Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Ok so I dated this girl for a year and we were eabout to move in together. One day we're on the phone and she casually says, "This guy, Andy, at work has a crush on me." That's all, didn't bring it up again. Two week later she breaks up with him....ahem, actually says she "wants a break." And we were suppose to move in together in two weeks from the break. So three weeks after the break, in which during those three weeks she said 'I hope it's us in the end' when I called her, she is living with and dating this guy, you guessed it, Andy. A month or so later she calls me up and says she broke up with him bcause she was cheating on her and kicked him out. She started saying she loves me, sorry, missed me, thought about me even when she was with Andy. So we unofficially got back together, in that just talked like we did before, etc. She never said she wanted to go on vacation together. So three weeks after that she says she just wants to party, being single, etc, and saysI was never her...

2007-01-04 19:49:57 · 19 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 19:47:04 · 16 answers · asked by Amber 1 in Friends

2007-01-04 19:45:49 · 8 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

Perhaps you could solve my problem by shearing your freindship with me.

2007-01-04 19:45:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

6 months ago, my internet boyfriend of over a year moved in with me. He is 51 and I am 40.

Since he has been here....we average being "intimate" maybe once every 3 weeks. And, no....I'm not ugly! lol

He says that he finds me very attractive and that I am not doing anything wrong. Yet, we never seem to....you know.

Was I expecting too much in thinking that there would be a "honeymoon phase", at least? My ego is seriously bruised here. I've NEVER .....ever....found myself in this situation.

His "parts" seem to be in perfect working order. He swears he loves me and that I am pretty. But, something isn't adding up. He's also not very affectionate....like lovers tend to tweek each other on the butt, etc.

I know stress can affect things. But, my God.....for these whole six months!?

What do you think?

2007-01-04 19:45:05 · 12 answers · asked by treefrog 4 in Singles & Dating

money,life,family or others

2007-01-04 19:44:26 · 16 answers · asked by gurung g 1 in Friends

2007-01-04 19:43:26 · 22 answers · asked by atowneddie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 19:42:20 · 9 answers · asked by frida c 1 in Weddings

basically i've already let him see me 3 times, i didnt kiss him, and the last time i did kiss him was about a year ago (he's only had a gf 2 months) but i decided i am going to win him over, because he knows he's in love with me, and i know he wants to be with me. i know what you're thinking "if he wants to be with you than he would be", but thats not true, he doesnt want to break this girls heart, and shes home and im away at school, and i do that wishy washy ****, and im so indecisive. he wanted to be with me and when he asked me if we'd ever be together i said "i dont know what to tell you". How should i win him over? I go back to college sunday, and he wants to see me tomorrow.

2007-01-04 19:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well i asked him a lot of question about him and his girlfriend. And i cant have a girlfriend because my mom says so.

2007-01-04 19:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by Astroid992 1 in Singles & Dating

he is being very rude to me in front of our daughter. I don't care what he says to me, it's just words and I know that he is hurt and angry.
He doesn't understand that I just don't love him any more. I didn't want to hurt him, but I was so unhappy with the way things were, but he cannot say these things to me in front of our child.
Anyway, now I can't even look at him without a nasty comment being thrown at me.
How can I get him to stop doing this in front of her? If I try to talk to him about it, it makes him worse. I don't want to fight, but this can't go on.
Has anyone had any similar experiances?
Sensible advice only please - there is a child involved, Thanks.

2007-01-04 19:37:46 · 18 answers · asked by HowdoIknowthat?? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I came home early and found Kenneth, the long term boyfriend of my best friend Barbara in a compromising position with Barbara's arch rival Sindy. To make matters worse Sindy was wearing one of Barbara's new spandex dresses.
What should I do?

2007-01-04 19:36:59 · 26 answers · asked by PomOnTour 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 19:36:09 · 1 answers · asked by dana5169 7 in Friends

it's hard when my boyfriend has a ton of girl friends that chase him around like puppies and always want to hang out with him and try to get with him. We've been dating for 5 months and I know he loves me, he's never cheated and I've never given him a reason to cheat on me but he seriously has about 70 girl's phone numbers in his cell phone that call him and want to hang out with him regularly - and he does. He rarely tells me when he hangs out with him or what they do. If I tell him that it bothers me, he gets angry and hurt that I don't trust him, but it's so hard! I don't want jealousy to ruin our relationship :(

2007-01-04 19:33:45 · 17 answers · asked by skyddsangel3 2 in Singles & Dating

but work under the table to hide the income? Or don’t even bother to have visitation? do they honestly think they are a good parent?

2007-01-04 19:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Yvette B yvetteb 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'll pick my boyfriend at airport tomorrow so i want to surprise him but i have no idea, how to suprise him. If i give flower or doll i think it's simple and he's a man... so guys have any good idea? please help me

2007-01-04 19:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by bonnie_blink 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 19:33:07 · 1 answers · asked by pretty_trya 1 in Friends

okay, so me and my fiance have some issuses with our wedding.. my fiance wants his cousin as one of my bridesmaids and i don't even know her, now i want my 2 guy friends in my wedding, my fiance know my guys friends....so how can i have my guys friends on my side but have a girl on his side? wont that look wierd? and he wants 2 best men, and I only want have one maid of honor, so should I have 2 or he have 1? and finally...his 2 "best men" both have horable hair...like one guys gets mistaken for a girl all the time and the other puts his in the nasty ponytail...so is it rude to tell them both they need to do something with it otherwise their not in the wedding? please help me!

2007-01-04 19:30:53 · 8 answers · asked by THE 3 in Weddings

i have no problem showing my feeling to someone i like actually if i like you u usually know it and i write poetry for all my gfs and exs so is this ok ,guys dont awnser plz

2007-01-04 19:28:15 · 13 answers · asked by fuzzle master 1 in Singles & Dating

We were Ex bf & gf for over 2 years....My ex bf met another girl and they became bf & Gf for 2 years already.... why did he not choose me?...what is wrong in me?...did he never love me at all, thats why he came move on so quickly..
why do i still miss him when he doesnt even care about me anymore...why is he still in my mind...i am bored of myself...i can't see them together...i want to forget him completely...how will i do that.. what should i do...?

2007-01-04 19:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by swap 2 in Singles & Dating

If a person told another that he/she loves you, and you don't know if you feel the same way; what should you do or say with your mixed feelings? Your afraid that it could all be enfatuation.

2007-01-04 19:26:14 · 5 answers · asked by megan 1 in Singles & Dating

for some reason guys hate me. dunno why, i'm not ugly or anything. i think its coz of my personality, i'm kinda weird. like a random kinda weird.unless i don't act like myself, i don't think anyone will love me for who i am. i dont fit into any genre either. sample outfit: purple fishnets, long black lacy skirt, checked flats, beret, bright blue gloves, DIY "hehehe" slogan top. everytime i go out, ppl stare at me. is it coz i dress weird? dunno.

2007-01-04 19:26:06 · 26 answers · asked by revengeofthemisfit 2 in Singles & Dating

he told me that his trust on me lessen for almost 2 months now,he explained to me why. But when i asked him if he still loves me,he said its complicating. I gues that means his love lessen too.He dont call me love anymore,he dont hugg me if he do its because i asked him and he dont say I LOVE YOU anymore. Does our realtionship has a future? Does he wants to break up with me?

2007-01-04 19:25:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He leaves pop cans, dishes, dirty clothes everywhere! Ive tried asking nicely, crabbing, hinting, outright asking him etc........
Ive even started throwing his clothes away when he leaves them laying around. Ive stopped doing his laundry( not long enough for him to notice though)

2007-01-04 19:24:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I let him keep the thong of course, but should I keep my panties hidden from him, or should I just tell my parents what he has done. Are there any men out there that have stolen panties? (It doesn't matter who they were stolen from) And what happend, I'm really worried that my brother may have a crush on me.

2007-01-04 19:24:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know friends are important in our lives... but he left us (me 5months pregnant and his 20month old son) for partying and his friends... i don't get... what does this mean?

2007-01-04 19:23:35 · 9 answers · asked by boodoll311 1 in Friends

to the left or the to the right?????

2007-01-04 19:22:26 · 12 answers · asked by mikenohio45 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I remember I would go talk to girls who weren't interested and I would sit and struggle for what to talk about next.Not realizing that if it was meant to be I would be relaxed and comfortable around this person.I'm married now, much older and I think much wiser.

2007-01-04 19:22:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 19:21:44 · 16 answers · asked by Femi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

just want to know what you guys think

2007-01-04 19:21:22 · 8 answers · asked by cute amber 4 in Other - Family & Relationships