Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

my boyfriend left me just before christmas he said he couldnt live with my paranoia anymore, but he still loves me and we talk everyday and he comes round sometimes too see me!!!!. i dont know where he is staying he has no house of own just an ex wife he says his brothers?!? dont no what to do am i being used

2007-01-04 01:20:17 · 22 answers · asked by purdy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

for who I am, not because I earn huge amounts of money, drive a fast car, live in a beautiful apartment and have an incredibly sexy body. Am I expecting too much ?

2007-01-04 01:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:19:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Did you give your spouse time to decide whether he/she wanted to stay married?
How long?
How did it work out?
My wife moved out 10 months ago, bought a red sports car and within weeks had a boyfriend. We have two small kids. I have no desire to remarry and I hate not seeing my kids everyday. She dumped the chump but says she needs time to think about coming back.
No, I have not put my life on hold. I am very busy when I don't have the kids and have gone out on a few dates (nothing physical or serious

2007-01-04 01:19:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my husband for 3 years, we love each other a lot, have a great sex life, have 2 boys. We are happy for the most part but we having a lot of money problems and life is just kinda rough right now. I think he is happy, but I feel like theres more I could do to keep him happy through all the bad times, I just don't know what it is. He works a lot, and I stay home with our boys, they are 2 years old, and 5 months old. I feel like he has a life with his friends and I have no life except being home with my kids. Men, tell, how can I make things better?? Women if you have advice I'll take it to!

2007-01-04 01:18:28 · 20 answers · asked by happywifenmom21@verizon.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

between if someone is attracted to you or just being friendly

2007-01-04 01:18:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:17:58 · 10 answers · asked by Pink 5 in Singles & Dating

My family, boyfriend, health, job... I am so blessed.

2007-01-04 01:17:29 · 21 answers · asked by misscongeniality711 2 in Friends

as much as possible pls favours, cake, flowers anything you can think of.

2007-01-04 01:16:53 · 19 answers · asked by ajdickson1981 1 in Weddings

I just got back together with my boyfriend of eight years after breaking up with him about a month ago. I can't sleep at night for the worry over who he may have 'met' while we were apart. I don't think it's really any of my business, as we were apart and he was single during that time, but I cannot get it off my mind. Why do I feel this way? What should I do? I really love him and we're working so hard to work this out; I don't want this to stand in the way. Do I just ask him straight out and hope I can deal with the answer? Do I give it time and hope I stop worrying? Help?!

2007-01-04 01:15:58 · 11 answers · asked by tomi27410 4 in Singles & Dating

There was this boy that I met over the summer, and about 2 months after we met, we started to go out. But little after, he said to me that he doesnt want to be in a relationship w/ me becuase he always screws them up and he doesnt want to screw us up. So when I asked if we can just be freinds, he said that he doesnt want to and he wants us to ACT like we go out, when we really don't. So for Xmas, I wanted to get him sthg that he really liked and since he was into sneakers, I bought him some which costs over $80, but since he knows the ppl@the store, i got it4a bit cheaper. So for Xmas, he was going to get me earrings and a necklace w/my name on it, but he said he waited2give them2me outside of my class, but I didnt c him. Since he said how I acted like like I didnt c him, (he cried2), he said that he returned it (when he could have given it 2 me after). When I asked him4my money back, he said that he wouldnt give me. So I ignored him for a week, and he says he wants me back in his life

2007-01-04 01:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone help me figure out what's going on in his head?
A week ago i told a friend of mine that it would be better that we didn't talk so i can get over my crush on him. before this happened, we joked around about hooking up, but then i felt bad about us joking about it. Today I wrote him a letter telling him how i felt about us joking around, and the fact we just treat each other as professionals and he didn't even say hi or acknowledge that he got the letter. He didn't even say anything at all. What do you think he's thinking?

2007-01-04 01:14:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:14:37 · 12 answers · asked by Cool guy 1 in Singles & Dating

in the last year tell all and all break ups 13 to 20 yrs old

2007-01-04 01:13:40 · 6 answers · asked by daddysgirl13211 1 in Singles & Dating

Myself and this guy get along great.i am attracted to him so i could be reading more into this situation.The guy i am attracted to came up to me first thing when we saw eachother and wished me a happy new year.Then he started involving me in conversations inadirectly when he was talking to someone else.After a little while he stopped and started talking to this guy i don't know.I don't even know of. They were talking for ages and then today the guy i don't know walked past me and said how are you going.The guy i like said something and was joking around and he looked at me to see what my reaction would be.when we talk it seems like his eyes never leave me and he asks me questions about things i've told him.so what do you think.is my attraction to this man blinding me to reality or do you think it is a reality that he likes me?

2007-01-04 01:12:48 · 6 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a man and I belive children should not be taken from their moyhers I belive men have some writes but In domestic violence the mother should have all right and all authority and I belive the father is who ever the mother wants to be please I want to right a law all mothers want and one that would help them in responding to my message please be subjective

2007-01-04 01:12:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was having a great time, she was given a big purple helium balloon from the waiter who liked her I believe. We got to the car and I go to open her door. She then takes this huge balloon, puts it on the ground and stomps on it, popping it really loud in front of everyone in the parking lot. She never says a word, just laughs evil like. I was very hurt and disappointed. Should I be? How should I read this? Should I go out with her again?

2007-01-04 01:10:54 · 17 answers · asked by Bo123654 1 in Singles & Dating

This is assuming the househusband is doing cooking, housework, etc. The wife is the breadwinner.

2007-01-04 01:10:39 · 13 answers · asked by L.A. Scene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i had a gf who got married last year.i still miss her alot. she had to get married to other guy coz of family problem but we decided to stay friends atleast. when we were seeing each other we used to talk hours on fone daily but now she hardly calls me once in two months that too for 4-5 mins.
now my question is i guess she is soon gonna call me coz its almost two months. i got so many things to tell her but dont knw wat shud i tell her?
shall i tell her that i miss her alot and love her. or shall i complain her that she is not calling me enough or caring for me. or shall i tell her abt wats happening or hpd in my life in this two months or wats happening at her side in two months or abt her marriage life or shall i ask her wat she did on 31st?
i want to say so many things but i knw she wont talk for more than 5 mins or so. so pls tell me wat shall i talk exactly?
i m 100% sure i dont want to break her marriage i want to see her happy at cost of my life.

2007-01-04 01:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by cuttienayan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I live together and he and I had a fight about porn sights. I was sick knowing he was doing it. Last night I saw that he tried to delete two suggestive pictures of women (not porn). Why try to hide something if you weren't doing anything wrong - as he claims?

2007-01-04 01:09:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He has been in rehab, jail, and we are just worn out with the situation. He is Bipolar and mentally has some problems. He has obligations like child support and past fines due. Is there anyone
who has been in a situation like this, and where did you find any relief? Any help would be appreciated. Please this is a serious matter to us, so please don't be wise.

2007-01-04 01:09:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have 3 kids and so i have wife but one day maybe 3 weeks ago i was at work and there was a women and i just had sex with her and now she's pregnant from me , my wife also is pregnant too . what should i do ???

2007-01-04 01:07:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 01:06:30 · 12 answers · asked by kishneet k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really wana b dead happy and confident like i used to be, but i get so embarrased at daft things and go very red easily. so i try my best by avoidin this sometimes. i wana b a really upbeat person like my bf with lots of mates but its just not happenning. its daft things like i wana say hun to my mates or chick but i cant cos im too shy to say it?? how weird is that? why cant i just b confident in myself and have a gud personaility and more mates???

2007-01-04 01:06:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but i didnt tell ehr his age i met him in yahoo chat and we get on hes seen tons of pics of me and i seen soem of him naked and clothed and i thinking i should og meet himb ut i worried he wont think im pretty like the ladies his age he;s about 35. im sortof fat and he might not want me like that, i know im cute but i want to be sexy for him. so im wearing this little top my older sis left me and these tight pants i look friggin hot but mybe im wearing too much? id post pics but i cant take a good one. maybe i should just have him come over when im alone so he can see me full on? what is ur advice and what should i wear for a first meeting with man of my dreams? omg he is so amazing! i mean it we might get married if im sexy enough.

2007-01-04 01:05:14 · 37 answers · asked by for sure sally 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:04:33 · 14 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance is in India now. He sent me a short email from europe saying that he will call or email & that he's doing fine. He was in Europe on his way to India. Now he is in India. He hasn't called or emailed me yet or even contacted his parents. I told him that I would buy him a calling card but he said it wasn't necessary. I kept my cell phone by my bed last night waiting for his call but he didn't call. He said he will get a calling card there. I don't even know what hotel he is staying at if I need to contact him for an emergency. His work budy has a cellphone that can be used even abroad. At least he should have used that phone call. I am I worrying unessarly? He said his work buddy is an alcoholic & goes to red light district in Europe where he stoped over for one day. I trust my man but what if his buddy needs company? I hope he hasn't gone to any bars or clubs in India with his buddy or done something stupid.Is he having a good time & forgot about me? Is he ignoring me?

2007-01-04 01:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Linda J 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my bf want a baby together but he is sayin that he wants us to wait and wats the rush, but i really want one. i had a miscarriage a while ago and ever since ive been craving to get pregnant. im not on any contraception and we are having unprotected sex but he pulls out b4 he comes inside me. wat can i do? do i just wait when getting pregnant is all i can think of?

2007-01-04 01:03:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 01:03:25 · 2 answers · asked by neutral 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy has been my classmat e for 2 years and we are quite close and he's always making me laugh sooo much! and when i laugh..he'll always stare at me and today..he just can't stop teasing me about the kind of guys that i like, those guys with a little muscle but not too much..and he began flexing his muscles,he ganged up with another guy to tease me about it and we all had a great laugh about it,though he's quite irritating at times,i feel really comfortable with him,i can be myself,but i only see him as a pal.then his friend said if he have more muscles i might just fall for him!oh gosh,what a thing to say!and then he whipped out his phone and tried to take snapshots of me!i was shocked!he has never done such things before!is he nuts??i hope he's only treating me like a pal and harbour no romantic feelings cause i might start to stray if he really does like me,i don't want to destroy this friendship cause i like being with him cause he makes me laugh soo much!!

2007-01-04 01:02:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating