Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

2007-01-04 00:33:45 · 22 answers · asked by scholar021 1 in Friends

I hav a problem talking to girlz in pubs. when i was younger i got a few rejections from girls and now that has really damaged my confidance. even when i hav a few drinks i still cant pluck up the courage to chat to girls. is there any tips people can give? what can i say to them without sounding stupid like 'do you come her often'?

2007-01-04 00:33:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it amaze you how so few women are 5'6ish, 115-120ish, 34C-24-34, with an IQ over 125, and a college degree (magna *** laude or better)? How do women expect to have a hot, intelligent, educated, kind man if they don't even have the self-respect to achieve these basics?

2007-01-04 00:33:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:33:09 · 6 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i got into a huge fight with my ex, we were friends b4 and all of my friends took her side so now they all hate me but we i dont really care, but the thing that bugs me is that they keep on talking **** behind my back and i just have let it slide so far cause i really dont care what they think but when 1 of my friends was telling me what they said i started talking **** about them then since i did that they cinfronted me and asked y i was talking **** when they clearly started it.... how does this make sence? r they immature or what? i think its kinda funny but what do u ppl think

2007-01-04 00:33:05 · 6 answers · asked by HanginByAMoment 3 in Friends

If your man who you think loves you says "we will be monogamous" and then he goes to his boss place in the 9th day of his new job and sleeps with him and then tells you that "forgive me and I am with you not with him" and a few weeks later he moves onto him and says "things change, grow up, you are a kid" to you while you did your best to make him happy and put all your priorities behind his', what would you think about this person?

2007-01-04 00:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by bubi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He has been my wingman since Kindergarten. But lately he has been through bad breakup with this chick. I told him to stay away from sharing feelings with that chick but he didn't listen to aaibmiester, now he is paying price. For example, last month we picked up couple of chicks from a bar. We brought them back to my crib, I was about to grab one of those chicks to my bedroom. But my wingman started talking about his ex and started to get emotional again. That's all those chicks were waiting for. They were talking with my wingman all night long, they thought he was sweet guy and I didn't got nothing. He ruin my entire game plan. His ex chick girl friend converted him from man to wuss.

2007-01-04 00:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Daughter is just 17 and has been with her boyfriend 2 years and 4 months at first he was lovely but now i dont like him he treats her terribly and lies all the time. His lies are stupid lies like he told her had spent £450 on her for christmas when he only spent about £100 but she felt terrible thinking he had spent all this money & as she had just started a job could not spend even near that. In the end she spent more than him. When ever they go out its always with his family never on there own he even took his mum when she paid for a meal for his birthday!. Anyway she has got friendly with a chap & says they are just friends but he brought her beautiful christmas present and she knows he wants more than to be friends. The other day a girl who's family are friends with him phoned him and my daughter had a major argument and jealously attack. She says she thinks the world of the him and knows if she went out with he would treat her well but she cant/wont finish with boyfriend why ??

2007-01-04 00:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by pinkjaneyjane 1 in Singles & Dating

im in the 6th grade and i cant stop thinkin bout my best friend!he ONLY wants to be friends....what do i do?

2007-01-04 00:30:05 · 4 answers · asked by Casey B 1 in Singles & Dating

had a crush on this guy(he works in a nearby mall) for a month i think and last sunday..i finally plucked up my courage and got my friend to pass him a note with my number on it and prayed hard he'll get back to me..he's not attractive at all with pretty bad complexion & quite unfriendly,don't ask me why i like him,the feeling's just there,i don't quite get it either.well when my friend passed him the note,he looked so shock and he looked at me for a while and went on to read the note without even smiling.i guess he can never imagine a girl will pass a note to him and doesn't know what to do with my number..i'm considered as quite an attractive girl,like what my friends said,sweet and demure..i've been waiting for his reply since sunday till now and disappointment overwhelms me each time i don't get his reponse,it's only polite to return a msg,afterall i just requested to be friends!been ages since i cried & now i really feel like tearing..

2007-01-04 00:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been seeing this girl naw for a few months naw, when we sleep (not sex) together she feels really relaxed and comfortable with me and has never had it before, she said in previous relationships she did not like being 'hugged' when falling asleep, but im different, she feels safe??

is this a good sign, i dont want us to fall in to the 'lets just be friends'..

We have been on loads of dates, drinks, dinner, go places, do loads together, and having awesome sex..


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2007-01-04 00:28:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have two kids with my husband, WHICH MAKE MY SITUATION MORE COMPLICATED. The last year his job claim moved him away and we haven't been able to see each other much, but we still found things to argue about. I was pregnant too. I just don't want to be with him anymore, I'm not happy. I know it's better for kids if parents stay together but, is it really better for them if we fight all the time? I just want to do the best I can for them, but be happy too. If I don't stay with him, my kids won't be able to see their Dad for months at a time. I need help and please spare me about marriage being sacred. I love him and I didn't want to hurt him but, I dont want to be with him anymore. He brought this on himself. He Secretly spent the last 2 years lying and cheating behind my back and had a baby with that person, 3 months after our baby was born. He begged me to work it out, I tried, I really did, but I just can't forget it, he betrayed me. He ran back to her because I left.

2007-01-04 00:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by babydollgem 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 00:27:57 · 26 answers · asked by Drazic 1 in Singles & Dating

i WOULD LIKE TO GO OUT WITH HIM HES VERY NICE BUT I LIKE TO BE FRIENDS FIRST SHOULD I GO UP TO HIM today and say what to him?

2007-01-04 00:26:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:26:01 · 10 answers · asked by NIKKI S 2 in Friends

I'm really hurt my heart hurts all the time i keep thinking about him what should i do

2007-01-04 00:25:59 · 10 answers · asked by mima 2 in Singles & Dating

we're just dating, nothing real serious. we've already been intimate. im looking for something of a romantic feel. i live in NJ. staying home or going out it doesn't matter

2007-01-04 00:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by kindkayeye/im a chick 2 in Singles & Dating

why must my dad cite examples of me so called failing my exams . i mean i never failed a major exam in my life before i remember failing one class test and i cried because i never failed in my life before and only failed by 2 marks (that was when i was 14yrs). and he keeps telling my 11 year old brother about how i was stupid to fail , stupid to teach people stupid to talk on the phone too much ..
can u imagine after 11 yrs he still bring the thing up !!! i mean come on i already have my degree and he still thinks im stupid. why must be pick on me since i'm the oldest? why can he cite example on my the rest? they are school dropouts failed their major exams smoke drugs and i;m still the bad one!!!
i was so pissed off i told him off and he still make it as if its a big deal.. i mean why does he hates me so much

2007-01-04 00:25:09 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This does not pertain to anything involuntary.

Your opinions/answers are appreciated. : )

2007-01-04 00:23:20 · 13 answers · asked by Supa' 2 in Singles & Dating

It's because I'm in love with her.
I sensed she loved me, but then, now, she loved someone else who doesn't even give a crap for her.

2007-01-04 00:21:50 · 16 answers · asked by Nicko C 1 in Singles & Dating

i have getting my decree nisa through. but i have not yet recieved my decree absolute hasnt been confirmed yet. can i still get engadged to my boyfriend

2007-01-04 00:21:03 · 24 answers · asked by sexy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 00:20:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Even though you love them, in situations when your partner can sometimes become aggressive and disrespectful does the bad outweigh the good?

2007-01-04 00:20:00 · 17 answers · asked by kim_884 1 in Singles & Dating

Power, control, strength......
You see it more and more on TV shows and commercials, Movies and hear it on the radio....women with muscles, boosy, in charge, strong, fighting men and beating them, smarter than anyone....I for one am not buying this strong woman thing...how about you

2007-01-04 00:19:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Inorder to stay out of jail i had to leave state and every one behind

2007-01-04 00:19:25 · 11 answers · asked by Carl G 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband is a big mama's boy and for christmas and new year's vacation he drove me crazy. We live with his mother and during his time here (HE IS IN THE ARMY) he spent the day with me and our baby and at night with his mom. He puts his mom before me and our baby. I dont know what to do. His mom calls me selfish and my husband does to. Now that he left back to the military base me and his mom dont get along. any suggestions. He is talking about divorice cause he will not leave his mother. She is ruining our marrgiage. I love him alot. But he needs to separate himself from her.

2007-01-04 00:19:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

come to me and get some beauty, perhaps get a life.....i might snatch ur husbands as well lmfao!!!!

2007-01-04 00:18:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 00:17:35 · 14 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Singles & Dating

I have recently been involved in a messy break-up with a person who I was sleeping with at my place of employment. Since then I have moved department and offices, but people in my old job have found out about us having sex some believe it and some don't she is denying it, she is 11 years older than me.

Since I have tried talking to her she has reported me to anti-social team who I have met with, when I told them the truth that we were having sex they explained she had told them our relationship was purely platonic. I know I must cut contact and I have done but I still wonder about the future consequences from this. It's affected me slightly mentally. Would you quit your job if you were me?

2007-01-04 00:17:11 · 4 answers · asked by dgdsgsd d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm trying to get in touch with an old college friend, how can i do a people search free online? I've spent some time looking for him, but the only 'people search' sites i can find charge fees. Is it possible to perform any other type of search?

2007-01-04 00:16:36 · 4 answers · asked by Brett G 2 in Friends