He has been my wingman since Kindergarten. But lately he has been through bad breakup with this chick. I told him to stay away from sharing feelings with that chick but he didn't listen to aaibmiester, now he is paying price. For example, last month we picked up couple of chicks from a bar. We brought them back to my crib, I was about to grab one of those chicks to my bedroom. But my wingman started talking about his ex and started to get emotional again. That's all those chicks were waiting for. They were talking with my wingman all night long, they thought he was sweet guy and I didn't got nothing. He ruin my entire game plan. His ex chick girl friend converted him from man to wuss.
2007-01-04 00:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Based on your questions and answers I've just read, I'd say you need a new attitude, not a new wingman.
2007-01-04 03:56:05 · answer #1 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard to find good wingman and to train someone new. He will be over it in a month or two and it will be all sweet. You could try others in the meantime just in case it takes a little longer but that is such a long process to get in synch it will probably be no less frustrating than what happened the other night.
2007-01-04 00:42:56 · answer #2 · answered by vertical c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he hadn't built himself up from the inside and was mostly working on techniques. Getting good results and some bad but the bad out weighing the good. For him to get over it i would suggest taking him to the gym, a good few sessions on the punchbag will realese some of the tension. If he tells his feelings to women and spends time with them he is going to become a girly man again and you will lose your wingman. Tell him to write his feelings down about his ex, then burn them (not in the house lol). Get some comedy films or stand up comedy and watch them with him, gve him sometihng to laugh about. It also may be good in a couple weeks to take him out and do some pick-ups with him (just to show how easy it is to get back into it) but don't take them home, do that by yourself.
2007-01-04 01:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by SiriuS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a chick, and I can say there's nothing more interesting than a guy who's showing his emotions and all that, but he needs to go do that on his own time if it's ruining your game. Tell him to quit blubbering to the babes you bring home. New rule: "The crib is a no whining zone." Do you have any women friends or relatives you can send him shopping/having lunch/clubbing with so he can cry on their shoulders, maybe get it out of his system?
2007-01-04 00:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by Torchbug 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hooking up is your goal then yes, I'd change your wingman for awhile. He's going to do this (pour out his feelings to your targets) until he gets over his girl. Don't make a permanent change, you can't abandon your bud like that. Spend "non-hookup searching" times with him so keep the friendship going and keep the wingman connection open for when he's ready to return.
2007-01-04 00:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask such silly questions i never know whether or not you are actually asking something truthful but here goes,,,,,,,,,,these women gave him what he should get from you,,as a friend. he needs someone to talk to,he needs support to get over this ex girlfriend and if you were there for him he would get over it al lot quicker,,im not surprised they ignored you,,they more than likely thought you were a plank and they were in better company with him even if he was upset and no doubt it helped being able to talk to them too.he doesnt need women he needs time and you ,as a friend should respect that,,if he was all ok he would have been in the next room with one of those women wouldnt he and not wasted his night talking about how he is hurt!
2007-01-04 00:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really needs to get over that girl , he is waiting around for nothing . Maybe you have tried what he was doing , and you might have still had that girl for the night .
2007-01-04 00:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by christina3661@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id get a new wingman if hes stealing ur girls unintentinal as it is hes got to go
2007-01-04 00:39:45 · answer #8 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have money, no pals, and you're in California? There are prostitutes around, i'm specific. i'm hoping you reside out your years with out the pals you presently don't have. EDIT: @ Jennifer - you're warm ;)
2016-10-06 10:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always worked alone...now you know why....
2007-01-04 00:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋