Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I knew he liked a girl at his work and believe she might have been a factor in our split, now they are going out and I don't know how to deal with it. I have been asked out a few times myself but just can't face the thought of it. My ex phones me all the time and we get on great, he told me he was thinking of asking to get back, but how could he go from thinking about me to now going out with her?

2007-01-04 23:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have joined many online friendfinder but could not meet responsible ones. will i continue to search or to back up?

2007-01-04 23:58:48 · 2 answers · asked by Wally B 1 in Friends

"If I spend time with the one I like, I will never find the one I love?"

I heard it from a friend, but is it true, or just a saying?

2007-01-04 23:58:07 · 19 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Singles & Dating

but i swear i have only been married the once..

How do i prove my innocense?

2007-01-04 23:57:58 · 28 answers · asked by William H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know this may sound petty, but ever since my boyfriend said he loved me (first I might add), I am always saying it to him first. I have even tried not saying it to see if he does, but he doesnt. The wierd thing is on IM and text he says it on the time...is he just being shy or what?

2007-01-04 23:57:21 · 7 answers · asked by digupdeadstuff1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 23:54:19 · 8 answers · asked by felicia. 2 in Singles & Dating

After a few arguments i found out that she and a girlfriend went into a sex shop with the boss and they dared him to buy them each one.Not sure if i should be angry or not.pls help.

2007-01-04 23:53:24 · 16 answers · asked by thepacifier 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a boy 2months ago.he isnt so beautiful but he is very very pollite and kind.he asked me many times to go out with him but i refused cause he isnt beautiful and cause i ve also met another boy who is beautiful but a little stupid.tomorrow,its the birthday of the first guy and he wanted to go out with me.I accepted cause i couldnt refuse again and cause he bought me a present for christmas.but now i dont really want to go out with him 2morrow and i dont know if i really like him or not.but if i tell him again that i cant go out with him he might get mad and bored and if i realise in a few weeks that i like him at last i will regret it and i will be sad.Besides i dont want to hurt him or to make him sad or feel like a loser cause he is very kind and he isnt worth such bad treatment.but if i go out with him and he give me the present it will be more difficult to tell him that i dont like him, and besides, i dont wanna date him!but i feel pitty. what can I do? what shall I do?help plz

2007-01-04 23:53:00 · 4 answers · asked by chris 1 in Singles & Dating

If it is true why would someone be afraid of a virgin? The only reason I am a virgin is because I am saving myself till marriage, not for religious reasons however, but because I believe in being sensible. Also what is the proper term of someone being afraid of virgins, I am having trouble remembering it.

2007-01-04 23:52:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend and i have a best friend but everytime i be around my boyfriend my friend always gets in the way of us and she always do things to make him look at her but i don't know how to tell her but she use to like him a long time ago and when i started going with him she started to act funny

2007-01-04 23:52:01 · 14 answers · asked by kuntry_blaque16 1 in Singles & Dating

Esp for online retailers. For ex. You bought a 250 dollar video card from amazon.com and then you switched it with a 20 dollar video card and returned it. Has anyone ever done this? You think you will be able to get away?

2007-01-04 23:51:16 · 3 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

And he never calls. Then, when I call him back and he answers then suddenly has to go do something. Does that means he's not really into me?

2007-01-04 23:51:10 · 8 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 33 yrs old and on my third marriage.My husband is African American and i am Irish/ half costirican.Though his ex. wife throws racial slurs at me and his family is not thrilled about me he seems to see me as a status symbol?I over heard a conversation between him and someone at work where he called me his trophy wife?And i quote that he had got a white woman!

2007-01-04 23:51:02 · 7 answers · asked by Elizabeth S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been at my job for a number of years and am a very good employee. I don't have any call ins or lateness. I am up for a very big promotion and everything was looking like it was going my way. Last week my boss told me that the promotion is mine the only thing I have to do now is sleep with him and have his baby. He says that he finds me attractive and he wants to get me pregnant. I wasn't sure if this appropriate work place conduct since I am a married woman, so I went to some of my co workers and they said that they have all slept with him on numerous occasions to get raises and promotions also. Even some of the men clamined to have slep with him as well. I reported this behavior to my boss's manager and says that if I want the promotion I better do as I am told. Should I sleep with my boss and have his baby for this promotion? I really want this job but my boss is not very attractive. Help please!

2007-01-04 23:50:44 · 15 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Friends

So i was with this girl. I got along great with her family, I took her out, I trusted her, but I knew she was insecure about 'getting hurt'. It was affecting our relationship so I sat her down and talked about things with her for over an hour and reassured her that I really cared about her and I had no problem waiting on sex until she is ready and that she needs to open up a little bit to me so i know whats going on. Hell, I even came and 'cuddled' with her when she was sick and brought a movie over. She had plenty of space and I let her go out with the 'girls' because I trusted her. She told me yesterday I am 'friend' material and I told her to piss off since I'm not her goddam friend. Should I just be a total d*ck from now on since it pays better?

2007-01-04 23:49:32 · 13 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here goes, theres a man who showed me such and made me feel such attraction and sparks that I havent felt in a long time, problem is hes married and he didnt tell me and im heart broken yah but I kindof get the feeling he still likes me ( im 21, hes 44) I always catch him staring,AND he always seems to try make small talk, but now he wont I get the feeling its cause hes nervous, I have been told im rather intimidating, please tell me does he still like me? so I could break to him just give up and quit trying to lead me on thank you

2007-01-04 23:48:25 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

I created a myspace profile for my husband so he could connect with old high school buddies. He had his account up the other day and I saw he had quite a few women on it. I asked who they were and he said that they all went to his high school and that one had dated his friend Steve, one was his old buddy Matt's sister, one was "Like a little sister", etc. He asked me to download some photos onto his profile, and since I created his profile I obviously know his password and therefore have access to everything. Being the nosey wife I am, I read his messages. There were like 10 back and forth between him and one woman. I read a few and they seemed more like buddies chatting than anything sexual, but still. Another woman left a message saying "Wow, I had such a major crush on you in high school!" Should I be jelous or worried? And before you say have trust in my husband, how many women do you think did trust their husbands, right up until the moment they found out he had cheated?

2007-01-04 23:47:57 · 33 answers · asked by LittleMermaid 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i need his help but he need my help too.. it is a sex with him.. he said he gave what my family want because he know that i am a very poor person and have a big responsibilty in our family.. What should i do? take it or leave it... please i need all your answer..

in a practical way...

2007-01-04 23:46:59 · 2 answers · asked by jessa l 1 in Friends

2007-01-04 23:46:39 · 30 answers · asked by William H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im torn between two guys who are quite friendly with each other and go to same school!!the first guy is a bit of a bad boy and i scored him first he was texting me but i never got to see him again and he stopped texting!!i then met the other guy while out one night he is dead sound and great fun and i've met up with him a few times at the cinema and stuff and we get on great!!but last day we were out together we bumped into the first guy and it brought all the feelings I had felt for him flooding back again!when i got home that night he text me again and asked about meeting up!i know for certain though he may only be after one thing whereas the other guy wants something more serious with me!i cant get the other guy out of my head though and im ruining everything?!what should i do?!please help??!!!xx

2007-01-04 23:45:37 · 12 answers · asked by lil Miss Irish 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 23:44:59 · 11 answers · asked by ted j 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy. I have told him, but it seems like now
we are more distant and we don't talk as much.
I want to be friends, but I need him. He was
there for me through so much.
Just help me please...

How can he not see how much I care about him...?
What do I say, what do I do?

2007-01-04 23:43:13 · 6 answers · asked by Shauna. 2 in Singles & Dating

i need his help but he need my help too.. it is a sex with him.. he said he gave what my family want because he know that i am a very poor person and have a big responsibilty in our family.. What should i do? take it or leave it... please i need all your answer..

in a practical way...

2007-01-04 23:42:53 · 3 answers · asked by jessa l 1 in Friends

just yesterday, i had a little jogging around the city, not quit long my gf started breathing fast.to cut the story short, she later told me for the first time that she has a sickness called< asma< pls dont mind my spelling.i have moved with her six months..... so pls i want to know if this sickness of the heart is can affect me too cos i have been exchanging kisses with her all this while. secondly plsss also educate how dangerious this very problem is, cos i love her so much. i need seriuos answer urgently plss.

2007-01-04 23:41:45 · 16 answers · asked by Daniel I 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has been given advice by me on this topic now I'm asking the general public. Her boyfriend that she lives with gets drunk and calls his abusive ex. He tells my friend that he loves her but she doesn't believe him because of his calling the ex. From my understanding he supposedly doesn't do it all the time but he does do it. She now feels that because he may be cheating on her she should cheat on him. He's home when she gets there and doesn't miss a lot of work. At night when he goes out either she's with him or he's only gone like 15 minutes tops. Should she cheat on him because she feels based on his calling his ex he's cheating on her. Keep in mind she goes through his cell phone and this is how she knows he's calling the ex or at least talking to her. Good advise is welcomed.

2007-01-04 23:39:21 · 13 answers · asked by Pisces Princess 6 in Singles & Dating

Who do you think looks prettiest?

http://i117.photobucket.com/albums/o50/toughlemons/4bestfriends.jpg

2007-01-04 23:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 23:38:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 23:38:11 · 16 answers · asked by jlo1206 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Plz any one give(of course more than 13 years old) email add.I am in need of friends.

2007-01-04 23:37:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 23:36:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating