OK, so since I left my fiance when I was 23 (almost 4 years now), I've found nothing but liars, cheaters, jerks and disrespectful men. Are there ANY good men left out there? Seriously. Guys and Girls respond please.
2007-03-29 04:13:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry, I'm taken. But thanks for the interest. And the 2 points.
2007-03-29 04:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, sorry, I've found exactly the same thing. Even when you think you have a good one, think again. Okay maybe there are a few but who really wants them anyway, I mean girls say they want a good guy and I don't know about you but whenever I meet one they bore me to death. Girls want bad boys and that's the problem right there! If we can get over our mindset then maybe we will find one but you can't force chemistry, I'm still waiting...
2007-03-29 11:21:37 · answer #2 · answered by jj31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have to look for them in the right place, and you have to actually watch and the beginning of the relationship, every single weird behavior , and say something, it doesn't help just forgetting things and think that "oh he will change in the future" because that doesn't happen.
Also, i know it sound strange but, it is mandatory for you to check his phone calls( and this is not because you are insecure ) but it helps when his behavior is not normal, and at least you know in advance what is happening and if you want to confront him ..you have a base to talk about it. Its better to know now than 5 years later.
2007-03-29 11:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by ginany25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of good?
Not every guy lies, cheats and are disrespectful - unfortunately those who aren't are normally married or taken. Maybe you just need to go out to a different place and meet someone new than in your local area.
2007-03-29 11:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by East 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
=) !!!Yes I think there might be good guys but if u don't look good how are u going 2 find him try to be positive and don't think theres no more guys 4 u because theres always a guy 4 everybody just like we are 4 them 2 so try being funny, and I don't mean lying no try being serious and tell the guy that u like to take everything serious to andd if he really loves u he'll be responsable but theres always good guys u just need 2 find them good!!!! =)
2007-03-29 11:31:16 · answer #5 · answered by yadira c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am pretty newly too and leaving my fiancee' last year. And I've had a few dating mishaps, but I do believe there are good guys still left. it just takes awhile to find em is all. Be patient and you'll see.
2007-03-29 11:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are plenty of good guys out there. Women always complain about how their aren't any good men out there buy what do women do? They fall for the guys that treat them like crap. You're dating the wrong guys.
2007-03-29 11:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm good , I don't lie ,cheat or do drugs, I was thinking the same thing about women , you can check me out if you want , and maybe chat on 360 ., hows that sound hun?/?
2007-03-29 11:21:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a good guy until my wife ruined that we are going through a divorce now and I am kinda cold hearted
2007-03-29 11:17:15 · answer #9 · answered by yung_buk245 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously theres whole lot more than you think there is...your just so caught up in dating the bad guys you always overlook the nice and commonly shy guy and its very very annoying...and clubs arent a good place to look..
2007-03-29 11:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Clementine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are. I think you just need to learn how to weed out the lowlifes and find a guy who shares your values and concerns.
2007-03-29 11:17:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋