There was this boy that I met over the summer, and about 2 months after we met, we started to go out. But little after, he said to me that he doesnt want to be in a relationship w/ me becuase he always screws them up and he doesnt want to screw us up. So when I asked if we can just be freinds, he said that he doesnt want to and he wants us to ACT like we go out, when we really don't. So for Xmas, I wanted to get him sthg that he really liked and since he was into sneakers, I bought him some which costs over $80, but since he knows the ppl@the store, i got it4a bit cheaper. So for Xmas, he was going to get me earrings and a necklace w/my name on it, but he said he waited2give them2me outside of my class, but I didnt c him. Since he said how I acted like like I didnt c him, (he cried2), he said that he returned it (when he could have given it 2 me after). When I asked him4my money back, he said that he wouldnt give me. So I ignored him for a week, and he says he wants me back in his life
2007-01-04 01:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're both 15, and since we talk to each other almost everyday, a week seemed like 4ever. So he said that his life hasnt been the same since and he wants me back becuase he is a wreck. He is a very horn y person and will beg me for 20 minutes straight to give him hea d. I only did it once 4 his birthday, and i didnt want 2 do it again. So now he said that he wants me 2 please him sexually since he "liked it sooo much" and when i asked him if he would want his wife (in the future, not now) to do that but he said that he couldnt wait. So now, even though he knows that I dont like doing it, he still wants me 2 do it and wants 2 u know what w/ me the next time I c him. But I dont really want 2 becuase other than the fact that we arent really 2gether and I dont want him 2 like me 4 that. Ayudame!
2007-01-04 01:18:37 · update #1
Ok. Here's what I have to say. This guy is very needy and immature. You need to consider what you want out of all of this. There is no such thing as "Acting" like you are in a relationship. From what I'm reading it sounds like you "Are" in a relationship. Sexual favours and gifts.... come on. Just because there isn't an official title doesn't mean that you are not together (especially since he can't live without you). There should be no reason why he should pressure you for anything and under no circumstances should you give in to anything that you don't want to do until you are ready. You will regret it and wish that you had waited. His past relationships failed probably because of his own immature behaviour. Relationships grow with communication, trust, honesty, love and space. If you are not ready for a sexual relationship don't do it. THEY WILL ONLY WANT MORE!!! Pressure is one hell of a thing and even though the pressure may be greater than you think you are, you will feel like an *** if you give in.
I think you need to decide if you want to be in this relationship. I personally think you shouldn't be until you are both more mature to know what you are getting into. Time heals all wounds. If you feel like you world is going to end if you don't see him for a while don't worry you will get over it. Life does go on. If id doesn't kill you it makes you stronger.
If you do decide to have sex with this person, "USE A CONDOM!". You're both too immature to have children running around.
2007-01-04 01:51:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think if he really did have your name put on a necklace,the store won't take it back.Second and most important,you don't need this emotional roller coaster!!!If he likes you,and because of past relationships-wants to just be friends/or take things slow.That is totally understandible.But this head game he is playing=you don't need!!! Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-04 09:25:55 · answer #2 · answered by stressed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a got a pair of sneakers for Christmas, it sounds like he is involved with someone else and you were a summer interest.
2007-01-04 09:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont go back in his life. he is not a person to be trusted.Ignore him totally,and forget about the money part.
2007-01-04 09:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a confusing situation. I would suggest you let him go until he or you or (best of all) both of you have figured out what you want.
2007-01-04 09:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is being a flake, just dump him and find a guy who really knows his own mind.
2007-01-04 09:20:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sharyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have not read ur question b'cas it too long. Be short and to the point.
2007-01-04 09:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by sundeep s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is very weird just forget him "i want us to act like were going out but not go out" wtf is that?
2007-01-04 09:19:11 · answer #8 · answered by HanginByAMoment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY HIM
"BYE BYE"
2007-01-04 09:34:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please! drop the zero and get a hero.
2007-01-04 09:19:23 · answer #10 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋