had a crush on this guy(he works in a nearby mall) for a month i think and last sunday..i finally plucked up my courage and got my friend to pass him a note with my number on it and prayed hard he'll get back to me..he's not attractive at all with pretty bad complexion & quite unfriendly,don't ask me why i like him,the feeling's just there,i don't quite get it either.well when my friend passed him the note,he looked so shock and he looked at me for a while and went on to read the note without even smiling.i guess he can never imagine a girl will pass a note to him and doesn't know what to do with my number..i'm considered as quite an attractive girl,like what my friends said,sweet and demure..i've been waiting for his reply since sunday till now and disappointment overwhelms me each time i don't get his reponse,it's only polite to return a msg,afterall i just requested to be friends!been ages since i cried & now i really feel like tearing..
2007-01-04 00:29:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't you stated that he wasn't really attractive and he may think that you're really not serious and he may be frighten, and may not know how to approah you.
2007-01-04 00:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, several possibilities present themselves... but first let me say that passing him a note was a very immature thing to do.
That said, he either:
1. Is gay.
2. Was turned off by having your feelings presented in a note.
3. Already has a girlfriend.
4. Is not interested in having a girlfriend
5. Cannot believe someone pretty would be interested in him, and he thinks it's all a trick.
6. Is old fashioned and doesn't like it when girls make the first move.
So, if you really like him, you need to get a spine and go up to him and ask him directly if he would like to go out on a date.
2007-01-04 08:34:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are talking about, but just because he doesn't seem attractive doesn't mean he isn't to you, and you obviously are attracted to him making him attractive in some case. Anyway, he could be very shy and intimidated to approah you or reply, because you didn't approach him with the letter, someone else did. Or believe it or not, he probably isn't interested, not that I would hope that is the case, because I hope he does like you. I know plenty of guys who don't appear on the attractive side, but they have a charm girls like, and they become cocky just like any other guy, because they know they can get with these girls at ease. But maybe you should ask him, talk to him to see what he wants. Don't assume the worst or the best until you talk to him. Good Luck
Krazy Libra
2007-01-04 08:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by krazy_libra_from_ac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!!!
u need to talk to him. Pluck up some courage, show him u r not to be put off and just go tell him how u feel. If ur easily embarrased well...... pass him a note asking him to reply u know that kind of thing or find a quite place to sit and chat.
trust me u'll be alright. Hve a good day.
2007-01-04 08:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by asian~drama~freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he has a girlfriend or isn't in to girls. Be confident, don't cry over a chance you took. You have to be willing to take chances if you are ever going to have a relationship. If he never writes back then no harm no foul. You probably made him feel good about himself just by writing him the note.
2007-01-04 08:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Marsha P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really shocked him
i think he thought that you just playing him
cause (i don't know if you're pretty attractive i don't know) but i think you are so now he's thinking that you're playing a game with him, and that's why he doesn't response you'll have to tell him that you like him and that you want to go out sometime or something else i hope it would work
2007-01-04 08:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is go strait up to him and talk to him! if hes been bullied or teased because hes not a great looking guy he might thing you are being nasty and planning to do something mean to him. or if you really dont have the courage to actully go and talk to him ask your friend to go get his number for you and then text him or call him
2007-01-04 08:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by caz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! it is only your opinion that hes unfriendly, not attractive etc. maybe he thinks that of you thats why he hasent responded. personality is the only important factor and from your question i feel you have been rude and really put this person down. i wouldnt want to be with anyone who thought that of me!!
2007-01-04 08:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by flubberlubberlubber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is shy coz as u said he is not attractive give him another chance or maybe he is married or engaged or he have a girlfriend so u need 2 talk 2 him face by face i wish u luck
2007-01-04 08:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by em omar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just doesnt have the same feelings for you and if thats the case then let go and find soemone else better
I really like, however, that you looked beyond his looks and liked him for whats inside! Props to you!
2007-01-04 08:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by Krystyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey move on if he was interested he would have call by the end of the day. there are many many men out there so don't stop at one, keep going and maybe you'll find what your looking for, but as for him move on
2007-01-04 08:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋