ok here goes, theres a man who showed me such and made me feel such attraction and sparks that I havent felt in a long time, problem is hes married and he didnt tell me and im heart broken yah but I kindof get the feeling he still likes me ( im 21, hes 44) I always catch him staring,AND he always seems to try make small talk, but now he wont I get the feeling its cause hes nervous, I have been told im rather intimidating, please tell me does he still like me? so I could break to him just give up and quit trying to lead me on thank you
2007-01-04 23:48:25 · 23 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As an older man, I can tell you that women enjoy a lot of attention and affection. They also like someone who is intelligent and is a good conversationalist. Men, and women, become better at those things with experience.
Even the physical aspect of a relationship is better because we have learned a lot over the years.
It's ok to like an older man, but be sure that you have a few things in common. Otherwise, the relationship could be in for some rocky times.
I think this guy likes you, but if he's married... you're asking for trouble and a lot of heartbreak.
2007-01-04 23:54:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This man has just married so if he really true loved you would have been the one in the mariage but Nope his with another woman .Stop wasting your time gal you are stil very young and ve a bright future.Lokk ahead and not to the past look at the future.
2007-01-05 00:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by wezi m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him - he was going through a mid life crisis and wanted a young thing he could use. Age doesn't really matter but the fact that he's married does - get your own man.
2007-01-04 23:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Lou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey..if you noticed..he's married! you wouldn't want to be the one labelled as "the third party" who breaks up people's family would you? and he's married..by right he should let you know that!what i suggest you should do is to talk to him..have a serious chat with him..ask him what is it that he wants..if he's only in for a fling or looking for some kind of adventures..then i say you move on and forget him..there's really no point or no ending to this if you keep hanging on to this love triangle..it will only make things worse!so keep that in mind..
good luck =)
2007-01-04 23:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man has alot of responibilities i mean hes 44 and has a family..so id say just leave him alone cuz u wouldnt want to ruin a family would u??
2007-01-04 23:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by Tello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on there`s more to life than Bed n Board,that ocean out there has a lot of fish in it & most of them if caught would treat you right,think carefully before you continue with someone who is comfortable with their own situ n open your eyes to the wider world.
2007-01-05 02:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by edison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's married, do the right thing in the name of women everywhere, and leave the married man alone. He's not yours to have. Move on, he's too old for you anyway. Geeze, believe me on this one.
2007-01-04 23:52:39 · answer #7 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
regardless of whether he wants you or not - back off - hes a married man. Do you want to be responsible for the heartbreak that comes attached to having an affair - either his wifes - or yours? Stay away from him you silly little girl.
2007-01-05 00:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pls don't fool ur self, he is a married man and have no future plans for u. He has no feelings for u so break up now.
2007-01-04 23:58:07 · answer #9 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WALK away. Why help him ruin his marraige. It may already be ruined but why help. There are all so many single older men that would love to date a younger woman. So take your time and look. Leave this one alone. Look at it this way. If he cheats/ed on his wife do you really believe he won't cheat on you?
2007-01-04 23:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋