Family & Relationships - 29 March 2007

My husband and I play on a pool league for a local bar. He seems to think its no big deal when he touches the other girls on the teams butts and they in turn touch his some of them are married & some aren't. He says they are just joking and it doesnt mean anything. He says i'm overreacting and should loosen up becasue none of them think anything about it. Am I wrong in thinking this in appropriate?

2007-03-29 08:56:58 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I told my friend there has been some rumors going around about her. I told her what they are. It was that she always gets what she wants and if she doesn't get what she wants they she complains about it. It's so annoying so now she's all mad at me.

2007-03-29 08:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by i love wishes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I have a crush on a guy and I asked him out. So this is how the conversation went . . .

Me: I have to ask you to a dance.
J: A school dance?
Me: yeah
J: hell no . . .
(I was really nervous and thought he would say no)
J: I HATE school dances

Then I walked away. The problem is that the WHOLE school knows about us (we're famous for fighting over everything and I once fell into his lap in the the middle of class) and everyone, even the teachers think we should go out. However he's really unpopular and if he rejects me then it would be humilating. So I want to tell him that I'm asking him out on a bet to save face but I know that he'll NEVER go out with me if I say that!

So the question is, should I ask him out to something else other then the school dance? If so, what should I say?

2007-03-29 08:53:05 · 16 answers · asked by Jane L 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok for a guy not knowing how to dance

2007-03-29 08:51:35 · 4 answers · asked by ali 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 08:51:15 · 4 answers · asked by shernorm415 1 in Family

I had this ex who completely ripped me apart, figuratively speaking. He...well to put it bluntly he cheated on me. Now whenever I try to get close to a guy I keep telling myself that they are all the same and that this one will do the same thing the last one did. You see my problem? How do I learn how to trust guys again?

2007-03-29 08:49:02 · 7 answers · asked by Lola 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 08:48:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 08:47:06 · 29 answers · asked by Trick of the Tail 4 in Singles & Dating

i once asked my ex-bf if he still loves me because i really want him back...waht he did answer is just take care always...but he did once told me that when he says take care its the same way of saying i love you too...(but that is when we were still committed to each other)but now that were separated...what do you think? is it still the same?

2007-03-29 08:40:24 · 17 answers · asked by miks 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my best friend (guyfriend) so, so much. I would lay down my life for him, if I had to. He also lives quite a ways from where I'm at, so I of course, miss him to death. But is it normal to love your best friend this much? Or is considered clingy?

2007-03-29 08:39:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Me & my GF (adults) are going for quite awhile and she knows i luv her 2 death.... but whenever i get intimate she says "NO" stating that she is uncomfortable....

I asked the reason why she feels so, but she just says she dont know she just uncomfortable!

Know this thing have happened again & again and i am getting frustration, depresiion and i keep finding answers why she does this to me inspite showing endless luv & care.....

I sumtime feel she just playing with me..... as i definately cant see any other reason....

No past problems nothing and YES, she Luvs s** and s** related talks, p**n etc...

So whatta u all say.....

2007-03-29 08:37:20 · 16 answers · asked by Romps 2 in Singles & Dating

I promised that I would keep any avatar that she used. She found this! She says that I have to keep it because its not from the women's avatars - its from the guys in the halloween section. I say its still a woman's avatar. How's right? Is this fair?

2007-03-29 08:35:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted it in here bc i figured you guys might understand more. Im 25 and have been dating a 34 year old since December. Everything was going great, he was so romantic, leaving gifts in my house for no reason, calling me everyday from work, taking me out everyday, telling me that he was doing things for me hes never done for anyone, he never pressured me for sex, in fact he would stop it whenever it got to the point when my shirt could come off. He ended up moving in bc his roomate found someone to pay cheaper rent, i never wanted him too. He went on a two week business trip to central america...hes mexican. When he got back, i noticed that there were condoms in his see-through travel bag. I confronted him and he said that they were old and he didnt use them. They were old and our mutual friends said he was sleeping in the same room as his boss and they didnt have time to go out. The same day i ended up going out and i got slightly drunk and smoked pot for the first time

2007-03-29 08:35:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to figure out what to put as the dress code for the invitations. (I need to have a dress code because the ceremony is in a cathedral and the cathedral won't let people who are inappropriately dressed into the ceremony). - I'm dead set on having it at this particular location since I grew up going to this church.
Here are my wedding details (if its helps in picking a dress code):
- Large, very ornate cathdral
- NYC in mid/late February
- Ceremony starts at 4 pm (that is the latest they let me have it)
- Plaza Hotel for reception (yay! it's almost done with renovations)
-Seated dinner for 300 guests
-Bridesmaids are in floor length black strapless satin gowns with opera gloves (which has been o.k.-ed by the preist for the church)

What should I put on the invite if anything? Black Tie? (White tie is too excessive, I think) Black tie optional? invited? Semni-Formal?

*Only serious answers, I have decided on this type of wedding and I'm only asking for dress code wording* Thanks

2007-03-29 08:34:19 · 15 answers · asked by Chandani 1 in Weddings

2007-03-29 08:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My soon to be wife gets mad at me when im not in the mood,
not often but at least once a week i dont really feel like getting intemate, is that so wrong? ladies please help!

2007-03-29 08:33:29 · 30 answers · asked by futuramafan73 1 in Weddings

I'm 14 and i weigh 112lbs and I'm only 5'1! how can i tone my body or loose weight? any tips or websites would be greatly apprieciated. I get called fat a lot and i believe im the fattest of all of my friends.
its not that I want 2 be a size 0 I think that that is too skinny. I would just like 2 have a little nicer body for when it comes 2 dresses, skirts, and swim suits. and of course the obvious boyz

2007-03-29 08:32:49 · 16 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have tried sexy outfits, sex, playing golf with him, and sharing his interest. But he shows no interest in me and the things I like to do like bicycling, visiting friends, swimming. I'm really tired of spending so much time alone. I have talked with him about it, but still nothing. I need a man's point of view on this one.

2007-03-29 08:31:45 · 21 answers · asked by OTOTW 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-29 08:28:25 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all my friends have sb that they love but me NO
I dont know why , I want to love someone but when I look at the guys at school I never see a suitable one for me
I feel that there is a password on my heart that no one knows what it is,,,,, plz tell me how can I make my heart love someone?

2007-03-29 08:27:39 · 20 answers · asked by sanita 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is overly protective and won't leave me alone for 5 minutes. He is pretty scary and I don't want to hurt his feelings as hes emotionally unstable and I don't know how to break it easy to him that I can't take it anymore... :(

2007-03-29 08:26:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a protective order which he can't come near me or our 6 children. He does get 1 hr a wk supervised visitation but there is no contact between us. We normally get a refund between $10,000-$12,000 by claiming "0" and having extra withheld.
I do not work so I can't file. I have all the receipts, his W-2, and everything to file. I think he already filed though and claimed us all. Can I file without income? Can I get half the refund if he did file? Or is this just one more thing to add to a horrible divorce and let an attyorney handle it??? Thanks

2007-03-29 08:25:57 · 15 answers · asked by Lostmom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

do you plan on staying with your mate in the future?
and if not then why are still together,beside children?

2007-03-29 08:22:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My used to be best friend, act phony towards me. Every time I try to talk to her, she always act like she doesn't want to, but when other girls come around, she love talking! She is such a *****. She treats me wrong in front of them too! What should I do? Should I close the friendship, or close it?

2007-03-29 08:21:37 · 13 answers · asked by *~so_sexy~* 2 in Friends

2007-03-29 08:21:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we pretend to be nice to eachother, but I really hate her.
She's always flirting with guys that are attached, not interested, or like someone else. I mean she flirted with the guy my best friend likes, and she knows my best friend likes him. she's like all over every guy, and always gets mad at me when I hang out with guys. I'm not all over them, i'm really good friends with a lot of guys, no emotional love strings attached. Every one thinks that she's jealous that i hang out with all these guys, but it's not like that. should i tell her to stop flirting with everyone? oratleast the guy my best friend likes?

2007-03-29 08:20:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My situation is very serious. I'm a Navy wife. My husband was stationed in Japan for three years, while I was alone in Florida giving birth to our son who is now 31/2. He never wanted to have a joined account, but he did send me money. He now lives here in Florida and we are legally seperated after finding out he's been cheating through our entire marriage. I want to know what money I am entitled to and how do I go about finding out what his pay including BAH is? I feel like he's living good while me and our son are struggling. Does he get BAH depending on his dependents?

2007-03-29 08:19:33 · 19 answers · asked by jujuluv 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now what do I do. should contiune or do I quit off the relationship

2007-03-29 08:18:59 · 6 answers · asked by peacebabygirl2005 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-29 08:16:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why does this always happen to me?
I am a really nice, sweet, and caring person. If i consider somone my friend i treat them with kindness and respect. I expect the same in return. It seems like whenever I am in a realtionship I am always "used." It seems like people take advantage of my kindness. Every girlfriend I have had has either cheated, or gone completly psycho. All of these girls seem normal, and then like 4 months into it **** goes sour. Is this a result of my kindness? Am i being too nice or am I just meeting the wrong people? I dont want to change the way I am because people are *******. this really sucks.

2007-03-29 08:15:05 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends