I knew he liked a girl at his work and believe she might have been a factor in our split, now they are going out and I don't know how to deal with it. I have been asked out a few times myself but just can't face the thought of it. My ex phones me all the time and we get on great, he told me he was thinking of asking to get back, but how could he go from thinking about me to now going out with her?
2007-01-04 23:59:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
8 months is not along time, it can take two to three years to start to feel over someone, give yourself time, you will get over it.
If he wants someone else, then he's not the one for you.
The more you talk to him, or contact him, the longer it will take you to feel better. You need to stand back from situations, then you are able to think straight. Time really does change things.
2007-01-05 00:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by kez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's on the rebound. It's normal to still have trouble getting over your split. 7 years is a long time to have spent with someone. Now you have to learn how to live on your own again, and it's gonna take awhile. You'll be alright, just be good to yourself and let yourself grieve. Best wishes.
2007-01-05 00:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know fully well that 7 years is not 7 days so to forget about that person will not be all that easy!.
2007-01-05 00:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i think u jus need to move on, i mean 7 years is long time, u cud of meet sum1 amazin durin then and ur wastin ur time on him. Jus forget him sweet heart and go an av sum fun. xx
2007-01-05 00:20:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmy xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with J, It has taken me about 3 years to get over my ex, we dated for little over a year.Try not to wait that long though.Get closer to your friends, go out and do d thing u love doin and the right person will come along.
2007-01-06 04:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, 7 years ... that's a long time.
2007-01-05 00:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i know its hard but this guy is playing mind games he himself doesnt know what he wants the phraze having your cake and eating it to comes to mind. he doesnt want to be with you but doesnt want anyone else to have you i think it would be best for you to completly lose contact with him its hard enough getting over someone after being with them for so long but you will never get over him if you speak all the time and he keeps thinking about asking you back. but dont just jump back into dating give yourself time to get to know yourself again because you will be so used to taking someone elses feelings into acount just have fun with your friends and when your ready then go for it good luck honey i hope this helps xxx
2007-01-05 00:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by samantha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart ,,thats all you have to do,, its the greatest teacher in the world,,
the human race was going through what we go through centeries ago,,
live live live,, one day you'll die
dont do the autopies of life
if it feels right go for it
go get him back girl but only if you want to
take control babes
2007-01-05 08:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by roy m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im with the first one - 7 years, wow.
2007-01-05 00:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋