Whenever there's a girl I find myself attracted to, I usually don't get hard or have any desire to undress her. I just get an overwhelming desire to want to be with her and to want to be loved by her. Does this make me less of a man because I don't crave sex with them? Is there something wrong with me? I'm not effeminate or metrosexual or anything like that by any stretch of the imagination.
BTW, if you were wondering, yes I do get hard sometimes, however, it is only when I get confronted by dirty things that resonate with my more primitive sexual desires, not with something clean like meeting a wonderful girl.
2007-03-29 06:19:29 · 12 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it makes you less of a man at all bro. I think when it comes to a relationship or caring for a woman you look at the substance of that individual. It seems physical interactions with someone is almost a bonus to you and you have a high respect not only for yourself but the person your with. Once those feelings have developed into full fledged love or what have you, i feel a certain level of comfort will make the experience much more enjoyable. Your a good man bro. Do what you feel is best and what makes you happy. Good luck!
2007-03-29 07:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by theHOCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your mind, wonderful girls are too good to do something as "primitive" as you desire to meet your need and you are afraid that if they do, their wonderfulness will go away, so you don't give them the opportunity. It doesn't make you less of a man, it just makes it impossible to find the balance between a woman who is really going to turn you on and be the type of woman that you really want to be with.
2007-03-29 13:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No actually its makes you more of a true real man because you value her and want to be with her not just sleep with her. A man isn't some one who just wants sex, that's just a little boy discovering her little "peter" trying to play a man's role. If more guys were like you, less girls would want other girls. Be Proud!
2007-03-29 13:27:48 · answer #3 · answered by TeeT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww thats so sweet!
no it dont make you less than a man, maybe when you are with the person you want to be with then maybe you will start to desire to rip her clothes off etc. Maybe you will only feel that way when you are in a relationship is what im trying to say, I think its very nice, and whatever girl gets you will be very lucky!! :o)
2007-03-29 13:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are less of a man, in fact you probably hit from the other side of the plate. You need to figure out who's team you want to be on...not that there is anything wrong with that.
2007-03-29 13:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This does not make you less of a man in my opinion i like that in a guy that is what i look for but i can't find but cause you are feeling this does not make you less of a man.
2007-03-29 13:29:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not less of a man..it's just that you go too emotional with them, that's why you dont think of sex that much with them. it's really good. but you know you just got to satisfy her sometimes else she'll think you dont love her(meaning you dont want to have anything dwin with her) but you can adjust easily, firstly...when you have sex with a girl you dont love , you feel different. but with a girl you love, men....you feel on top of the world. just try to concentrate and dont be nervous. that's all you do it.
2007-03-29 14:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by Elfindo C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your perfectly fine and a gentleman, and it just goes to show to me that you are looking at girls as a real person, your not looking at them like sex objects, and looking for a relationship that will have meaning, and that just isnt the first one that comes along..
2007-03-29 13:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not less of a man. Seem like you want a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. Lol! :)
2007-03-29 13:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by Babe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not less of a man. you have not found the girl that turns on yet.
2007-03-29 13:22:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋