I love my man and I love sex. And it's not him making me feel this way. He loves me and my body. But when its time to get down and dirty I just can't get off. I've had an orgasm 1 time w/ him. **** should I do?
2007-03-29 07:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by 35073209 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's kinda small too and way too quick. Maybe that's the real question. How can I get him to last longer so I can enjoy it too. I have weenie creams, wonder rings.. he doesnt like them either and they didn't help AT ALL
2007-03-29 08:03:31 · update #1
“**** should I do” was that pun or a Freudian slip? Well you also added he is small and way too quick and you have only had 1 orgasm with him.
Two small, too quick and only one orgasm…. in baseball he be out. Well there's only one very easy way of giving you an orgasm and that would be by oral.
I’m I assuming he's not doing at either?
Well he's not going to get any bigger no matter what you do. While you mentioned some novelty products like weenie creams and rings you did not mention the pharmaceutical side. Viagra and Levitra can definitely make a man harder and help you maintain whatever he has.
There are also some new drugs that suppress male orgasm. These are typically prescribed for premature ejaculation. Most people don't realize that premature ejaculation means before intercourse. But of course doctors are prescribing it for men that last only a few minutes.
Of course in the caveman days coming quickly was an advantage. Less time for someone to hit you over the head and take your date.
Not to make you feel depressed or anything but the male Lion has sex with a female for two days and can come 100 times …. now you know why they call him the King of beast
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2007-03-29 17:26:24 · answer #1 · answered by GirlsTellAll.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone who will tell you every inch of you is hott. I know you think its not him but with the right man you will see the change in your attitude. Im assuming he is one of your first partners. Test it out, see what works for you. Remember sex should be fun. Dont think about who orgasmed and who didnt, just try different positions till one feels great. The point is to enjoy it. Tell him he needs to go down on you more, make some demands. Once you own your sexuality the orgasms will come and come (no pun intended)
2007-03-29 07:52:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** for me so say.... But I'm thinking its a little of both. Some how he's not able to assist you when the fire alarm is sounding. At the same time... your not able to relax and let it happen. Bottom line is, he's just not doing it for you. Jump over to a new partner.
2007-03-29 07:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by betmexxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WAS THE SAME WAY... THIS IS WHAT I DID, I WATCHED HIM DURING SEX, AND HE WASN'T EVEN PAYING ME ANY ATTENTION UNTIL WE KISSED OR SOMETHING. I WAS JUST LIKE WELL HE IS NOT REALLY WATCHING ME HE IS TOO BUSY BEING IN THE MOOD. SO NEXT TIME WHEN YOU DO IT JUST GO WITH THE FLOW. TELL HIM TO TAKE IT SLOW. TRY DOING IT IN THE DARK OR UNDER COVERS.THEN AFTER YOU BECOME MORE COMFORTABLE EXPERIMENT A LITTLE.
2007-03-29 07:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by passion4fashion07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is simply not a good lover..
He needs to bring you to orgasm first
before he ever enters you..
He can do this manually, orally or with toys...
Once you have your first orgasm , it is
much easier & quicker to bring you to another..
You need to talk to him and teach him how to bring
you to that first orgasm...
2007-03-29 08:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to learn to relax, and take it slow, close your eyes and focus on that area, if im having trouble i do that and for some reason it hightens the sensitivity to me.
2007-03-29 07:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax and give yourself time.
2007-03-29 07:46:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋