I know (For a fact) my ex-boyfriend's cheating on his current girlfriend - NOT WITH ME. He cheated on me, and I left him. I have, until this point, minded my own business, but I hate to see another woman go through what I did. This woman is very trusting, and very sweet. It's not fair to her, but I don't want to stick my nose in someone else's business. I just know what he does (meets girls on the internet and then hooks up with him) and it could be potentially unhealthy for her. I'm not sure what to do. HELP!
2007-03-29 03:53:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say something but dont let him find out that its you who told her. if you have tangible proof that she can see which undoubtedly proves his cheating confront her with that. dont just but into their business with speculation, that would be bad. All in all protect yourself, tell her whatever happens that you did this for her best interests and not to tell your ex it was you, but you may have to face him if you do tell her so be prepared.
2007-03-29 04:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by BigBallzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is grate that you care about others.
You know it is right that you tell her but you are afraid of what will happen. You don't know what she will say or do, & what others will think.
The only advice I can give is to eather get the nerve to tell her stright or help her find out. If you don't you will fell bad about this for a long time.
If it helps give me a way to contact her & I will tell her.
You could leave a note on her car or something like that but it woun't have as much influnce as if she was told face to face.
2007-03-29 12:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by kingmt01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit here down and talk to her. Tell her why you want her to know this. First of all start out by saying i know this news may be shocking to you and the only reason i am telling you this is because i think you deserve the right to know. you are a great person and love unconditionally. start out like that and then tell her. but when you tell her you have to remember that you have to back her up 100% and be there for her. good luck!!
2007-03-29 10:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell on him because, you're right it isn't right if she's a nice girl and very trusting. I've been cheated on as well and if I had the chance to stop her again I would. I'm not saying it's your responsibility to tell her but it is the right thing to do.
2007-03-29 11:00:21 · answer #4 · answered by Dspizz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know, but be aware that he will most likely lie to her and tell her you are an angry jealous b****. Eventually, she will find out because men almost always get caught.
Could you send her an anonymous letter? Your ex's problem is a common one, and unfortunately many women have been through this. If I were in your shoes Id want to tell her, but try to do it anonymously.
2007-03-29 11:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by honeybc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself. You don't want to stick your nose in someone elses business, so don't. Chances are you would be the one that ends up looking bad anyway.
Revenge is really not that sweet.
2007-03-29 10:58:35 · answer #6 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It isn't your business, but I know what you are saying. He obviously hasn't learnt any lesson. The best advice i can give you is to stay out of their relationship as this girl won't listen to anyone about her bf (ur ex) - but it doesn't mean you can't give her a subtle hint. If she's bright enough she will understand.
2007-03-29 10:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by East 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand you want to help this girl because you have gone through what she is possibly experiencing now with him but, you really need to let it go. It's not your place nor is it your problem anymore. She needs to stand up for herself they way you did. If you get involve it's going to seem as if you still have feelings for him. You did the right thing for yourself and you left him. now it's time to move on........
2007-03-29 11:04:23 · answer #8 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with your profile. Would you go out with me? I am kind gentleman, really. Sensitive and quiet, but not ego macho type...I do not care about competition and prove something to people for confidence. I love peace and quiet. I am into fitness, working out and healthy eat, loves nature and quiet beach walk. Movie and art. But do not like drinking and partying so much I grew out of it.
2007-03-29 10:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets make this a bit clearer, by making it more extreme......If he were killing people, and you knew, even though it is "none of your business" you would tell someone, wouldn't you? Because the well being of others is at stake. In my humble opinion, If it were me, I would have already told her.
2007-03-29 11:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋