I find that men expect us women to have drama. When we dont' and calmly say.. 'that hurt my feelings.. I just need some space' and walk away for a few hours, that ment tend to have drama... calling you moody and guilt trips and just DRAMA... like they don't know how to handle a women who is calm when upset.... Anyone else find this?
2007-03-29 06:29:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think drama can go in both directions. My observation is that it can TYPICALLY be definded that woman's drama is usually more emotion based from being hurt and men's is more controlling based due to the fear of losing control of the situation.
2007-03-29 06:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! Men often have WAY more drama than women. And men just don't know how do deal with drama-free women. They accuse you of playing games or keeping secrets when you try to deal with things in a calm, rational, adult manner. And what's worse, when you act just like THEY do, they think you've lost your damn mind. Men just can't accept the fact that not all women are soft or weak or emotional all of the time. This just reinforces my belief that most men are essentially shaved monkeys; only they monkeys are better behaved and don't smell as bad.
2007-03-29 13:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by badkitty1969 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has drama but males drama doesnt last as long as female drama. Males just drop it and move on after a while but a female can actually hold on to the grudge and bring it to their grave. Life is full of drama.
2007-03-29 13:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Chi Town Playa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I've never had a woman do that always gets some massive drama with crying Where do I find a woman that doesn't have drama?
2007-03-29 13:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that carry drama are not limited to someone based on their sex...it's based on choice to create or prolong drama. Some people love it because they see it being glorified - until it blows up in their faces...then they might think twice before creating it. I find that there is a little bit of drama everywhere.
2007-03-29 13:35:00 · answer #5 · answered by Luna 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The difference is that ALL women are drama. It comes with them being emotional creatures. Yes some men can be the same way, but not anywhere near the same levels as women.
The problem is women want men to be emotional, however when they do...someone makes a post like this.
Just can win, but then men get use to that one.
2007-03-29 13:34:18 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
the whole worlds a stage drama kings drama queens i love my movies and my books but i like a mixture comedy drama mystery suspense romantic fantasy the issues are his not urs dont fall for the stuff
2007-03-29 13:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, both genders have drama @ times , but
when you care about each other you are there
to comfort one another in the drama times
2007-03-29 13:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. My bf's last girlfriend was crazy and violent and I'm not. When I'm upset(which is like 10 min.) I hold it in til I'm OK and then talk about it with him. he completely freaks out and tries to start a fight. when I don't give in he apologizes and we're OK. I totally agree with you.
2007-03-29 13:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drama? Have you EVER seen a sick man..OMG... the very best of acting... lol--If i could shove a binky in his mouth and send him packing to Mommy...I would!!!
2007-03-29 13:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by momof3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋