basically i've already let him see me 3 times, i didnt kiss him, and the last time i did kiss him was about a year ago (he's only had a gf 2 months) but i decided i am going to win him over, because he knows he's in love with me, and i know he wants to be with me. i know what you're thinking "if he wants to be with you than he would be", but thats not true, he doesnt want to break this girls heart, and shes home and im away at school, and i do that wishy washy ****, and im so indecisive. he wanted to be with me and when he asked me if we'd ever be together i said "i dont know what to tell you". How should i win him over? I go back to college sunday, and he wants to see me tomorrow.
2007-01-04 19:40:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh well i am positive he is into me, he told me today that he will always be crazy about me and he also said he wished things turned out different, and said he couldnt believe i didnt want him.
and not that looks have much to do with it, but i know he loves me, and im better looking than her.
2007-01-04 19:50:42 · update #1
Hi! it's me again...my other username was julka, and you chose my answer as the the best in the last question.
ok, i totally understand you. It looks like you two are meant to stay together, and he seems to be strongly in love with you no matter if he has a girlfriend or not. But that's not good enough for now...
If his current girlfriend is a sweet girl and he doesn't want to hurt her, then what in the world is he doing sweet-talking another woman (you) ? I know for sure that the thing that would hurt me the most would be if my boyfriend was still strongly attached to someone else. Don't you see that he's hurting her and she doesn't deserve it? She deserves a guy who can be a 100% devoted to her, and he happens to be extremely devoted to you.
The way you can win him over, and i truly think that you should, is to first make him stop hurting his current girlfriend by making her believe that she is the only one for him. Explain it to him in this way, and i'm pretty sure it'll work. He seems like a nice guy and he doesn't seem to want to hurt either of you. So when you show him how it's really hurting his girlfriend, I hope he will understand.
Once there's no other woman, let him know exactly why you were so indecisive. If you have to, show him these Y! Answers...it'll probably make him understand. Tell him exactly how you feel and how sure you are that you two were meant to be together. Apologize for your earlier indecisiveness and show that you understand perfectly what he was going through when he gave up on you. Don't beg, don't ever do that...because men don't like desperate women...but explain exactly what you want now, and show him how much you love him!
I hope everything works out. good luck!
2007-01-04 20:41:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jewels232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to break the girl's heart? What a crock! If she knew he was out with another girl three times, I'm pretty sure she'd be less than pleased.
If he is in fact inlove with you then he'd better let her know. Something along the line - "Its been a great 2 months, thanks so much, good luck in the future. By the way, I'm an indecisive cad whose better left to his own devices (yadda, yadda,yadda)."
If you're away at school are you sure that he won't be seeing her or someone else while you're gone?
He sounds a little, shall we say, confused. Make sure he doesn't confuse you, too.
2007-01-04 19:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by TygerLily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie open your eys, if he really wants to be with you, he will break it off with his GF...most of the time, guys do not worry over breaking a girls heart and will do it in a second if they want to..my assumption is he wants to see if he can have you, if you say yes, great if not, he will still have his GF as a back up...and that is assuming his feelings are genuine..and not only for sex...
2007-01-04 19:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by nirvana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you absolutely 400% POSITIVE that he wants you or could your mind just be playing tricks on you? Your situation reminds me of that movie, My Best Friends Wedding with Julia Roberts.
2007-01-04 19:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's at present separated; all adult men understand those are frequently the horniest of all women - searching for action. little doubt, they the two have one factor on their ideas and it’s no longer chatting. stay as distant as you could - it’s no longer your employer. She merely needs the flavor of something new and probable gained’t be long till she strikes in on somebody else - be careful, next may well be yours.
2016-10-06 11:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do u think he is telling his gf? that he will never leave her. hes playing u if he liked u he would be with u hes using u sorry just for a support blanket just in case kinda girl. just in case it doesnt work with his gf
2007-01-04 19:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by nygirlsrdifferent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are selfish.. but so is LOVE...
your indecisive made those ppls around you suffer
and pls end all these suffering with true love.
Tell him you love him when you see him tomorrow.
2007-01-04 19:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by Badmanfor3v3r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and see him and tell him how you feel about him. and tell him that you want to be with him day in and day out.
2007-01-04 19:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C HIM IF YOU LOVE HIM AND TELL HIM U DO!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 19:43:45 · answer #9 · answered by bethanydoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-04 19:43:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋