Girlfriend dont get intimate - This is killing me......?

Question

Me & my GF (adults) are going for quite awhile and she knows i luv her 2 death.... but whenever i get intimate she says "NO" stating that she is uncomfortable....

I asked the reason why she feels so, but she just says she dont know she just uncomfortable!

Know this thing have happened again & again and i am getting frustration, depresiion and i keep finding answers why she does this to me inspite showing endless luv & care.....

I sumtime feel she just playing with me..... as i definately cant see any other reason....

No past problems nothing and YES, she Luvs s** and s** related talks, p**n etc...

So whatta u all say.....

Answer 1

Time for a new girlfriend.

Answer 2

Well take it from a man with a lot of experience. If your girl really loves you like you say she does then try to make her understand a little. Also try sit down with her when you have time so you can find out what's wrong with her. Most of the times girls sometimes feel guilty, or they just don't want to until they get married, or even they are cheating, or they are waiting for the right person to come along.

Answer 3

It sounds like she might have some emotional issue that is keeping her from wanting to be intimate. Or she has a physical problem that makes her uninterested in sex. Try to be sensitive and get her to talk about it. If she won't, and you really care about her, maybe you could suggest she talk to someone (like a therapist). If not, I think it would be understandable if you broke up with her. If she's not satisfying your needs and not making you happy, you don't need to stay in the relationship.

Answer 4

If the relationship has been intimate and suddenly she can't be - she owes you an explanation. Maybe she got a little unprotected somethin somethin on the side and doesn't want you to get infected. Who knows. But I think you should pressure her to explain and leave if she won't spill the beans.

Answer 5

Okay...MEN don't understand that at times we don't feel comfortable with our own bodies for whatever reason...PLEASE...this is the time where you need to stop thinking with your head downstairs and symphatize with your head upstairs...
My ex thought I was cheating on him when I wasn't SEXUALY AFFECTIONATE with him when I made it clear what was wrong...he still didn't get it.

No matter how many times you can tell us women that we are beautiful and we are gorgeous....
In the end it's all about we feel inside...only we can change that...not what you say...it's nice though don't get me wrong...it's nice to hear but...it doesn't work...Understanding us works much better...
TRUST ME...she'll come around and it will be wild!!!

Answer 6

She may not be ready for a sexual relationship. Give her time or find what you are looking for in someone else. Have you heard of waiting for marriage? This may be her moral and/or religious belief.

Answer 7

Respect her wishes if you really love her. She will eventually get comfortable enough when she is ready. If you pressure her she will resent you. I know you are frustrated at this situation but it's better to wait for her.

Answer 8

she is just nt ready 4 it... if she talks abt it does nt mean she ll wanna do it... 2 make u comfortable she talks all tht.... she needs more of ur care n love.... n ur full commitment 4 her b4 the big step

Answer 9

if she is not a virgin then maybe she feels like all you want her for is sex make sure she knows how you feel, maybe she is seeing someone else ask her what the problem is and tell her how it makes you feel.

Answer 10

this gf needs a time out

Answer 11

don know
she may be a he
she may have STD
she is waiting to turn 18
u r violating her religious beliefs
she's savin it for marriage
she's gay
i give up, give her a hand