i had a gf who got married last year.i still miss her alot. she had to get married to other guy coz of family problem but we decided to stay friends atleast. when we were seeing each other we used to talk hours on fone daily but now she hardly calls me once in two months that too for 4-5 mins.
now my question is i guess she is soon gonna call me coz its almost two months. i got so many things to tell her but dont knw wat shud i tell her?
shall i tell her that i miss her alot and love her. or shall i complain her that she is not calling me enough or caring for me. or shall i tell her abt wats happening or hpd in my life in this two months or wats happening at her side in two months or abt her marriage life or shall i ask her wat she did on 31st?
i want to say so many things but i knw she wont talk for more than 5 mins or so. so pls tell me wat shall i talk exactly?
i m 100% sure i dont want to break her marriage i want to see her happy at cost of my life.
2007-01-04 01:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by cuttienayan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I will advise that you call her instead...
Tell her that you will only keep the line for 5 minutes and that you dont want her to say anything...
Tell her that you just want to listen to her being there...
Give these 5 minutes to both of you...
No words...
Nothing...
Just listen to her breath....
Listen to her being there...
Cry if you must...
And then stay out of her life... Move on... Put an end to this before it puts an end to you or her marriage...
2007-01-04 01:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by kaustikos1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The shut your mouth and end this. If you dont want to break up her marriage, then leave her alone. Dont take any calls from her after you tell her good by and have a happy life with your husband. Whats so hard about that.
2007-01-04 01:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by notalucky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ,
talk 2 her about wat is goin on in ur life . tell her that u miss her an u want 2 talk 2 her more often .. ask her how she is doin an how is that other dude treating her . dont let this girl go jus becuz she got married ... she is her own person she can call u more then 2 times a month!
2007-01-04 01:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Dez DrOp DeAd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u shld ask her whats happening in her life and hows her marriage and tell her some stuff about whats going on in your life right now.
i guess u must be in a dilemma now, wanting to tell her your feelings but not wanting to break up her marriage. i know how terrible it feels to have to keep your feelings to yourself and not be able to tell her. she got married to another guy due to family probs? is she happy in her marriage right now? i think thats one thing u should find out from her before u decide to tell her your feelings towards her
if she feels happy in her marriage, then the best u could do is to remain friends with her
2007-01-04 02:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Riko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are happy for her, even if you may not be 100%, it's nice to hear the support of a friend. Also tell her you hope she is very happy because she deserves to be happy.
2007-01-04 01:12:43 · answer #5 · answered by Erica, AKA Stretch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, be truthful, and yes tell her you love her and miss her.
It might be the sweetest words she might hear in ages and the only words she longs for..Good Luck.
2007-01-04 01:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mari-Mari 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY WANT TO SEE HER HAPPY AND SHE IS HAPPILY MARRIED THEN THERE'S NOTHING ELSE TO TALK ABOUT IT.
IF SHE'S NOT SHE'S THE ONE WHO HAS TO TAKE A DECISION AND WHENEVER SHE'S READY CALL YOU BACK AND TELL YOU SHE'S READY TO STAR ALL OVER AGAIN WITH YOU
2007-01-04 01:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by miaib 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to let go of her. She is someone else's wife now. I need to find someone of your own. u can talk with her of course but those feelings you have towards her need to be check. You can control them.
2007-01-04 01:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Peter M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married, would you want another guy chasing your wife. Case closed.
2007-01-04 01:13:19 · answer #9 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her u love her and tell her how u feel.
2007-01-04 01:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋