Family & Relationships - 29 March 2007

2007-03-29 06:43:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-03-29 06:41:44 · 9 answers · asked by LiStEN<<<Is Retired!! 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i have choosed to wait until i get marrried or atleast been with that person for a long time.... im 16 and at school ppl or bragging about how they done it with whoever and when i tell them that i planned on waiting the say im a punk and im scared to have sex and that noone will want to have sex with me and all that....i guess im asking are they right i mean i kinda know there are wrong but could that be the reason why i decided to wait....... well one reason im scared to have sex anyway.... any one have any iput or advice

2007-03-29 06:39:31 · 27 answers · asked by unique_and_Petite 2 in Singles & Dating

and wear them for a day

what item do you choose

2007-03-29 06:37:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At the place Im working at for almost 18months now there is so much gossip and drama, most of the people hate me for 1 reason Ive exposed most of their all boys click as liars and thiefs there are still some left and one has a hold on the boss (blackmail), me and the boss have become friend very very very good friends and they are all really jealous that Im the bosses right hand woman. So they are constantly making up crazy stories about me and my family and even went as far as to go to thr RCMP and make fake claims that I was a crack dealer (last year) anyways Ive almost quit tones of times every time my boss begs pleads and gives me money to put up with it. So I have stayed, what would you do get the people back (not really my style but at this point Im no longer me), quit and run away or just try to tuffen up like my boss tells me to do - he says when your on top everyone wants to take you down

2007-03-29 06:36:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

has anyone used this site to file their divorce? i just want to know how it went and if this site is legit

2007-03-29 06:35:09 · 1 answers · asked by Gracie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to do something sweet for my girlfriend, but i'm out of Ideas.

2007-03-29 06:34:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Very formal wedding. We are having a pianist/organist and a string quartet.

2007-03-29 06:32:19 · 4 answers · asked by pinkie443 2 in Weddings

2007-03-29 06:32:08 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf of 4 yrs and I broke up a few months ago. It was kind of mutual but I was pushing it a little more. We've remained friends but recently shes been telling me that its too hard to be friends and that we need to either get back together or she's going to move on. I took this as sort of an ultimatum and felt that I couldn't be pressured into making a decision like that. I'd get back with her but I just have this gut feeling that I need to be on my own for a while. Also I feel if I was pressured to get back together it would be for the wrong reasons and the relationship would suffer in the long run. Well it turns out she is moving on and that we can't talk anymore. She says theres no chance we'll get back together but for some reason I'm still optimistic that there is a chance. Am I an idiot who just made the biggest mistake of his life or should I stick to my feelings that now is not the right time? Is there a chance she didn't mean it that there's no chance of getting back together?

2007-03-29 06:31:45 · 9 answers · asked by maximabullet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I find that men expect us women to have drama. When we dont' and calmly say.. 'that hurt my feelings.. I just need some space' and walk away for a few hours, that ment tend to have drama... calling you moody and guilt trips and just DRAMA... like they don't know how to handle a women who is calm when upset.... Anyone else find this?

2007-03-29 06:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 20 yrs old and my relationship of two yrs has just ended i'm completely and utterly distruaght and all of the dating books suggest to rid the person of my life and not see him anymore...i'm 37 weeks pregnant with his child and see alot of him because of all the prenatal visits and because he wants to be in this baby's life... which i happen to agree with, i want him to paly an active role in our childs life but the more i see and talk to him the more upset and miserable i feel...how do i move on effectively if he's still in my life so much??

2007-03-29 06:27:32 · 13 answers · asked by catherine b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read in my Cosmo magazine that 1 out of 10 men have had a homosexual experience within the past year. True?

2007-03-29 06:22:57 · 8 answers · asked by *Just Married* 4 in Singles & Dating

He and I have known each other for a very short period of time, and he gave me a promise ring before I left to go to Germany. I'm going to be here for the next two years, probably Turkey for 15 months, and then settling in Italy. He says now that we're engaged, and he's looking for diamond engagement rings, but I've told him that I'm not ready. I'm 19, and I want to get my degree in nursing and in art before anything drastic happens in my life. He's never met my parents, and he keeps thinking that I really don't want to get married because I want to wait. This makes no sense to me. I mean, shouldn't he want to wait? I don't want to have to split my attention between my future children and school, and I don't want to be financially unstable, so that's why I want to get education out of the way. I also am not ready for such a big commetment. He says that it's hard to trust me because everytime I raise the subject it's "one thing after another." Help!!

2007-03-29 06:22:36 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whenever there's a girl I find myself attracted to, I usually don't get hard or have any desire to undress her. I just get an overwhelming desire to want to be with her and to want to be loved by her. Does this make me less of a man because I don't crave sex with them? Is there something wrong with me? I'm not effeminate or metrosexual or anything like that by any stretch of the imagination.

BTW, if you were wondering, yes I do get hard sometimes, however, it is only when I get confronted by dirty things that resonate with my more primitive sexual desires, not with something clean like meeting a wonderful girl.

2007-03-29 06:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in my 30's and find that when you stand up to your date and say 'wow, that hurt my feelings, please don't do that again.' or set some kinds of boundery.. that the man tends to call you moody or withdraw and react in some sort of 'temper tantrum way', trying to get a rise out or you or start a fight or something? I find that I stay very calm and am much less upset and emotional, I tend to be the grounded, calm one that won't take crap or the blame... do other women find this?

2007-03-29 06:18:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated from my husband for about 2 months now and we are filing divorce papers this week, should I take my ring off now or keep it on till the divorce is final?

2007-03-29 06:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i understand women getting treated badly a lot by men and it affects how they interact in future relationships but are there any good ones left? not all us men are dogs but it seems like the ones who aren't get stuck with the title too. theres seems to be no more easy living in love anymore, all drama and stress.

2007-03-29 06:16:31 · 26 answers · asked by scauma 2 in Singles & Dating

Like my boyfriend and i met by a prank phonecall, yeah i know weird but like i really like him and i wana know if other people are going through the same thing

2007-03-29 06:15:20 · 10 answers · asked by A.F.B 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together 3 years. I had a daughter going into the relationship and we now have a son. I told him on our first date, because he asked, that I had been with 12 people, a few were one night stands. He has just put together the timeline in his head of when I was with these people and it all happened within a year. He doesn't think he will be able to get past this. Is there anything I can say to make things better? Should I try or is this his problem in his head he has to deal with?

2007-03-29 06:11:28 · 30 answers · asked by beautiful~bliss 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i have been together for about 6 months and we have had been together in the past as well. i know that i love her but i want to sleep with other women as well.

i did just that about 3 weeks ago and it didn't feel the way i thought it would feel.

the girl was cool and kind of crazy but i smashed anyway.

while the two of us where doing it my girlfriend called and i ignored the call.

since then my girlfriend has been acting all wierd and doesn't talk to me the same way. like she is disgusted with me.

so the question is should i tell her i cheated or just leave the situation alone?

remember i love her and i dont want to hurt her in any way.

2007-03-29 06:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Michael F 3 in Singles & Dating

I want to first state that I live in a part of the country where open bars are very uncommon, so keep that in mind...

My wedding reception will be held at a place where they do not sell alcohol, so we have to bring in our own and not sell it. We will have about 135 guests, most of them do drink, most don't very heavily.

We are planning on having 3 kegs of beer, 25 bottles of wine, 3 1.75 liters of Captain Morgan, 2 1.75 liters of brandy, 2 1.75 liters of whiskey, 2 1.75 liters of vodka, 2 liters of Baileys, 2 liters of Midori, and 2 liters of Amaretto. Do you think this will be enough for a six hour reception?? We'll have various mixes for the liquor also. And does this sounds like a fair enough variety - there will be no other alcohol available, not even for purchase.

Thanks for any help!!

2007-03-29 06:03:14 · 25 answers · asked by MJ MCK 4 in Weddings

ok i met this guy online and i've fallen in love with him but he can't come see me becuz he lives in ohio how can see each other???

2007-03-29 05:52:32 · 11 answers · asked by omg 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a big problem ib have a bf who i care for alot and i have strong feelings for him but the problem is that i still have strong feeling for my ex b.f. now my ex is begging me to come back with him and he came to visit me yesterday and i was so happy to see him i missed him so much, but to be honest am so confused because i feel something for both of them and i love them the same and my ex is begging me to comeback with him but am so confused and its so hard to think who i really want to be with, i need some advice please!! has it ever happen to you guys if it has tell me your experience and what happened

2007-03-29 05:51:23 · 24 answers · asked by St@r 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't have the money to go to a therapist.See,I become attracted to someone.I start dating them,and then it starts to get tiring for no apparent reason.Do you think I just haven't found the right person yet or am I just having trouble giving someone a full chance?I'm still young,I'm 19(maybe that has something to do with it).I'm not the shallow/immature type either.All my girlfriends have said that I have commitment problems,but maybe they're just being bitter...?If this is true,what am I doing wrong?I can't afford therapy.

2007-03-29 05:51:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to stay with my daughter who is 14 years old and lives in another state. My ex-husband had moved due to job reasons. His mother was helping to take care of her.

I left because I could not adjust to the constant interference from my ex and his mother.

Now, he is saying the I stole things from the house and the he will take drastic actions to get the things that I know I did not take back from me. He also says that I created bitterness in them and let them down. He says that my daughter never wants to see me again for the rest of her life. He says that I have ruined my daughter and her grades are bad for the time when I was there.

My parents are telling me to focus on myself and look into finding a companion, take a class and improve myself. I am not able to because I feel so guilty for hurting them and especially my child. He has not followed the visitation rules in the past though per the court order.

2007-03-29 05:50:17 · 2 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm just asking

2007-03-29 05:49:51 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley J 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and im not happy he doesnt do nothing wrong hes just annoing as hell. He dont have a job a car and doesnt go to school that often hes in trouble alot all of this im not i hve a job a car and im never in trouble with the law......he always wants to be with me i can never have free time...how do you make them break up with you?

2007-03-29 05:48:03 · 15 answers · asked by Megan T 2 in Friends

OK so his birthday is in June. I have no job and wont have one by then. I can't buy him a present this year and I usually try to do something special each year not only for him but everyone I care about, thats just me. Anyone have any ideas? He loves to cookout but the problem is he is always the cook 'cause everyone loves it when he cooks. I want him to be pampered on his bday! Anyone? Anything will help!

2007-03-29 05:46:51 · 1 answers · asked by DREDAY 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-03-29 05:46:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anna 1 in Singles & Dating