How do you know if your husband really loves you?

Answer 1

See how he responds when you tell him what you respect about him and then show him respect all the time. God commands men to love their wives and commands wives to repect their husbands. IF a woman is resentful and ugly and talks behind her husbands back and runs him down all the time she is bound to pick up unloving signs, but if she shows her man respect UNCONDITIONALLY she will recieve unconditional love, because all men soften when they are respected. MEn dont want love as much as they prefer respect, whereas all women need love and that is because they operate mostly by emotions (which are not good to go by at all). If women decide to become accountable towards their men and deem their marriage as important and want it to work, then its simple. Show unconditional respect to your man EVEN IF HE DOESNT LOVE YOU BACK IMMEDIATELY. In time he will.

I wish I had known this sooner in my married life, because like most people I did things all the wrong way around until it cost us a divorce. I got given a second chance after 4 years of separation and since changing my way of thinking and way of handling things and reading books on marriage, things have been great and still are getting better and better 10 years later. Read the books below and leave them in a place where he might just pick them up one day and begin to read. The chances are yes he loves you but if you are criticizing him and going him instead of respectfully and calmly handling problems, then my advise is to change your tactics. Im not saying you are doing this but suggesting you dont go that road.

I dont live in America but am from SOuth Africa and the picture the media paints of AMericans is one of no respect for fathers and for men in general and quite frankly it has only created a very sick society and promoted this way of thinking to other countries as well. IF people throughout our world had love and respect for one another we would really live in a better world wouldnt we. I admire the CHinese, Japanese and Korean people because they believe in honour and are very respectful towards each other and perhaps we should learn from them. Maybe not all of them are like that but thats the impression we get from them.

Answer 2

So, basically, she left him, married someone else and then found out the new guy was no prince? Your husband is a fool. She's probably happy enough when her husband is giving her what she wants, and only "loves" yours (or other men) when she is feeling ignored. Point this out to your husband, and tell him that because he fell for this, you've lost respect for him. Tell him you want to be married to someone who is going to love you for you and won't be so eager to let another woman invade your lives. You say this to make him dislike her. My guess is that he said those things because he was so flattered by her attention. It would be very hard to ignore someone who had left you for someone else coming back and saying they regretted the decision. However, many men would have cheated and he didn't. That tells me that he really DOES love you but was caught up in the flattery of the moment. I would stay married if he starts to see her for what she is ... a troublemaker ... but not if he's going to keep her on pedestal. Good luck.

Answer 3

A man who loves you, is protective of you. Does your husband make sure your car is in good running condition? Does he keep the house safe, by checking doors & windows, and making sure alarm systems are operational? Does he inquire about your health when you're not feeling well? Has he made sure you have adequate insurance, in case of his death? Are the children provided for? Is he warm and accommodating in bed? Can you confide in him? When he's away from home, does he make it easy for you to reach him, in case of emergencies? These are the qualities of a loving husband.

Answer 4

Oh ! I can't begin to tell you the ways he tells me. But I know it every day. You know your husband loves you when he puts your best interest before his own. How does your husband know you really love him ?? Good question, Huh ? Remember that works both ways. LOVE BEGITS LOVE. I don't know your age but don't confuse love with jealousy. There is no connection. Love is not jealous. Love is content,secure,loyal,happy, joyful and must be dealt with daily to keep it growing. I know my husband really loves me and you will know the same,you feel so special to someone and he to you.
Good Luck to you & yours & Happy New Year~~~

Answer 5

This shouldn't really be a question! If he is your husband you should have had no doubts before marriage! That's what marriage is suppose to be a commitment of love!

Answer 6

Love is more than sex. True love is found in the little things. A hug in the morning, a tender kiss. Mostly love is a willingness to serve the other persons needs before serving our own needs. There is no room for selfishness in true love.

Answer 7

Actions

Answer 8

If he truly does, you wont be let to wonder.
I never heard my Papa tell my Granny that he loved her. He showed her in many ways. He made sure there was always enough money to pay the bills and then some. He made sure that her car was always full of fuel and in tip top driving condition. He never had to be asked or reminded to do household repairs - he simply did them when they were necessary. He made sure never to wear his dirty work boots or clothes into the home - as to not soil anything that she would have to clean. When she was ill, he was with her every day taking care of her every need. He never forgot her birthday, Valentines Day, or their anniversary. He never neglected or forgot to be a Gentleman in her presence. He kept his word, never broke a promise, never raised a hand or voice in anger and treated her with respect...That is Love...all people show it differently...but as I mentioned...If you have to wonder...you might want to re-think your partnership.

Answer 9

You don't... You never *really* know what goes on in another person's mind. All you can do is listen to your head, heart and gut, and draw your conclusions from what you observe.

Answer 10

Actions.. I am going thru similar questions.
Saying it is awesome but I feel the little things add up to greater satisfaction - hold my hand, caress, just a look in my eyes and smile, cuddling at night