2007-01-04 19:43:26 · 22 answers · asked by atowneddie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't say I didn't want to marry the girl. I've only been dating her for 2 months. After only 2 months she asked to meet my parents. I wasn't ready to introduce her to them so I said what I said. Who knows? She may eventually be the one. But right now it's too soon to decide. I'm a strong believer in NOT starting a relationship with someone I DON'T plan on marrying. So I'm not stringing her along. I would never do that to someone.
2007-01-04 20:15:47 · update #1
Well I dont think it's bad. I think it's fair enough.
Hang in there buddy!
2007-01-04 19:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Dear,
First of all why did you approach her as a boy friend?Only to satisfy your sexual desire?To use her as sex object?It is really bad.Look at yourself.This girl wants to meet your parents thinking you are her life long friend/partner.She did not know you want her to use her only for one purpose,sex.I am sure you did not tell her from the beginning that you wanted her only for this purpose.You hide the truth until you get something from her.That is it.I advise you if you do not marry her please stop this opposite sex relationship.Let her live her modest life.Let her choose her life long partner.You yourself should opt out behaving the way you are behaving.God created one man for one woman and vice verse.Even this happens when your age level and other preconditions are fulfilled.
Sorry, I did not see or read your additional details.It is really convincing if you do it that way.Yes you need to observe and study her before you do anything.She is a bit hurry to see your parents.Tell her she also need to study you.Your relationship should not base on materials,beauty or fame.It must be on true love.Do it slowly.
Let God help you to do that.
2007-01-05 04:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by girum_tadesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how you told her. If you just said, 'No, I don't think you should meet them cause I don't plan on marry ing you, then, yes, it was wrong and rude besides. If you said 'I think it's a bit early for you to meet my parents. Why don't we just get to know each other better before we take that step, then no, I think it was fine. No reason to rush things if you aren't ready
2007-01-05 05:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is Wrong with you?? What type of person strings a long a girl when they have no intentions of being with them. Do you have no morals or respect for others??
I doubt your that amazing you have the right to treat and drag someone along like that.
2007-01-05 03:46:14 · answer #4 · answered by Legitwork2007 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there would be no problem if you just took her to meet your parents, it doesn't mean that you definitely should get married after that.
2007-01-05 07:45:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is more rude than anything. And what is wrong with your girlfriend meeting your parents. Meeting them isn't a sign of commitment or any future.
2007-01-05 03:46:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally i think its a waste of time to get into a relationship if u dont intend to make it long term.,...but then again..thats your individual choice. anyways,it wouldnt really have hurt to make her meet your parents. if she's felt bad bout what u said,it definitely IS bad.If u guys have already decided its a short term,just-for-fun relationship...then i dont think she should mind
2007-01-05 03:51:46 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you only intend to make use of this person, you might continue being honest and tell her that. Hopefully, she'll then have the good sense to drop you.
2007-01-05 04:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very bad. I'd be surprised if she stayed with you. Most people are in g/f-b/f relationships to see if that person is the one not to just kill time.
2007-01-05 03:58:01 · answer #9 · answered by LC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah it is way bad. so what if you do not plan to marry her. it is always a good thing to let the parents see your g/f and the opposite for you.
2007-01-05 03:44:39 · answer #10 · answered by c_kaper@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah you hurt her feelings. i personally would like to meet my bf's parents because you can learn a lot about a person by their relationship with their family.
2007-01-05 04:33:35 · answer #11 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋