Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

2007-01-04 01:32:58 · 17 answers · asked by an_articulate_soul 4 in Marriage & Divorce

a girl i like and i had a conversation where we agreed to just be friends bc even though we both kind of like each other, we are involved with other people. she was in tears after this conversation. 2 days later, she sent me poetry about an ambiguous "he" and stuff could be interpreted as being about me. a month later, when we are just friends, she posts the poem on myspace saying it is about her boyfriend. what is going on with this girl???

2007-01-04 01:32:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:32:31 · 16 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Friends

Ok! last year i was suppose to have went to the same school as my best friend right? But now my boyfriend goes to the same school as my best friend. I want to be wit them at the same school, but my mom want let me. she thinks that the school that my best friend & boyfriend goes to isn't teachin anything and she don't want me to go, but that's not true!!! Even though the school that i am in now is a 7 day period school & the school that i want to go to is a 4 day period school and my mother had said that it will mess up my credits. I "TOLD" her I knew that and i was willing to take a chance!! Because the school I go to I have little friends and I want to be wit my Boyfriend and my best friend!! Please get back to me wit the answer to this problem because I need "HELP"!!!

2007-01-04 01:32:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

met a guy and a bar and he's come 300miles to see me and wants to come again soon. but he seems to fancy my best friend (keeps talking about her and wants to know what she thinks of him). i asked him if we were being exclusive and not dating other people but he didn't really say anything...should i keep dating others? not that i have anyone but theoretically. i really really like him but i think he might only like me cos im a bit older than him and its 'cool' to have a bit of an older woman (he is 18)...argh sorry long question cheers

2007-01-04 01:30:42 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now don't get me wrong - I like peanut butter - but she puts way too much on her toast and it makes me feel sick. What should I do ?

2007-01-04 01:30:26 · 41 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

i'm 17 and so is my gf. i think we're inlove. we're really serious. we're ready to sleep together but there are alot of risks. i'm thinking maybe i'm more scared about the risks than i really want to do it. how can i make 100% we'l be ok. is there anyway i couldn't wear a condom? me and my girlfriend both don't want it.

2007-01-04 01:30:12 · 20 answers · asked by Sammy ! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:30:10 · 77 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Weddings

I have this X best friend, who I used to tell all of my secrets to. Then she suddenly decided she would go and tell the whole school all of my secrets!!! She is also making up lies too. I have a lot of classes with her so it is impossible to avoid her. how do i get her off of my back?

2007-01-04 01:29:29 · 21 answers · asked by annabanana 2 in Friends

We have only been together 2 months, but we are thinking about moving in together... Bad idea?
I am not nieve. I have never been so happy in my life. I never want to be away from him...

2007-01-04 01:29:01 · 1 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Singles & Dating

i've liked this guy 4 ages now and we're always flirtin and stuff and he's even admitted that he really likes me 2.. he's on a break with his gf who i dint find out about until a couple of weeks ago..

why do you think he didn't tell me about her?

we both want each other but i dont know if sex is all he wants (which i obviously dont since i've liked him for ages!) i'd like to think that there was some hope of us gettin together but how can i be sure that the girl is def. out of the picture? he says she annoyed him and once he said he cant see them ever getting back together.. but i dont know if i believe him.

what do you think? tell me anything bcos im so confused :(

2007-01-04 01:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this guy in 2005 and the we started dating,but things didn't work out coz he was so busy trying to run his bussiness i then deciced to leave him alone and move on.Last year he saw my friend and told her how much he misses me and asked for my numbers.We are now comunicating again and i know i still like him a lot and i know he also like me but he is not making any moves. I decided to give him time and wait for him until he is ready to make a move just in case history repeats its self.

2007-01-04 01:27:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought all men were cheaters until I met my recent BF, then a few days ago I went through his phone and came across this one sms where he declares his undying lov to anotha gal. He claims his cousin sent it with his phone, I want to bliv him but.... I never had any reason to doubt him until now....

2007-01-04 01:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

She is a very good friend of mine, and she wrote me a check for the money she owed but it bounced. She knows it bounced and has mentioned giving me the cash but she keeps putting it off. How do I approach her about paying me back?

2007-01-04 01:27:24 · 7 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Friends

i am married for the past 14mths,since the last six months my wife has left my house & staying with her parents house, re coming back to me she keeps on changing her mind every now & then once she says that she wants to be with me ,then says she dont want to come back to my house , she dont want me to keep any conditions on her returning ,it made very clear that she will be staying with my family(its a joint fly) but after marriage she made all sort of excuses of getting out of my house, now doubt if she has some sort of pscychological disorder, she has made my life hell, how do i get out of this situation i am a catholic, is church anullment neccassary before a court divorce or can i directly apply for a court divore, how can i make my case strong , she is not willing to see a psychiatrist ,mentally she is very unstable, earlier too she left for her parents house i was abroad then since the last seven months i am in mumbai?need your help guys ,more details available on request,thnx

2007-01-04 01:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by stanley 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am married for 13 yrs with 3children , at first i thought the man i married is the one i love and we're happy but time past by my husband getting noisy we having fight almost everyday because of my kids , im getting tired of it but he is kind caring . few months ago i met this guy on internet he is single we talk everyday ,sending emails and saying sweet words ,sharing happy moments and bad because of that i feel something diffrent i think i started to fall for him i couldnt erased him into my thoughts . i told him that i am married and has kids he accept me he says he love me . we want to see each other in person to know how we really feel with each other . many things bothering me i dont know if he is true to me , what if we realized that we really love each other im still married and i dont know how to explain it to my kids.

2007-01-04 01:25:52 · 21 answers · asked by majo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, is it one's business to know what happened in their partner's past, such as the age they lost their virginity...how many partners...etc?

2007-01-04 01:25:14 · 12 answers · asked by jrhod263 3 in Singles & Dating

I keep seeing funny questions, and so many girls just miss the humour and give a straight answer. Today we've had the bloke who complained that his wife was ill in bed and had to do all his own domestic work, did he grounds for devoce, his girlfriend claimed he did, and how did all the girls respond??? Just now there is the "My friends brother said to show him mine and he'd show me his" Again all the girls see the joke sail right over their heads and give serious answers.

Come on girls, why are you so soft??

2007-01-04 01:25:10 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does it mean he likes you even tho he waits bout 3/4 days to call?!!! He told me that just cuz he isn't callin me doesn't mean he isn't thinking bout me. Everytime, I call, without fail, he'll answer....what do you think hes doing/feeling?

2007-01-04 01:24:39 · 11 answers · asked by Angelina M 1 in Singles & Dating

If he doesn't pick me to be his partner for life, I feel the reason would be because I can't get pregnant. I left my ex because he cheated on me for years. Since I thought that I would be with my ex forever, I made the decision to not have any more. We have three between the both of us (one together). My guy friend has two right now. It makes lots of sense that he would want a baby by his wife. I have always wanted to adopt. I feel that that idea might turn him off though. At this early point in our relationship (met one year ago, just lovers) should I bring it up now? I don't want to regret not talking about it, then when it's too late he says "you should have said something". What would you do?

2007-01-04 01:24:25 · 4 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:23:57 · 26 answers · asked by karenjahn44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Stuck in the middle only have a 100 pound to spend. Its not enough to hire a hall, bouncy castle or disc jockey. So thinking a soft play centre, with family and a few chosen classmates - or - pizza hut with just the family and cinema later. The trouble with inviting classmates, last year nobody turned up, even thou they accepted the invitation. I dont want a repeat of last year. It ruined his birthday.

The reason why i worry so much about it is, because his cousins who we invite have the full works when its their birthday and i often get critized from the in-laws and adult realtives about my choice in parties.

2007-01-04 01:23:51 · 9 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family

Im a wedding planner with 4 years experience and would like to give all you couples who's just got engeged the opportunity to let me help you organise you weddings for free. Offer only for a month (january 2007)If interested please email me for further info at Hannah_clarke32@hotmail.co.uk

2007-01-04 01:23:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Why do you love your spouse? gf / bf? ( or another loved one ) What is the best thing about them?

2007-01-04 01:23:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She does it so hard that i get bruises from it

2007-01-04 01:23:19 · 10 answers · asked by Son of the bunboy 1 in Singles & Dating

hey everyone,
Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 months now and it was about a year and a half ago we met. we both knew deep down that we had liked each other but cudnt admit to one another. cut the story short. on tuesday night he asked to see me on friday (2moro) but has i am working i cant make it, so i asked him about cuming thursday which is today after college and he told me he was working, as i had finished college early, me and my mate wer driving down town, and to notice he was driving pass us with another girl in the car. so i txtd him sayin " i asked him how was work and wat he was up to?" as time went by it was eating me up and he stil never replyed to me. so i txtd him sayin " that i had seen him dwn town and that i thought he was at work" i get a reply back sayin " lol, wer r u lot now" so i txtd bk sayin "going back to friends" and then i neva got a reply back, i tryed ringing an the fone is switched off... where have i gone rong? and wat wud u think? xX

2007-01-04 01:23:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am an office manager at a doctors office for sometime now. The doctor i work for is not nice. Anyhow she has now hired another "office Manager" i dont know why. she says he is here to help out. but now on all the office policies for rules in the office she has wrote his name for questions regarding any office issues!. Mind you this guy has never even worked in a doctors office before! she is now telling him to tell me what to do!. should i confront her about this i feel very disrespected! even patients are looking at me funny as if i am no longer the office manager cause when he introduces himself he says HE is the manager!

2007-01-04 01:22:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've loved this guy for a really long time. I know that he likes me but he hasn't made any moves to be with me and it is partially my fault. I'm pretty smitten over him and I know he knows I am. He only shows his feelings for me when he is drunk or vulnerable. Saying he loves me, getting jealous over guys talking to me, being territorial. During December I started seeing this other guy. No questions asked hands down I know he likes me. I don't have to question it. He tells me! I like him too but not in the way I like the other guy. I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt the guy I'm with but my heart wants what it wants. The thing is that I can't wait forever for the guy I love to come around. I don't know how to push him out of my heart to give this new guy a real chance. Can I have it both ways and just see what happens or do I need to do something?

2007-01-04 01:21:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm crazy about this guy i think he likes me but i'm not sure. he acts like it when we're together! but our friends are always around so nothing happens. he's shy. should i make a move, ask himout or something? i don't want to be "friends!" i like him too much for that!!!

2007-01-04 01:21:12 · 17 answers · asked by Phoebe 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:20:47 · 20 answers · asked by Forever Rad 1 in Marriage & Divorce