Family & Relationships - 29 March 2007

when im w/ a guy i dont like to take off my bra bc i just feel more comfortable w/ it on, so does that even matter to most guys? or r they gonna get mad??

2007-03-29 08:08:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been lieing to my mum about having a boyfriend for nearly 7 months i dont have a boyfriend.
It all started when i fell for this boy at school now. I dont know what to do does anyone have an excuse for breaking up with a boyfriend.
she keep asking me to invite him over.
I told him how i felt a month ago but he doesnt like me in the same way but we talk on msn all the time we're still friends.
Basically i need an excuse to get out of this hole i've dug myself into.
please help me it's really getting me down now.
I'm 13 14 in a couple of days if you needed to know

please dont reply teeling me how stupid i've been i know i have and really regret it.
thanks for the help would mean the world to me if you guys would help.

Jess
x

2007-03-29 08:04:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my parents are fighting so much and i want them to just divorce because i don't want to here it any more i sick of it but i'm a ffraid that if they do go thorugh with it that my mom won't win the batlle cuz well my mom hasn't finished school but she was going to this fall and it's not like she can support my sis and me so what do i do

2007-03-29 08:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by french_brittany 1 in Family

My future mother-in-law called me and asked me about my wedding gifts. Her friend (who we invited to the wedding) wanted to know if we wanted something off our wedding registry or if we wanted something a little bit 'different' as a gift. When I asked my MIL what her friend meant by 'different' she said 'oh, like a nice peice of pottery or something....'

My response was "Tell her I appreciate the thought and that she doesn't have to get us anything but if she wants to, I'm really picky about what I put in the house..." My MIL said 'oh, okay.' but I got the impression that I might have offended her.

Did I step over the line instead of accepting the 'something different' graciously?

2007-03-29 08:03:31 · 8 answers · asked by Kitten 4 in Weddings

My family and friends tease me if I say I like a girl.

2007-03-29 08:02:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a checking acct of mine he over draws all the time he puts money in it also but wants to write checks for cash and we half to pay over drafts

2007-03-29 08:00:39 · 19 answers · asked by ladyoh 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I need help everyone. I am engaged to a WONDERFUL man, whom which I used to be friends with his child's mother. She used me to her advantage and only spoke to me when she found it convienent, such as if she were having problems with other friends, or needed something.... which is why I really dont feel bad about being with him. (Him and I contemplated dating before they became an item).
Well, the thing is... We have told her about us being together, and now, she has helped esculate false rumors and lies about me (VERY IMMATURE) and is driving my fiance crazy by threatening not to help pay for daycare, or taking his parental visits away. What can I do to help him?

2007-03-29 07:56:40 · 9 answers · asked by LeLe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what keeps you there?
what makes you tough out and love your lady?
and what you want your women to do beside sex?
please serious answer?what do she need to do?

2007-03-29 07:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My youngest daughter said to her sister this morning as she was brushing her teeth,

"I wuv you wike a bucketfow of stwabewies jacewyn,"

shes working on her L's...lol

2007-03-29 07:54:07 · 5 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are at a concert and a girl asks to get on your shoulders, would you let her? What if she weighs slightly more but is still good looking? Would you still put her up there??

2007-03-29 07:53:59 · 1 answers · asked by petite man 1 in Singles & Dating

ideas on how to cheer me up xx

2007-03-29 07:53:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anna B 3 in Family

i live at home and go to college but my parents treat me like a baby ex: they freak out and blow up my phone sometimes even when i'm out or in class . how can i give myself more responsiblities unrelated to them so as to show them that i am infact capable of taking care of myself

2007-03-29 07:51:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am always in the mood for it but I can't find anyone that enjoy's it as much as I do. I think about it all day everyday and I can't wait to do it again. Am I wrong for wanting to clean house that much? Lol Gotcha here have 2 points on me!!! Answer my other question too! Thanks!!!!

2007-03-29 07:47:17 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my mom im signing the lease to my apartment tomorrow and she told me that im not moving out... i will be 19 in june and she is trying so hard to control everything i do. im an adult and i should be treated like one but she doesnt. is there absolutely anything she can even do to keep me here? i am for sure leaving i just dont want her to do something like call the police on me or something....
what is your advice?
thanks

2007-03-29 07:46:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When I found out I was preganant my mother-in law was so excited and it made me and my hunny happy that his parents were. Well my baby is 6 months old now and his mother will hardly even touch her. She's always faking arm injuries and tells me she cant hold her because her neck or her leg or her shoulder hurts. My baby loves her half to death....his parents wont even come visit us at our house.....and its only 3 miles away!!!!My mom says I should not take her over there anymore if they arent going to treat her with love..but i dont want to hurt my husbands feelings anymore than they already are.......oh yea my husbands sister is pregnant now and his mom quit her job 6 months in adnvance to take care of the baby after it is born while his sis works days......We havent done anything wrong....What do you think???

2007-03-29 07:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-03-29 07:44:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter told me that my husband was picking her up from school a month ago and she said while they were coming home he pulled her into the woods and forced her to have sex with him
i was so speechless when she told me this i dont know what im i going to do

2007-03-29 07:43:06 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I love my man and I love sex. And it's not him making me feel this way. He loves me and my body. But when its time to get down and dirty I just can't get off. I've had an orgasm 1 time w/ him. **** should I do?

2007-03-29 07:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by 35073209 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been married for 20 yrs and my husband and i have been in the swinglifestyle for 3 yrs off and on. We met a local cpl whom we have been playing with for abt a year now and the friendship has grown alot, in and out of the bedroom. He and i have become pretty close and we have been meeting behind our spouses back, we either meet at his home or mine before going to work in the mornings and or i step out of my work just to meet with him. We know its wrong but its all good and we dont think about anything but us when we're together. I know its wrong, because we r cheating our partners due to the fact that we r supposed to be honest due to being in the swinglifestyle. We just cant seem to help it. Sometimes i feel like not seeing him anymore, but there is so much chemistry between us and it feels so right, i felt it right away, since before we met. His a mailman and i would see him everymorning delivering the mail to my work place before i even knew he was in the swinglifestyle. Help!

2007-03-29 07:42:33 · 17 answers · asked by txladybug_2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married later this year and have no Mom or sisters to throw me a shower. And unfornately my best friend isn't speaking to me anymore because of her boyfriend.
My Matron of Honor is my only attendant and lives across the US.
My fiances Mom likes me but, seems bothered when I ask her to go with me to do wedding things.
How & Who should I ask to throw my bridal shower?

2007-03-29 07:36:47 · 9 answers · asked by erink1799 4 in Weddings

I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we plan to get married soon. We have no kids yet. His brothers have five kids combined. And his parents treat their wives better and show them more love and i think it is because they kids. They always implying we need to have kids. I feel like an outsider and I hate it. Is this worth me stressing over?

2007-03-29 07:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by sassymama07 2 in Family

I have a son who is 14 years old and he has just annoyed me so much that i finally decided to step in. Instead of being mommys little boy he is mommys little girl now. I have bought him a bunch of girl clothe from a cheap clothe store in town. During the day when he is at school he has to only wear panties and a bra, but when he gets home its off with the boy clothe and on with the girl clothe. I am even thinking about buying him a wig to go with it. I have been doing this for 2 weeks now and he has been the best he has ever been. I probably will keep it up till he goes to college to make sure he doesnt become a pain again. Also to make the punishment worse is that during the night and on weekends he has to wear a diaper. During the week i make him take it off during the day for school, but on weekends he has to wear it and use it. I told him no toilet on weekends. He lets me change him and baby him. I want to hear about other parents who take similar actions when discilplining.

2007-03-29 07:32:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am dating a girl right now who I really like, but the only thing I don't like about the relationship is that she is very "needy" in that she needs me to call her several times a day to talk on the phone. I am very busy and sometimes can only call her once or twice a day but she still seems unsatisfied with that.

Is there anyway I can show her that I'm interested in her without calling her five or more times a day?

2007-03-29 07:32:10 · 27 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this a minute ago in another catagory but I need more answers...I don't think I can let him go....Ok..I'm 29 my boyfriend of one year is 37. Lets go back to the beginning, we work together, known each other for years but were never even really friends. We just struck up a conversation one day. We talked/dated for a month and then I found out that he was seeing this other girl at work, she noticed he and I went out to lunch one day and she came up to him and ask him something in front of me knowing if would cause concern, I asked him about it and finally he admitted they were together but she was married and he knew it wasn't going anywhere and he blew her off since he and I started talking. He said he never fully ended it but thought she would get the point if he was never available. Ok...after a lot of talk we got passed this and I decided to trust him and move on. She has too, I haven't had any more problems with her.

2007-03-29 07:28:49 · 31 answers · asked by Doubtful 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Mine does anyway :)

2007-03-29 07:27:07 · 17 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family

My bf broke up with me a lot of times in the past. Every time after a breakup, he treated me really badly. But i was stupid enough to go back to him everytime.

Until 3 months ago when he broke up with me, i didnt chase after him. I had no contact with him until a month ago he came back for the first time. We started talking and things were going well and he bought tickets to visit me this week.(we are long distance).

But i broke it off a week ago b/c i thought about all the awful things he did in the past, like kicking me out a sec after he broke up with me. He didnt talk to me after that and cancelled his flight. I apologized to him a million times but he ignored the hell out of me. I'm blaming myself for breaking it off but meanwhile i'm getting really angry at him for being so rude and ignoring all my attempts to make amends.

I think i'll stop all these. I mean, i really tried. do u think he'll come back a second time if i have no contact with him like i did last time?

2007-03-29 07:22:04 · 15 answers · asked by cherbearnew 1 in Singles & Dating

My name is Sam and I’m a senior in high school. I apologize if this is going to be VERY VERY VERY LONG but right now I just am breaking down inside. I’ve been crying and very upset. I really NEED to just let this out and I feel like I cannot talk about it to people I know they would not understand. Maybe you guys won’t either. If you do take the time to read this entire thing I want to thank-you from the bottom of my heart for just reading it and if you do take the time to give me advice again I want to thank-you even more. I apologize for the length of this as I’ve stated once already I’m just VERY upset to the point where I’m just breaking down. I really need to let this all out I really just need to say how I feel right now and tell MY STORY this is MY STORY of my life. I can’t take it anymore so PLEASE help me that’s all I ask even one person’s response would help <3Sammy

2007-03-29 07:21:11 · 32 answers · asked by LiLSammy491 1 in Friends

My boyfriend & I are very happy together. We have a real chemistry, & we're the best of friends. However, I'm putting in way more raw emotion - I don't get why he needs so much time to throw "love" in the mix. He keeps saying he needs more time to "get there". It's been 8 months! I'm 24, he's 34 - have discussed that we both want marriage & kids, etc. But spending eight months of this seems like enough for him to really love me. Doesn't it? I hate hearing him say he needs more time - it's not like I'm going to change, or get "better". This is it, this is who I am. If he doesn't love me now, will he ever? Every other guy I've dated has told me how he felt about me way sooner. He says it took him a year to tell his last girlfriend that. We're lovely-dovey & cute - people can see that we are very fond of each other. But seriously, where's the love? My heart says be patient, my mind says he's setting me up for heartbreak.

I need good advice, please, I haven't gotten any yet. :(

2007-03-29 07:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by chaotic_mum 4 in Singles & Dating

when ever i wear my shoes .i wear it wrong way.right shoes in left and left in right.its happend .after the squrril bite me.i feel some strange feeling.after that.i ican clim on a straght wall.i didn't tell this to any boday tell me what should i do.today i ahev an appointment with the doc.he sadi ur fine nothing happend.he just gave me some realxing medicine.what should i do now?plz..any one hare to tell me.....

2007-03-29 07:19:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it a good way to meet people ? What do you think of this type of dance ? Are you ready for it ?

2007-03-29 07:19:01 · 3 answers · asked by Miss Bo 2 in Singles & Dating