I hate to see another woman go through what I did. This woman is very trusting, and very sweet. It's not fair to her, but I don't want to stick my nose in someone else's business. I just know what he does (meets girls on the internet and then hooks up with him) and it could be potentially unhealthy for her. I'm not sure what to do. HELP!

2007-03-29 03:53:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been doing everything that I can, talking to new people, joining clubs, going out, and yet, people seem to have no interest in me. What's wrong with me? Why is it that I can only be the one that is left without friends? All of my friends already have boyfriend/girlfriend and they are 19 and 20. I am 19. I am really sad. Sometimes, every night, it just hurts so bad so I sometimes cry at night. Can anyone please help me? I am really looking for new friends.

2007-03-29 03:52:28 · 50 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Friends

2007-03-29 03:51:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 03:48:33 · 19 answers · asked by Harish Jharia 7 in Family

if he says he loves you..& he really does...why do guys cheat?that's really my question?

WHY DO GUYS CHEAT ON THE GIRL THEY REALLY CARE FOR! (please don't say because they don't care for her..sometimes they do..sometimes they don't but i already know that part) THANKS♥♥

2007-03-29 03:46:31 · 29 answers · asked by liza 3 in Singles & Dating

Are you all insane? I am not talking about people that take marriage lightly, I am talking about people that have tried everything they possibly can to be happy in their marriage and just cannot, therapy etc. There also seems to be a bit of a double standard, when a man asks a question along these lines I see al ot more answers that say you need to leave for the both of you thats it not fair to her and that you should never stay just for the children, I almost never see answers like that when a woman asks a question like this, what I see are answers that say you took a vow and you need to uphold it or dont you love your children more then your own happiness. People change and people fall out of love, its sad but it happens and no one should be unhappy for the rest of their life, its the only life we have and we are entitled to be happy and to pursue that happiness and children will be better off with happier parents. Deep down the other partner isnt happy either if there partner isnt.

2007-03-29 03:45:58 · 19 answers · asked by scout1567 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Iv borrowed money from my parents quite a few times since i started traveling, they aren't rich but aren't poor either. is it wrong to 'lend' or 'borrow' money when you know they wont ask it back in full. I fully intend to pay them back when i start earning decent money, i'm quite a generous natured person

2007-03-29 03:41:10 · 9 answers · asked by xstony 2 in Family

hello, im a 16 yr old girl who is turning 17 in less than 2 months and i was wondering, are my parents wrong to not let me date until im 18? my current boyfriend is willing to wait for me but im just curious as to know if my parents are right or just being overprotective. thnx=)

2007-03-29 03:40:28 · 18 answers · asked by =) 2 in Family

When love first starts you are all a glow, full of hope. Then life happens and the treadmill of laundry, work, cleaning, chores takes over. No matter how well intentioned we take each other for granted, have the same arguments over and over, and loose that heat for sex.

Is it really possible to live happily ever after or are all relationships destined for dulldum?

2007-03-29 03:40:03 · 27 answers · asked by Eva Dark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your best firend told you last year that he was gay and everybody found out and now everybody talks crap about him when he is not around and they do it right in fornt of your face.
Help need good advice.

2007-03-29 03:39:37 · 42 answers · asked by Kali S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should I tell in front of all his friends that he gave me gonnarhea?

Well I planned to use him and seek revenge on him but he's winning!! If you wanna know why email me.

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2007-03-29 03:39:05 · 5 answers · asked by wildncrazysurvivor 1 in Singles & Dating

so my "bf" and i havnt talked/seen each other since a little less than a month ago. he all of a sudden started avoiding/ignoring me. we did text some a couple weeks back. but he never called me or answered/replied to my calls. so i gave up. and now we havnt texted/talked since like a couple weeks ago. i want to go to his house asking for an explanation, saying that i know its over. i just want to know why he did that to me and why he never freaking broke up with my initially if he wanted to. should i just let everything go, and avoid it all together, or officially break up with him in person. we were dating for 7 months. and im 18 hes 25.

2007-03-29 03:37:47 · 18 answers · asked by sd_baby 2 in Singles & Dating

SHE NEEDS ONE BECAUSE SHE IS ALL ON MY BFF'S MAN.SHE REALLY WAS ONE,BUT SHE IS CAZY. GOOD LUCK

2007-03-29 03:37:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wonder if we should give up on those we love who wont show love for us!

2007-03-29 03:35:56 · 7 answers · asked by K11 3 in Friends

Why would they hurt us if they love us!

2007-03-29 03:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by K11 3 in Friends

My brother is 36 years old, and to my surprise he is still on drugs for almost 10 years by now. Me and my mother don't know how to deal with him and make him have the motivation to change. He lost 10 Kgs. and looks awful. Please tell us how to deal with him and give him the motivation to be off drugs ??

2007-03-29 03:34:14 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetcherry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister, 28, has 2 boys--1 and 2. Last August her BF left them. She has always had mental problems like depression etc. After he left she has been so low. She has a full time job and goes to school full time. I watch her children. I have her children on average of 14 hours per day--she is only with them at night and a few hours here and there. The boys are a handful but she is rough on them--yells, spanks, etc, and never just enjoys being with them.
Now, my problem is this: I love these boys like they are mine, but my sister and the baby's father say I have no right to the kids other than just to babysit. So, I need to distance myself from them I think. She has begun lying to me about where she goes and this morning she was suppossed to go to class but her teacher called and said she hoped she feels better--I have no idea where she is. I need a break but if I say something about the lies then she may keep the kids away or be mean to them. I'm so angry wit her. What do I do?

2007-03-29 03:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by jilldaniel_wv 7 in Family