Why can't I move on with my life?

Question

I went to stay with my daughter who is 14 years old and lives in another state. My ex-husband had moved due to job reasons. His mother was helping to take care of her.

I left because I could not adjust to the constant interference from my ex and his mother.

Now, he is saying the I stole things from the house and the he will take drastic actions to get the things that I know I did not take back from me. He also says that I created bitterness in them and let them down. He says that my daughter never wants to see me again for the rest of her life. He says that I have ruined my daughter and her grades are bad for the time when I was there.

My parents are telling me to focus on myself and look into finding a companion, take a class and improve myself. I am not able to because I feel so guilty for hurting them and especially my child. He has not followed the visitation rules in the past though per the court order.

Answer 1

Partly listen to the advice of your parents and try to move on, but partly seek advice from a professional or community advice on family matters on what to do from the legal point of view.

All the best!/

Answer 2

I think you should fight for your visitation rights. You have to stop him from filling your daughter with so much hate against you. I also think you should listen to your parents and improve yourself. Don't let this jerk mess up everything thing in your life. Do something for yourself!