I told my friend there has been some rumors going around about her. I told her what they are. It was that she always gets what she wants and if she doesn't get what she wants they she complains about it. It's so annoying so now she's all mad at me.
2007-03-29 08:54:34 · 9 answers · asked by i love wishes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you a real friend? 1st you listen to the rumor and then 2cd you continue the rumor and then 3rd you agree with the rumor as a friend why did you not tell her as coming from you and not as a rumor to make you feel better about feeling that way about her
I have a friend that is that way everything goes her way or not but as her friend I know she is that way and so I chose to stay friends with her I dont have to but I am not going to try to change her either and I have said things before and it was like water off a ducks back so either you are a friend or your not dont try to change her so take charge of your life and dont let people talk about your friends
2007-03-29 09:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with telling her what the rumors are so that she can address them better but if she really is like what the rumors say, I don't know how much of a friend she is. After all, she's mad at the "messenger
2007-03-29 15:58:58 · answer #2 · answered by jonathan beechwood 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your friend is mad in general and will take it out on you because you are the one that told her. That is where the expression "don't kill the messenger" comes from. In ancient times, messengers who delivered news were often killed to keep the news from travelling.
When a person is told something upsetting, that person goes into defensive mode and has a hard time separating the shock of the news from the intention of the person telling them.
Give her time.
2007-03-29 15:58:55 · answer #3 · answered by mysti_gal11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is mad at you for that, then she doesn't respect you as a true friend. She should be happy with someone who is honest. She will get over it and hopefully appreciate your honesty!
2007-03-29 16:13:12 · answer #4 · answered by WOOOOO Whooo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends!!!! grrrrrr u can never please them...
when this happens to me i always think this way "if that was me would i want to know" and if the answers YES then i tell them.. id rather they be mad at me for a little while then people slaging of my friends,this to me this makes u a good friend! if the answers NO u wouldnt want to know then keep it to yourself because it couldnt b that bad to start with if you wouldnt want to know
hope this help u out :)
2007-03-29 16:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF , SHE SHOULDN'T BE MAD AT YOU AT ALL!!! MAYBE SHE TOOK IT THE WRONG WAY. TALK TO HER ABOUT IT AND LET HER KNOW YOU ARE TRULY HER FRIEND BECAUSE YOU LET HER KNOW WHAT WAS BEING SAID . FOR THE RECORD , SHE WAS MAD BECAUSE IT WAS MOST LIKELY TO BE TRUE WHAT WAS SAID!!
2007-03-29 15:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by goddess 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you did something wrong. You gossiped and would have been better of just keeping things to yourself.
2007-03-29 15:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're her friend she'll get over it. be honest you'll stay friends longer. don't pacifie her though.
2007-03-29 16:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by MARGARET O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you call her a girl friend
2007-03-29 15:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by skcs11 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋