We were Ex bf & gf for over 2 years....My ex bf met another girl and they became bf & Gf for 2 years already.... why did he not choose me?...what is wrong in me?...did he never love me at all, thats why he came move on so quickly..
why do i still miss him when he doesnt even care about me anymore...why is he still in my mind...i am bored of myself...i can't see them together...i want to forget him completely...how will i do that.. what should i do...?
2007-01-04 19:27:31 · 7 answers · asked by swap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is so cliche but still - pick up the pieces and move on with your life. some things are just not meant to be. dont turn back until youre sure youve healed enough. i was in the same situation as you, and the fact that he started a relationship with my friend just after he broke up with me made matters much worse. just couldnt stand the pain so i left. for self-preservation i guess. little by little i shut them out of my life. i missed them terribly but eventually it doesnt hurt anymore. its been 3 years and i still think of them, but now i no longer feel the need to communicate with them, even to rekindle friendship.
youll never forget him nor the pain nor the feeling, but as time goes by, it will fade. life goes on, the world wont stop because you got stranded. remember to love yourself more =)
2007-01-05 00:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you did something that turned him off or he just outgrew you. You're weren't married so he had the "option", to move on. Try being less demanding with your boyfriends and maybe you'll have better success in your relationships. Move on like your EX has done and have a happy and productive life...instead of worrying about a guy that isn't interested in you.
You don't stop loving someone who doesn't love you any more (or never did). Love is real and One Way. If they feel the same way, that's nice but it doesn't always happen that way. So there's nothing wrong with you for still having feelings. It is wrong if you refuse to get over a jerk. That's not good for you.
2007-01-05 03:38:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think every one has been in your situation. Its hard. Theres nothing "wrong" with you. for what ever reason, he has chosen to be with another. At his point, you have to understand that you were not meant to be with him. I promise there is another great guy that will probably make you realize that you are perfect. However, before you find this great guy, you have to stop obsessing over your ex. This is not easy, but you can do it. Try to do things that you could not with your previous boyfriend. Try to keep your mind off elationships all togethre and spend time on your self. You will find the right guy. more than likly it will be when you least expect it. hang in there and good luck
2007-01-05 03:35:38 · answer #3 · answered by tomuchthinking 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means that you have self-esteem issues that you need to deal with because think it is your fault that he moved on to someone else and not take it for what it is, you were not compatible and that is the true reason. You likely need to see a counselor to deal with your issues-2 years is too long to be pining over unrequited love.
2007-01-05 03:39:06 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel this way now, but it will eventually pass. Trust it will!
all you do is just wait, move on in life.
it will take a while but be strong! go out there and live again.
there's nothing wrong with you, it's just you two were not compatible. each person is different.
dont' hold on to things.
oh yeah by the way check my source, it may help.
2007-01-05 03:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by CAT. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's hard and there is no right answer. but it happened to me too once and i couldn't understand it. why her? why not me? i guess the only answer i can come up with for you is that you just have to trust that it will be okay. i met another guy, a so much better for me guy, and now i don't wonder "why her?" i just know it was her because it wasn't right for me, ultimately. i'm sorry if that isn't much help. just know there's someone better for you.
2007-01-05 03:34:02 · answer #6 · answered by she'sawarrior 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this always happens...get over it...
2007-01-05 03:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋