Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

2007-01-04 08:15:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What if your erection lasts three hours, isn't that a problem?

2007-01-04 08:15:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?
Does this mean anything about my ex gf?
i caught my ex kiss another guy it hurts bad i love her still!! she said shes really sorry, she said it wud hurt if she saw me too! she said we arnt together any more, she said that gut ment nothing and that im a beter kisser i dont knw why she said that!she was flirting with me all that night but then she got really drunk! i thought we would end up back together cause she was ringing me the whole time and askin me to go out with her, she said she wants to be freinds..

2007-01-04 08:15:11 · 6 answers · asked by dan w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 5 1/2 years (married for 2 1/2). Our baby boy was born in May of this year.

My husband comes from a family where is father severely abused his mother (physically) and is also an alcoholic, though his family doesn't see this. My husband is also an alcoholic... he's been sober since March, but he's doing it "on his own." I know this is a red flag, and I also know that the next time I suspect he's been abusing, I am taking my son and RUNNING.

During his drinking binges (and now I'm noticing it at other times recently as well), he has a habit of verbally abusing me. He tells me I am bipolar, he threatens to throw me out and he has even threatened divorce saying he'd get full custody of our child b/c I don't work. He is rarely intimate with me unless I initimate (and even then it's like twisting an arm). I feel like all this is making me fall out of love with him, and I am not sure what to do. We intend to go to couples counseling

2007-01-04 08:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by Dana F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am told that the courts will more than likely grant me custody because the baby is so young. i believe it is in her best interest to be with me, but i'm afraid that my husband is going to try to prove me emotionally unstable. she is breastfeading. should i be worried?

2007-01-04 08:13:18 · 16 answers · asked by goodtalkin' 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He is cheating on me bad. I mean he has a women in his apartment everynight. I'm suppose to fly out to see him, to try to work this out..I feel inside that i still need him, want him......

2007-01-04 08:13:01 · 10 answers · asked by mixedgurl19 1 in Singles & Dating

Well im currently in a relationship but before I started going out with my boyfriend I was seeing this one guy who I fell in love with. We were never an actual couple but i fell for him eventhough he told me since day one that he did not want a relationship. I still went out with him wishing that one day he would fall in love with me but it never happened. So I came across my boyfriend and developed feelings for him. But i still cant get over the other guy. I get so depressed because i feel like im lying to my bf. I think that if the other guy were to tell me to get back with him I probably would. But when I was with him he was seeing other girls and it really hurt me. I didnt want to be in that type of relationship cause it wasnt healthy for me. However dispite everything that the other guy did I still cant forget about him. Its so hard cause theres times when im with my bf and think about the other guy. I dont want to keep on doing this to him. Please help get over the other guy. I do have self respect thats why I chose to end this and move on. I wouldnt want to leave my bf because he is my joy now. I need to know how can I tell the other guy to stop calling me or asking me to hang out.

2007-01-04 08:10:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

no need for details...just wondering

2007-01-04 08:10:56 · 9 answers · asked by swingorstrikeout 3 in Singles & Dating

I dont like anything about it. The weather is completely different (too hot and humid) unlike alaksa where the weather is cold and snowy. No one here likes me. They think im strange and differnt cuz im the new kid in school and no one believes me when i told them i moved here from AK. I had to get all new clothes cuz its too hot here. I get burned easily cuz my skin is pale. so i have a really bad sunburn right now. I just want to fit in and make some new friends. can someone tell how to make some?

2007-01-04 08:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by akgurl92 1 in Friends

I have been hurt numerous times in my life. No matter how hard I try I always end up getting hurt. I want to be happy but from what I learned I know it is not possible for me to be happy in love. How can I avoid falling in love again? I think that maybe I should just avoid dating guys altogether and never spend a lot of time with them. Maybe I'll get a cat.

2007-01-04 08:10:08 · 24 answers · asked by Heaven26 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy and I are pretty much over but i wanted to feel closure so I emailed him to ask if we could talk last night at a specific time and for him to email me back if that was ok...he never emailed me back so I figured he didnt want to deal with me...he emails me this morning that says "you were suppose to come over last night" I just feel like if he wanted me to come over he would have texted or called to see where I was...or even responded to the email.

do I email him back??? if so what do i say??? Im annoyed with him and feel like I should just say F*** it and him and move on.

2007-01-04 08:09:45 · 12 answers · asked by Sam s 2 in Singles & Dating

ive tried everything and everyone 4 help with my son,noone seems to want to no only when he`s done something wrong.at the end of my tether,any suggestions.

2007-01-04 08:09:09 · 13 answers · asked by micky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

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2007-01-04 08:09:03 · 8 answers · asked by Duck 2 in Friends

how do u french kiss correctly? Is there a correct way to french kiss or not?

2007-01-04 08:08:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think I need to get counseling. Things have to be so perfect in my life and if they aren't, I freak! Especially lately...I don't know if it's been because of the people I have been around or what. But I have come to want what other people have, such as there family life, even if they don't have everything in the world. I just really miss hanging with my brothers.
I am honestly dying to get back in school so I can get away from home and from situations that I feel envious of.

My best friend is getting married and I am really happy for her but she shouldn't be living with the guy! Her parents are Christians and they are letting the guy stay in there house! I don't have a problem with the marriage or anything like that but if he is "the one" then why not wait for him. She has told me they have not had sex or anything like that but other people have wondered about it. She is getting a bad reputation and she shouldn't...If anybody knows about Southern Baptist Churches then you should know right along with me...that if the couple has been living together that the church will not marry them. She wants a big wedding as well.

Ever since my brothers have moved out and I got into my 20's I have had the earning to chill with them, but they always thought of me as the "tag along" and since I don't fit into there lifestyle they never call to hang, it's always me doing the calling. I have always thought that the stuff they thought was funny, was funny...but why is it that they never wanna hang out? Would I be disgraced by there lifestyle?

2007-01-04 08:08:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so I helped her to pack her bags......was this nice of me?

2007-01-04 08:08:09 · 50 answers · asked by Puma 4 in Singles & Dating

We live together and have since I was 15. I am now 18 I have been paying bills since I was 16. He has debt that I help him pay and I pay more bills than he does so he can focus on his debt.

He just bought a car he knew it would break his bank. Well I just got a $2000.00 christmas bonus. I spent $500.00 of that towards Christmas presents for him and our family. And on top of that I spent my whole $800.00 check on our groceries and some more presents, and then I had to go into my bonus and take out $400.00 to hel

2007-01-04 08:07:43 · 14 answers · asked by mandi lala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom is really sick,, and i want to help her whats the best way to help her deal

2007-01-04 08:07:42 · 14 answers · asked by Bewbies 2 in Family

My wife's entire family (15 people) came for a visit during the holidays. The night of Christmas, everyone was sitting around relaxing and having a few drinks and watching television, playing games, etc. I was alone in the kitchen where I had been restocking the refrigerator with beer when my sister-in-law, my wife's older sister, came up and leaned into me. She put one arm around my waist and with her other hand, she slowly rubs my abs and up to my chest where, in my opinion, she lingered a little too long to be appropriate. Then she stood on her tiptoes, kissed my on the neck and said, "Love you...," then turned and walked off to get another drink.

Am I reading too much into this or do you think there was a hidden message in her actions? If so, how should I hand it?

2007-01-04 08:07:13 · 13 answers · asked by Dazed & Confused 1 in Family

And They Gave You A STD Twice And Claim They Never Cheated On You Would You A) Call It Quits Or B) Trust There Word..This Person Has Never Cheated On This Other Person..If This Helps At All The People Are 44 And 34..Plz Only Honest Answers..

2007-01-04 08:07:08 · 12 answers · asked by amber 4 in Singles & Dating

Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. Then he took me home, and when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. BUT, we only dated for one month, so why after one year, after HE dumped me, why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile? So what does he REALLY want and should I be worried?

2007-01-04 08:07:07 · 1 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 08:06:35 · 18 answers · asked by whisper_softly_sweet_luvin_words 1 in Weddings

What is the possibility of a woman who has been jilted by an lover into thinking that they had a future together but then he marries another woman taking him back if his marriage doesn't work out?

2007-01-04 08:06:27 · 9 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine said that her bf was thinking about proposing to her. Im aware of the fact that he has to get her a ring to propose, but does the guy have to buy himself a ring too? Or does the girl by the guy a ring after he proposes to her?? How does that work???

2007-01-04 08:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by girl who whats to know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is getting married in April.We've been best friends for 3 years.I'm supposed to be her maid of honor,but I'm not so sure I want to.It took her months to FINALLY decide on me.She flip-flopped between me,her sister,her out-of-state best friend,her older cousin...at one point she even thought about making us all her maid of "honor" because she didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings.Every time she argued with her sister or got mad at her other friend,she'd call me saying that she knew now that I'm a real friend and she has no doubts about choosing me to be her maid of honor.As soon as they made up,she was unsure again. Honestly,I'm not too set on being the MOH.It's not a big deal to me.I've told her that before,but she won't listen.Also she includes the other 3 maids in wedding planning,but hasn't really brought it up with me.We live down the street from each other & she doesn't work,so there are plenty of times we could talk.We just don't really hang out anymore.Should I decline?

2007-01-04 08:05:52 · 25 answers · asked by Keruma 2 in Weddings

2007-01-04 08:05:39 · 7 answers · asked by Diana K 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible if u can stop having a attitude to your crush because every time I start talking to him I mostly have a attidue I don't know why and I think he might think i'm mean or something?

2007-01-04 08:05:31 · 5 answers · asked by Sami 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We want to renew our wedding vows, but can't figure out an appropriate year to do it. Is 5 years of being married too early to renew vows?

2007-01-04 08:05:28 · 12 answers · asked by army_wife20 1 in Weddings

He was going to e-mail her and tell her he was getting married and leave him alone. Then he said he would just ignore her and maybe she would leave him alone. However, he is still reading them. Most are cartoons, etc. He doesn't answer, though. I say he should let her know he is married and to leave him alone. He said that if my exes contact me, I am supposed to tell them I'm married. I say that's a double standard. He has lied to me before--she lives in his apt building and he told me she didn't when I asked. He said I would be upset--which is true. He knows the e-mails bother me but so far hasn't let her know. Am I being unreasonable to ask him to let her know we are married and to please quit w/the e-mails. I don't think anything is going on with her, but it still bothers me. I think my feelings are more important than hers. Your opinion?

2007-01-04 08:05:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been best friends with this girl for 4 years and we are really close. Now we are dating and have been for 3 weeks. When do i say i love you?

2007-01-04 08:04:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating